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catsmeow

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If I am correct you stated you are in a LTR, and I know it's a difficult question, but I wanna know from your exp or female friends what keeps a woman going once the " fantasy part" is gone.
I don't have a lot of time right now but are you familiar with Esther Perel? You can google her, but anyway she has a great video entitled "The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship," which I can vouch for and has worked well in my relationships these past few years since listening to her.

>>In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for distance and surprise. She discusses something called "erotic intelligence".<<

I wish I had more time to discuss the bolded but in short if a couple learns to balance those two opposing needs and there ways to do this, then chances are they will have long, successful, loving and erotic relationship for many years.
 

Gamisch

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Will definitely look it up. Also added " erotic intelligence " to my vocabulary .Nice work!!
 
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