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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

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So that 7.5/10 girl who I tried to have sex with on 4 separate days (but had ED each time) texted me at 12am this morning. I woke up at 4am and texted her back. Well she was still up and long story short I went over to her place for a 5th (yes, this is the FIFTH time I've tried to have sex with her) time and STILL had ED.

I was able to get hard at one point, put on a condom, and got the tip in before losing the erection again so technically I had sex with her but still not ideal obviously.

We then proceeded as always to grind and grind and grind as she tried to coax an erection out of me and it almost worked as I got about 80% hard for a good amlount of time but she is sooo tight I couldn't get it in and plus I didn't have a condom on when I tried the second time and she wasn't objecting so I think she just wants my d!ck.

Anyhow, this girl is blowing my mind how she keeps coming back despite my noodle d!ck. Pics below of convo.
 

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I wonder if by you not being able to get hard, she isn't getting validated by you. Causing her to chase it every now and then. All the other dudes she's been seeing are validating her by being able to become erect. I bet you just wanted to rip it off when it happened again. For me when that happened, it was more frustrating each subsequent time. You should get some viagra for when she hits you up again.
 

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I wonder if by you not being able to get hard, she isn't getting validated by you. Causing her to chase it every now and then. All the other dudes she's been seeing are validating her by being able to become erect. I bet you just wanted to rip it off when it happened again. For me when that happened, it was more frustrating each subsequent time. You should get some viagra for when she hits you up again.
Doctor says no viagra so no viagra.

But yes I agree with you. And I’m so chill about it that she prolly thinks wtf is this guy not ashamed of himself??! Hamster wheel spinning over 9000 :p

But yeah I wanted to cvm inside her so bad at that one point, I think she would have let me too she was bucking wildly
 
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Doctor says no viagra so no viagra.

But yes I agree with you. And I’m so chill about it that she prolly thinks wtf is this guy not ashamed of himself??! Hamster wheel spinning over 9000 :p

But yeah I wanted to cvm inside her so bad at that one point, I think she would have let me too she walk bucking wildly
can you not buy it online or do you mean you have some health issue which means you can;t have it? interesting story btw, you'd think she'd be put off by now, what with it happening several times.
 

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can you not buy it online or do you mean you have some health issue which means you can;t have it? interesting story btw, you'd think she'd be put off by now, what with it happening several times.
Yes I have had priapism in the past. I guess doctor is worried it’ll happen again. I am too. You can’t fvck around with that. You can do irreparable damage.

And yeah, she must really be into me. I think it’s got a lot to do with her ego tbh. Like how can a guy not get hard with her? She’s super fit. A meh face but body is lean af.

Also, she talked about her brother getting married several times since I’ve met her so she’s prolly wanting to settle down but can’t get a guy to stay normally is my guess.

No word of a lie: the first time we attempted to have sex, after about 3 hours of her grinding her naked pvssy against me and me saying I didn’t think it would happen if it hadn’t already, she asked me if I wanted to be in a relationship with her. So yeah, very interesting
 

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Yes I have had priapism in the past. I guess doctor is worried it’ll happen again. I am too. You can’t fvck around with that. You can do irreparable damage.
That's right... I forgot that you mentioned this in the past. I wonder if those djck injection types would be safer for you.
 

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Maybe she was trying to see if you were open to eating her pusssy. She could have been fishing for a response like "oh there will be fingers and tongue involved also".
 

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Maybe she was trying to see if you were open to eating her pusssy. She could have been fishing for a response like "oh there will be fingers and tongue involved also".
Interesting perspective. I see it as her trying to get me on the qualifying end. If I had said what you said, I would be qualifying. That’s a major beta move
 

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Had a first date with a potential fwb today. We went for tea, both paid separately. Then we took a walk and chatted about what we’re looking for. Seems we both on the same page. Also, apparently she found me on “hot or not” so that was an ego booster :p

Then I drove her to her car and we made out a bit. Text convo below. Hopefully she doesn’t get ASD
 

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It's good that you just went along with her saying, "Can't wait to feel those kisses further south". I would have thought you would have interpreted that as her trying to take the lead, and then reject her for it. She doesn't need to know that you aren't into pusssy eating until your djck is already in her.
 

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It's good that you just went along with her saying, "Can't wait to feel those kisses further south". I would have thought you would have interpreted that as her trying to take the lead, and then reject her for it. She doesn't need to know that you aren't into pusssy eating until your djck is already in her.
Exactly what I was thinking. Great minds think alike
 

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So that girl who claimed her niece had a medical emergency and then ghosted just texted me. Pic below.

I’m going to tell her I’m glad she reached out and to definitely hit me up when things are working for her.
 

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So my fwb been M.I.A. For about two weeks. I of course am always looking for new girls and dating so I figured she got back with an ex or some such. Anyhow today she randomly messages me out of the blue as if nothing happened. We chat for a bit, but I mention I have plans to see another girl on the weekend and she gets all hurt and calls me a liar and now doesn’t want to see me anymore.

Remember, this is the same girl who tried to get me to commit to exclusivity and I didn’t but now she claims I lied because I’m seeing other girls. Like, just wow. Women try everything. Unfortunately for her I am not a guy who can be pushed around.

I assume it’s over but maybe she’ll come back to me like before. Who knows. Pic below.
 

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