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articles: Why We Need a Socialist Dating Market / Attraction Inequality and the Dating Economy

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Brutal Black Pill!

https://www.intellectualtakeout.org/article/why-we-need-socialist-dating-market
If these findings are to be believed, the great majority of women are only willing to communicate romantically with a small minority of men while most men are willing to communicate romantically with most women. The degree of inequality in “likes” and “matches” credibly measures the degree of inequality in attractiveness, and necessarily implies at least that degree of inequality in romantic experiences. It seems hard to avoid a basic conclusion: that the majority of women find the majority of men unattractive and not worth engaging with romantically, while the reverse is not true.
https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/
We may pity the large majority of men who are regarded as unattractive and who have few or no romantic experiences while a small percentage of attractive men have many. Just as much, consider that we live in a monogamous culture, and so the 20 percent of men who are regarded as attractive can only be in committed relationships with at most 20 percent of women. We may just as well pity the rest of the women, who are destined to be in committed relationships, if they pursue a relationship at all, with someone who they regard as unattractive.
 
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Garbage data with a garbage conclusion.

Most men are going to be considered “below average” in looks with OLD simply because OLD is usually the top, go-to method for meeting women with those types of guys. While simultaneously, very few men considered attractive by comparison use such sites as a primary means of meeting women.

In other words, 80% of the guys are below average on these sites.... gasp!... because they ARE. That is why they go there.

What’s more, is that 80% of the women are below average too. Below average men just rate them a little better because they’re pretty thirsty.
Going have to agree with Amante here. Ever since I've deleted my OLD profile on Bumble I've done much better IRL just fvcking around and teasing the ladies I meet. I think it's a good sign when they are touchy freely with me and give me their numbers. Less games with them. I do not plan to go back to OLD anytime soon. It really affects a man's psyche. Then again, if your a male model like Amante, I am sure one can pick up the ladies with OLD with no issues (meant to be a compliment, not judgment - watching what I post here).
 

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The data also assumes that the old profile is an accurate depiction of the individual. But I think women are much better at taking pics and making a profile than men. So they look better online than irl, and most men look worse, at least with the typical profile. That can be overcome on an individual level, but I think it is still going to be true on a macro level. Men will never have the visual con artist skills than women have.
 

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That’s it. You’re fvcking banned for calling me pretty.
Knew that was coming. Lol.

But seriously, I think average looking guys can do just fine with OLD so long as their intent is properly placed. Get out, have a little fun, no expectations.

It’s when guys are looking for any real substance and quality from these sources that they have to really step things up and compete with the best men on these sites. For a lot of guys it’s not really worth it compared to the real world encounters they are capable of.
I'd put on a template for others to follow from sucessfull OLD players. Though, I think it has more to do with pics first than profile. It's either a man is photogenic or not. Most, are not.
 

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Article claims 80% of men are discriminated against because they can’t get laid (by their choice women).

What’s next? Affirmative action mercy fvcks?
Taking one for the gender. Good job @AJ84. Okay, all men here on SS who cannot get laid, PM @AJ84 and she'll hook you up. You would have to travel to Canada though. Doubtful she'll do outbound lays. Or maybe she will. @AJ84?
 

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The data also assumes that the old profile is an accurate depiction of the individual. But I think women are much better at taking pics and making a profile than men. So they look better online than irl, and most men look worse, at least with the typical profile. That can be overcome on an individual level, but I think it is still going to be true on a macro level. Men will never have the visual con artist skills than women have.
Thats a good point, we have women faking their value (looks) though makeup, filters and right angles coming after taking 100 pictures to chose from.

Guys are often too lazy to take more than 5 pictures, no use of filters, make up and no knowledge how to get the proper angle.

Thats why in real life guys perform better and girls perform worse when it comes of getting attention from someone.

I would be an 8 too if I could use a wig to mask my hairline, a filter to make my skin darker and toned and the right angle to show a squarer jaw.
 
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Taking one for the gender. Good job @AJ84. Okay, all men here on SS who cannot get laid, PM @AJ84 and she'll hook you up. You would have to travel to Canada though. Doubtful she'll do outbound lays. Or maybe she will. @AJ84?
hahahaha. I’ll start locally and grow from there. Baby steps.
Taking one for the gender. Good job @AJ84. Okay, all men here on SS who cannot get laid, PM @AJ84 and she'll hook you up. You would have to travel to Canada though. Doubtful she'll do outbound lays. Or maybe she will. @AJ84?
No I’ll outsource to India.
 
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