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Are men 40 to 55 considered creepy to women in their early 20's?

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This is from @sarnant from the women's forum:

I recently turned 18 this September and this has been an invitation for scrotes at the gym to come onto me once they found out.
I'm sure "scrotes" is some kind of dude.

Last night this older man with salt and pepper hair swam to my lane when THREE other empty lanes in the gym swimming pool and told me, "It's good that you're young. Most men prefer young women." I told him flat out “I’m 18, sir” (with emphasis on sir, to make it clear “I don’t want your old ass”) and he without hesitation was like “Ok, well that’s legal.” I wanted to throw up.
What was creepy, was his actions, not his age. Being old is not creepy in itself. Creepy actions is always creepy. If a hot young chick was really into an older dude and they start dating, is that 'creepy'? Of course not, unless you are a bitter feminist - assuming all else equal.

Men are always seeking to divide women by pretending to uplift one group just to get what they want when they don’t value women anyway.
Is this how women in the womansphere really think? That's ridiculous and funny.

Men don't value women? You think the average guy out there is seeking to divide women among each other? What drove you to that conclusion?


Women put in the effort to look good. Nails, hair, makeup, clothes, skincare, etc. My mom is 56 and still turns heads everywhere she goes.
Perhaps your mom is an exception, then again there are a lot of simps out there too; guys who are that thirsty. It is not natural for a man to feel any significant degree of sexual attraction to women whom are not fertile.

Patriarchy for the longest time have been insidiously turning women against each other and now we're starting to catch up on their tricks.
What patriarchy? I don't see it. Even in Eastern Europe where there is less matriarchy, I didn't see a patriarchy. Maybe you can see it in the Middle East or among African tribes.

Turning women against each other? How? Women do that already with their big egos.
 

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Send it to another member or post it here for all to see, I’m no longer interested frankly. Or pick a mod you trust.
Pierce FFS you gotta start typing *beneath* the quote post

Inb4 it's over for #PostingPoliceCels
 

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100% agree with @Pierce.Manhammer .... @sarnant discourse is very off for someone who claims to be a 19rs old female. Here's what Rosie Huntingon Whitely said about getting together with Jason Statham (she was 23, he 43):

Yet sarnant is ranting about sperm quality, erectile dysfunction and receding hairline. :lol:
Something about you and your posts is off - VERY OFF. You are not who you say you are. You’re not the age you claim, at a minimum, you might not even be female - your speech is decidedly masculine - you sound like you speak PUA and or have been on the net reading PUA stuff longer than someone your supposed age might’ve been interested.

My exquisitely sensitive BS detector is pinging hard.
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Now that I’ve read more of your postings you sound like you’re embittered having maybe dated an older guy “that couldn’t keep up with you”? That has ED? Again something is off.

Need proof of life, like a picture of you holding this Sunday New York Times.

Forsooth! Methinks ye be a scalywag! A rapscallion! A KNAVE!

Judging from the recent events in this thread, I'm here to state my opinion that @sarnant is former poster BIG GOAL @biggoal from Ft. Myers, Florida. Also currently on here as user @Schwing
 

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The comments are even more hilarious. My comments are bolded.

" That's why they have to create hate speech about women "hitting the wall" and such because it divides younger women and older women from sharing notes on their behaviors and turning their backs on poorly behaved senior males. They don't want older women to share wisdom with younger generations of women. But we've caught on and can see through all their tricks now. "

Hitting the wall is hate speech? hahaha

It's like some kind of conspiracy to keep young women in the dark. For someone who has been down the rabbit hole about conspiracies, I'll give you a bit of advice, the more people involved, the harder it is to keep together. Effective conspiracies are small groups of people, and in the case of the powerful elite, they use systemic organization and compartmentalization. That's not your average Joe.


"And older women (like me☺) are NOT nice the way that younger women tend to be (out of fear/shock/respect).

