Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
Hi all just a bit of background was on SS years ago when i was probably at the peak of my game but got a bit busy with work / career & life and actually ended up in a 4 year LTR
although she was a great girl and we had some great memories the attraction between us just fizzled out think covid & endless lockdowns just about finished it off , eventually i didn't even want to fvck her because there was just no real desire there unless i was horny something just wasn't working think i sub consciously freindzoned her
we called it quits in January
lockdown is just about ending in the UK now ( thank god) so i started re assessing the field last weekend signed back up to some dating apps to see the state of play
( for reference i have kept an eye on social dynamics over the last 4 years so im not completely cold on the ****ery that's been going on )
my initial reaction is that hypergamy is absolutely wild don't get me wrong it was bad 5/6 years ago but now women don't even seem to be hiding it any longer
Instagram appears to literally be like eBay for dating and the average bid price keeps getting higher and higher via social proof
i see almost little to zero point in engaging with a chick with over 1K followers on Instagram unless you are a serious player in your area or dwarf her presence you are pissing in the wind
the same can be said for these dating apps like tinder , bumble etc utterly pointless and now seem to have been monetised to draw every last penny out of a heterosexual male
i have bad news for cold approach too with the way women's rights are developing , im not sure this is even going to be legal in a few years let alone socially acceptable don't get me wrong there are certain environment's it can still work but these are becomming far and few between
the only area i now see as truly viable for an average guy to legitimately meet and fvck quality women is through social circles
at the moment my circles are weak im approaching 30 and my hometown is dull and boring there's nowhere to go and nothing to do , i am working on building a lifestyle that will allow me to travel more but still a year or so from fully implementing that
so i guess my questions are
how are you guys coping in the field in 2021 ?
what have you noticed changing through the years ?
any tips ?
although she was a great girl and we had some great memories the attraction between us just fizzled out think covid & endless lockdowns just about finished it off , eventually i didn't even want to fvck her because there was just no real desire there unless i was horny something just wasn't working think i sub consciously freindzoned her
we called it quits in January
lockdown is just about ending in the UK now ( thank god) so i started re assessing the field last weekend signed back up to some dating apps to see the state of play
( for reference i have kept an eye on social dynamics over the last 4 years so im not completely cold on the ****ery that's been going on )
my initial reaction is that hypergamy is absolutely wild don't get me wrong it was bad 5/6 years ago but now women don't even seem to be hiding it any longer
Instagram appears to literally be like eBay for dating and the average bid price keeps getting higher and higher via social proof
i see almost little to zero point in engaging with a chick with over 1K followers on Instagram unless you are a serious player in your area or dwarf her presence you are pissing in the wind
the same can be said for these dating apps like tinder , bumble etc utterly pointless and now seem to have been monetised to draw every last penny out of a heterosexual male
i have bad news for cold approach too with the way women's rights are developing , im not sure this is even going to be legal in a few years let alone socially acceptable don't get me wrong there are certain environment's it can still work but these are becomming far and few between
the only area i now see as truly viable for an average guy to legitimately meet and fvck quality women is through social circles
at the moment my circles are weak im approaching 30 and my hometown is dull and boring there's nowhere to go and nothing to do , i am working on building a lifestyle that will allow me to travel more but still a year or so from fully implementing that
so i guess my questions are
how are you guys coping in the field in 2021 ?
what have you noticed changing through the years ?
any tips ?