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It is on point but it’s not the plague of the dating scene right now or for the last 8-10 years. Single moms are EVERYWHERE. Every age group. Divorce is rampant and SO many freshly divorced women enter the dating market everyday with higher standards and tons of baggage. Google Rollo sometime, do you truly want to take advice in 2021 from a guy that looks like that?
My parents are (were) short as am I. (5’6 & 5’2). I’m 5’6 & mostly date in the 5’3-5’5 range. Though my current is 5’0. Hope we don’t have a son.
 

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Your guide is no different than anyone else’s guide. You’ll have some women who will screen you out based on your height - sure. But you still have plenty of options.
 

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A short man dating a short chick is just kicking the can to the next generation for his Y-chromosome. :mad: In doing my genealogical research, I've noticed that a lot of my male ancestors had short wives (i.e., my female ancestors). It reminds me of the problem that White men dating Asian women have in that their sons will be Asian men that are shunned by women.

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I swear, people don't know how to raise Chihuahuas. I owned one. Great dog if you raise it correctly! People encourage bad behavior because they think its cute and harmless.
 

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Wait til you get in your 30’s, the women are MUCH pickier and that’s when they really start doubling down on superficial things like height. You’ll see.
Which is insane because they are lower value and need to be less selective to accomodate their reduced market value.
 

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I saw a “short man’s guide to game” at the local bookstore recently. It was on quite a high shelf, if you like I could get it for you to save the use of a step? :)
 

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Don't pay attention to Black Pillers, just be realistic. I'm very short myself (around 5'4) so I just learned you CAN get laid with taller girls (I've had many, actually) but your primary source of income will be short girls / fatty.

Plus Game, Personality and Frame work wonders. Don't fap too much.

Also consider dating Latinas.
I don't think so. Women would rather go for a fat tall men rather than a guy, who is shorter than her. Subconsciously they don't feel physically protected by short men and since they have options they will always choose the better deal.
 

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I consider myself short at about 5'11''; but when I was dating, I didn't have an issue with my height. I think a lot is in our heads as this is one thing we cannot control.
5’11 isn’t short. Any woman that tells you it is, she’s a dumb hoe. Women that get hug up on height are for the streets. Leave them there.
 

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I figured this topic of game for men of short stature has been covered a few times but couldn't find anything in search. Any really popular threads here on the topic? Thx bros.
You just need to put in more work then other guys do through fashion, gym, career, etc. Improve your life in everyway you possibly can and be very confident. Go for shorter women or ones the same height. I'm short (about 5'5") and I've noticed that Latinas and Asian women care about height less then White women do. My last two gf's were an inch taller then me. I've also banged tons more women then plenty of tall guys that I know. Being tall isn't everything. Alot of tall guys just plain suck with women.

I'm not sure what height you are but if it's under 5'4" then you will struggle. I'm just being honest. Also, having a good looking face can get you far. It's one of the many reasons I have found success.
 

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Shorter guys (especially) need really good hair. Assuming it’s full hair, grow it out.
If you're under 5'5 consider moving to Asia.

When are we going to have body positivity for male height, seems like women get a free pass for height discrimination but God forbid men dare to insult an obese woman.
I'm 5'10". A good portion of white women think anything under 6'0" is trash. Even sub 5'5" white women feel this way.

Agree on both the hair comment and the body positivity comment.

TRM is outdated by today’s dating climate. It was released in what, 2013? ALOT has changed in 8 years. Women in their 30’s that are attractive but don’t have kids are a VERY small minority. Maybe 0.01% of women. Most of what you find in the 30’s crowd is recently divorced, kids, standards are higher because they are “looking out for their kids” and will compare you to the ex husband all the time, it’s a complete sh!t show.
The Rational Male was released in 2013.

Now, there are more 30 somethings without kids than there were in 2013. In the 2000s and early 2010s, the 30 somethings were mostly Gen X women. In 2021, the 30-39 year olds are Millennials. Childlessness is more common in Millennials than it was in Gen X. Right now, the Millennials born in the 1980s and raised in the 1990s are most of the 30 somethings. These Millennials were the products of the participation trophy, self esteem boosting movement of schools in the 1990s.

Millennial women are entitled. They double down on their standards. A lot of these 30 something Millennials have never married and don't have kids, so they still see themselves as eligible bachelorettes. I have run into this set of women far more than the single moms divorcees who you describe.
 

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No matter what you look like you are never going to be everybody's cup of tea. And that's fine. This is the same for everyone on the
planet.

This is the same for your tastes with women and friends: not everyone is going to be your cup of tea.

It's best to be realistic and have an almost Stoic mentality with regards to expectations. At least 80% of the people on this planet will not like you. Be real and think that you will probably not like 80% of the people on this planet. Using the Pareto principle for the 80/20 outlook /expectation.

So when you get rejected (really they are rejecting a projection of who they think you are.....they don't know you. Another mindset to be aware of) you would be best saying to yourself that the woman just falls into the 80% who are in the majority that you already expect will not like you. So that's fine you just have to keep digging for the 20% rare diamonds that will dig you and you will dig them.

Compare that to the mindset where you introvert and tell yourself every time someone rejects you "it's because of my height /my hair/ my teeth / my whatever". Reflect on how this mindset will chip away at your own confidence like a cancer. All at your own hands.
 

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5’11 isn’t short. Any woman that tells you it is, she’s a dumb hoe. Women that get hug up on height are for the streets. Leave them there.
The are want a 6 ft dude, and I was under it. Since a lot of females that I was interested in were 5'6'' - 5'8'', it was a small issue. My gf now is 5' 3.75'', so not much of an issue now though. Still bothers me though from time to time, so I can relate to the struggle.
 

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It is on point but it’s not the plague of the dating scene right now or for the last 8-10 years. Single moms are EVERYWHERE. Every age group. Divorce is rampant and SO many freshly divorced women enter the dating market everyday with higher standards and tons of baggage. Google Rollo sometime, do you truly want to take advice in 2021 from a guy that looks like that?
Back when I re-tried to date in the American dating market in the early '00s, it seemed like it was ALWAYS the case that in every social venue, every fat chick was unmarried and every slender chick was a single mommy. :mad: :mad: That's when I realized that it was OVER.
 

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Back when I re-tried to date in the American dating market in the early '00s, it seemed like it was ALWAYS the case that in every social venue, every fat chick was unmarried and every slender chick was a single mommy. :mad: :mad: That's when I realized that it was OVER.
Now even the fat ones have kids and standards (ie. delusional demands) as high as the hot girls.
 
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