Eg, if he had swum into my lane I would have asked him “What are you doing?” or “Do that again and I will have security escort you out.” or “I prefer younger men.”

Many men figure out my age when they realize that I do not show them deference or fall for any of their stupid tricks. But I know if I played “naive/sweet” they would figure it out."

With that attitude no worthy guy is hitting her up. I guess if she hates men then that works for her haha.


"I was thinking about "cougars" yesterday. Women who are older are likened to literal predators, or called cradle-snatchers, but scrotes can't apply the same logic to themselves."

That's because men and women are judged for their smv in completely different ways.


"To men, most of life is about domination and control, including of themselves. Someone having power over them is unmasculine, especially when it's a woman. Because age gap relationships have power imbalances, it serves men to seek girls, but a woman having any kind of advantage in a relationship activates their insecurities"

This woman has never had a good relationship before with a man whom she admires.

" Why are men always looking for women much more physically weaker than them, less accomplished, etc. The one that fits into those categories is a young woman. This made me realize that men only care about the power trip. They already have so many privileges' in society but also need a dumber, weaker object to validate themselves."

Do you really think a woman would respect a man who is weaker and less accomplished than her? These women are in lala land.
 

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I'm sure "scrotes" is some kind of dude.
'Scrote' is a British slang term.
Someone who is worthless.... and/or obnoxious.
It's often preceded by 'little' - as in "That little scrote deserves all he gets...." etc....

FAR more often used to describe a male - occasionally used for a female, but rarely.
 

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Scrote short for scotum. Why are people giving trolls any air time, some real thirsty pathetic men on here.
 

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but I'm beginning to think that forum has more of our interests in mind.
for sure, a bunch of angry, miserable, probably out of shape 35+yrs old women can't sleep at night because they have the interest of young women in their mind. :lol:
It's sad because I've grown up with my parents emphasizing hard work and not needing a man to support you, but it feels kind of demeaning realizing that no matter how much I accomplish as a woman society will still frown upon me not getting a man at the end of the day.
F*ck the society! It's you that's going to frown upon yourself (unless you have more testosterone than estrogen in you blood ;)) if you don't have a satisfying relationship with a man.
Also, I referenced the pornsick pick me culture because of how violent pornography is nowadays, there is choking, slapping, hitting, etc.
Yeah, there are some sick people out there. Just today for instance I read about this shyt: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowb...ved-TWO-years-reveals-requests-gets-fans.html Should I get ANGRY at how dumb some men are?
 

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I've spent the last few weeks frequenting that forum and the stark contrast between sosuave and here (how they talk about women) is crazy, but I'm beginning to think that forum has more of our interests in mind
You're right, follow their advice, they know what they're saying. You'll end up better following their advices than being in this misogynistic forum.
 

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Scrote short for scotum. Why are people giving trolls any air time, some real thirsty pathetic men on here.

I didn't even see this thread.

Bruh, some posters in here are actually sickening.
 

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What woman wants to bang their dad's buddy from the country club? Ain't nothing wrong with the ol' "Half your age plus 7 "rule to be safe.
Surprised to see this here. What terrible thing will happen if a guy ignores this "rule?"
 

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Surprised to see this here. What terrible thing will happen if a guy ignores this "rule?"
I ignore this rule and get angry stares of disapproval filled with hatred of judgment and I just smile back

Yesterday I went to a national televised college football game and had all the ef-u-en FUN <————————-

Nothing and no one is going to
stop me from living the life I built for myself

Never asked for permission
I went to live the life that I chose
 

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@sarnant

I don't know if you are who you say you are or you are a troll, either way you have serious psychological issues. Go outside and meet real people and interact with them, and until you do that, keep your mouth shut about your opinions about what you think people are.
 

