I am currently doing long distance with this chick (well, I know her from before). And for my bday she sent me a hell load of expensive gifts and what not.
She was supposed to call me up on my b.day at 12:00am and talk to me
for a while. But instead she went out with her friends (one of them
getting married) for shopping but before going out she called me up and
told me she's gonna come back home asap.
Later that night she emailed me and told me that it was getting late so
she stayed at her friend's and will give me a call the next day at 3pm her time as soon as she reaches home.
Then I called her up and told her that I need a time off from her for one week. But she was all begging and pleading that it was not her fault and she would never do this sort of thing again
She further promised me that she would go back home the next day at 7am instead of 3pm and give me a buzz in the morning.
But I called her up at her at 11am the next day and found out that she was still at her friend's. She was like "I am gonna go home in 15 mins and will give you a call".
I know she's gonna come up with another excuse this time around as well. But I just can't keep up keep up with her horse manures anymore.
Some positive things about her:
-Whenever she does something wrong she says that she will make it up to me! Although it sounds like a cliché, I think she genuinely means it.
-She calls me up most of the time (expensive long distance calls) &
really into me.
-She sent me expensive gifts for my b.day.
But then again I just cannot accept this behavior and it really shows
lack of sincerity from her side.
My question is should I break up with her? Should I take time off (say, a week) or something else? Or it's not a big deal?
What would be the best thing to do in this kind of situation.
She was supposed to call me up on my b.day at 12:00am and talk to me
for a while. But instead she went out with her friends (one of them
getting married) for shopping but before going out she called me up and
told me she's gonna come back home asap.
Later that night she emailed me and told me that it was getting late so
she stayed at her friend's and will give me a call the next day at 3pm her time as soon as she reaches home.
Then I called her up and told her that I need a time off from her for one week. But she was all begging and pleading that it was not her fault and she would never do this sort of thing again
She further promised me that she would go back home the next day at 7am instead of 3pm and give me a buzz in the morning.
But I called her up at her at 11am the next day and found out that she was still at her friend's. She was like "I am gonna go home in 15 mins and will give you a call".
I know she's gonna come up with another excuse this time around as well. But I just can't keep up keep up with her horse manures anymore.
Some positive things about her:
-Whenever she does something wrong she says that she will make it up to me! Although it sounds like a cliché, I think she genuinely means it.
-She calls me up most of the time (expensive long distance calls) &
really into me.
-She sent me expensive gifts for my b.day.
But then again I just cannot accept this behavior and it really shows
lack of sincerity from her side.
My question is should I break up with her? Should I take time off (say, a week) or something else? Or it's not a big deal?
What would be the best thing to do in this kind of situation.
