are you still friendly w people who rejected you?

[jhonny9546]

Act as if nothing happened. Completely platonic. Don’t give her free or special attention though.

This also makes me think of another thing: put yourself in the shoes of a woman who is meeting a new man. She will see you in 2 different ways: stuff for sex or friend.

It all depends on how you place yourself and your daily actions with them.
So be sexual without being their friend.
This is why a lot of *******, stupid, dumb, or whatever you want to call them guys are attractive: they don't make themselves available to be friends, they are just sexual. It's not that they are attractive.

Once you are in a relationship, that friend side of you can come out.


But when this thing goes out of balance, and you become too much their friend, without declaring your sexual feelings, they see you as a cheater.

filerfiler's advice is right and makes sense. Become only sexual with them from now on, and let them find friends elsewhere and you will see their relationship with you change.