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@DoubleBarrel i'm not sure what I said that provoked so much vitriol from these guys. I just stated that most young women around my age (I'm 18, but I was talking about the 18-22 range) aren't looking to date creepy men their father's age and everyone here's calling me a male troll. Whatever they want to believe is fine, guess they just don't want to face reality :rofl:
Maybe it's the fear of old age and losing their sex appeal. But to men like me, who look late 20s in their 40s and have the charm women would die for, it's a different story. ;) Keep rockin' dudette! You're not my type, but I can tell many would consider you hot. My prayer for you is you find all the love in the world, you cherish it, and you reciprocate those feelings to the right man. You have life before you! And that's a blessing few people recognize until way after it's passed. I know. I did.
 

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Well that's what I was saying. :) I said the average old man probably is viewed as a "creep" but older guys like you who have charm and finesse can pull anytime, haha. Thank you for your kind words...I really appreciate your refreshing positivity! Can't wait to go to college, explore different locations, live in the mountains, not waste my youth. Bless you and bless your soul! I hope you're having a great night
The mountains rock! Great opportunity! Please, do take it! Kiss a cute boy up there when the snow is coming down gently and beautifully. It'll be a great romantic story you can tell your granddaughters one day, and they will think grandma is so damn cool! But that's ages away. Yet I think we should recognize life is really but a blink.
 

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Life truly does come and go so fast. Sometimes its like a dissonance, I feel like I was just nine yesterday hiking across the Alps with my family and now I'm considered an "adult," it's crazy. Looking back 18 seemed so far away and like a milestone I would never reach and my 20s are looming closer than ever. And soon I'll be your age and hopefully have lots of more memories to look fondly upon (with hopefully a husband and a couple children by my side)! ;)
Man, kid, you are blessed, and I don't know if ya even know it. I still have no kids at 43. I wish it was different, but still I love my life. Young women are usually always on fire for life and have a zest for it. That makes them irresistibly sexy and attractive. Never lose that! Never let the evils of Feminism cloud your vision. Don't ever hate men, even when the wrong ones hurt ya. Instead, learn from the experience to propel you to greater love. When we hate the opposite sex, it's really just an expression and contempt for our own sex. And that's sad. It makes us rot. I never want that for you, sweet child!
 

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I pray that you get everything you want and more, you deserve it. Just from the way you write, I can tell that you're a truly special soul and can rise above to observe the dysfunction of what modern day "gender wars" have brought us to. Hating men or women is terrible for the soul and goes against a millennia of what man and woman have represented. We are supposed to conjoin, unify, and complement each other like puzzle pieces.
I only have a year before graduating high school before thrust into the real world, but I want to maybe take a gap year first...go explore, camping, white water rafting in the creeks, maybe learn some survival skills. It's a dream of course but part of me just longs to be those wild nomads who camp out in nature all day and move from place to place. :lol:
Man, your youthful zest inspires me, kid. Do it! All of it! I went straight into University after high school, to study the Humanities. But the beer buzz and committing crimes for the thrill of it was a bigger draw for me, so I dropped out. If I could give anyone younger advice, I would say this: Love people, and never judge them as silly because you would think or act differently. Never lose your faith in people. Crave to know their stories, sincerely. If you do this, you will never be lonely and you will never have a shortage of friends. I chill with the richest and sexist people in my community now, because I recognized this and put it into practice. I'm a "loser" in the eyes of the world, financially, but those who excel me envy/admire my adventerous spirit. Promise me you will never lose your faith in the good side of everyone you meet; male or female, young or old, rich or poor.
 
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There's a significant number of young women that are into older men. A lot of that is Hypergamy and financially related, true. Some of it is also due to Older men being generally smarter and more articulate than young men. Young women don't just want to talk about the latest music (which is **** anyways) or tv show. Some of them actually think. You'd be surprised. I'm always a bit surprised when women 18-25 start talking about how much they love movies like Pulp Fiction or Shawshank Redemption. Women are smart enough to know that most modern movies, tv and music are ****. Money and personality. Not all women are only into looks. I see ugly young dudes with hot girls often. So an ugly old guy can pull too. It's just that the ugly old guy probably has more money and better game and personality.
 
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