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Any difference between orgasm watching porn and orgasm sexting?

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Mentally, is it the same? Does it feel the same way to you guys? I have heard that excessive masturbation kinda turns your dopamine receptors into burned out things, but does it have the same effect when it's sexting?
 

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If you cut out porn and masturbation completely, your erection quality when it comes down to actually banging a chick will skyrocket within a couple of weeks.
I have actually cut out porn and I intend to keep it that way, but sometimes, while talking to certain chicks, they make me hard as **** and it's a bit hard to ignore that completely.
 

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It's probably not AS bad as porn, but from my experience that would still be a waste that is just not needed.

Even after sex with a woman there is SOME effect, you lose your sexual energy for a short time but its outweighed by the experience.

Whats the benefit to jerking into a rag over some text messages?

Do you think thats what the warrior ancestors were doing?

Just my opinion but i personally wouldnt do it myself.
 

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This no fapping thing.... I can see it being bad if your spanking it like a deranged monkey.... but...

I find that if I don't rub one out on a weekly basis and more importantly a day or so before a sex night hurts my performance. No fapping makes me a bit more sensitive and makes me want to *** too soon.

Everything in moderation.
 

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This no fapping thing.... I can see it being bad if your spanking it like a deranged monkey.... but...

I find that if I don't rub one out on a weekly basis and more importantly a day or so before a sex night hurts my performance. No fapping makes me a bit more sensitive and makes me want to *** too soon.

Everything in moderation.
Moderation is fine but only if you have NEVER been addicted to porn.

Having an addiction to it (which is actually quite common) causes actual brain changes which means once you come off it you have to stay off. I used to do it 3 times a day or more and it ****ed me up something chronic.

But for joe average who has never had a problem, once every 7-10 days is fine.

But you have to draw that distinction.

Its like you cant tell a former alcoholic that the odd drink isnt going to hurt you.

As for orgasming too fast, it happens to me sometimes but uts usually pretty funny and you are good to go again after a couple of minutes. As long as YOU dont have a problem with it the girl wont either.
 

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I only sexted once or twice when I was like 15-16. I can't get excited by that anymore. Maybe my imagination's just not as good, or having real sex just killed it.

I'm thinking of doing the nofap thing for a while, or at least greatly reducing frequency, like to once a week max.

I will say I did mostly enjoy having sex while watching porn last week (girl I'm fwb with doesn't care and let me do it). But unlike just whacking it, you can't just pause and go back when you want as you're doing it, and it's hard to time it exactly right. And you can't just stare at the screen the whole time; gotta devote some attention to the girl.
 

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nothing compares to having an orbiting orgasm aka orbitgasm.

every like you give a chick on social media = soiling yourself.
 

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Mentally, is it the same? Does it feel the same way to you guys? I have heard that excessive masturbation kinda turns your dopamine receptors into burned out things, but does it have the same effect when it's sexting?
According to my opinion: NOPE! Sexting is sexting, porn is porn, it is totally different and totally different influence our feelings/ behavior/etc, in short words: sexting with a REAL person should be much more exciting than just watching porn.
 

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It's probably not AS bad as porn, but from my experience that would still be a waste that is just not needed.

Even after sex with a woman there is SOME effect, you lose your sexual energy for a short time but its outweighed by the experience.

Whats the benefit to jerking into a rag over some text messages?

Do you think thats what the warrior ancestors were doing?

Just my opinion but i personally wouldnt do it myself.
Warriors and cavemen could fvck a woman any time they wanted even if it was non consensual. There were no laws against it. These days guys can get sued for asking a woman on a date so a lot less sex it happening. Gotta release sexual energy somehow
 

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Warriors and cavemen could fvck a woman any time they wanted even if it was non consensual. There were no laws against it. These days guys can get sued for asking a woman on a date so a lot less sex it happening. Gotta release sexual energy somehow
Nice historical explanation bro :)
 

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Warriors and cavemen could fvck a woman any time they wanted even if it was non consensual. There were no laws against it. These days guys can get sued for asking a woman on a date so a lot less sex it happening. Gotta release sexual energy somehow
the more you do gym the less you need to fap
 

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Warriors and cavemen could fvck a woman any time they wanted even if it was non consensual. There were no laws against it. These days guys can get sued for asking a woman on a date so a lot less sex it happening. Gotta release sexual energy somehow
Well of course...of course. I mean, feminists have created this environment because who is gonna bang the fatties? And the uglies?
 

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Between the two I prefer sexting assuming its a woman I will get to bang or have already banged, and it generally is.

I think spanking it too much is bad but a few times a week is good. I also agree with spanking it prior to getting the real thing as it helps performance. If I am going to see a woman in the evening and get my freak on I will fap 3-8 hours before estimated liftoff.
 

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IDK, less mess?:p
 

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Well of course...of course. I mean, feminists have created this environment because who is gonna bang the fatties? And the uglies?
Nope, the white knights are to blame, for supporting, enabling, and empowering the feminists.

100% of the problem, is 100% at the top.
 

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Well of course...of course. I mean, feminists have created this environment because who is gonna bang the fatties? And the uglies?

Lol, this is good one! :)

I just looking around some old threads and didn't sow Your response when discussion was live, and now I see and I must to say that I agree with you :) :)
 
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