Seizing The Day
Don Juan
1. Any woman you meet, will, like yourself, have a past. She will have family, friends, desires and ambitions. If attractive, she will most likely be or has been sexually active. She has heard or seen nearly every imanginable pick-up gimmick (and is bored by most)
2. If she is age 18-23, a mans looks, ability to entertain/party will be her main focus. These are the ones you see in the Girls gone Wild videos.
3. If she is age 24 to around 30, she will be looking for commitment. Money, security, prestige, will be her primary focus. A woman in this age group is much more likely to compromise a mans looks if he can offer a good financial future.
4. Any female, unmarried, above age 30 should be viewed suspiciously.
5. Most men at this site are looking for a great secret, or magic combination of words/actions to get women. It doesn't exist.
6. Confidence is never second-guessing yourself. Period.
7. The biggest obstacle to success with women is self-imposed lack of opportunity. You sit at home.........well, you get the message.
8. At the risk of villification here, don't be too quick to rule out having a nice call/escort girl on occasion. They relieve your most basic instincts and are cheaper than marriage in the long run. If you decide to try one, I advise avoiding sexual intercourse and use them for oral sex only. Its safer (and every bit as satisfying)
9. The biggest confidence builder (as far as it relates to women) is having multi-opportunities, and/or banging several different girls in any time period. The effect of this on a man cannot be under estimated.
10. Always be direct and simple when dealing with females. It will save time and frustration.
11. If you want something, you must ask for it. Fukking around playing hard to get, etc., will get you nowhere. Tell a woman you find her attractive and wish to spend some quality time with her. If she balks, move on. Life is too short to waste time analyzing every little signal.
12. Learn to trust your instincts, If you suspect she's playing you, move on. Again, life is too short.
13. Always be a gentleman, take the high road. If she's insulting, or rude, forget it...........move on.
14. The best line is " Hello. its never easy to talk to a stranger, especially when they are as attractive as you. But shall we try"?
15. Contrary to alot of the rubbish posted here, a well timed, sincere compliment can work wonders. Aways personalize them, never generalize............." I think you look very beautiful today" or" I really like your fashion sense"...........you will make her day
16. Alot of men tend to be salesmen.........They believe that if they use the perfect combo of words/actions they can bag a woman. I assure you, if you haven't gotten good vibes almost from the start, you never will. move on
17. Stop living a fantasy life. If there is a woman you see regularly and want to spend time with her, tell her so. The worst that can happen is a rejection. All guys experience it. But its better than fantasizing about her.
18. If, after getting aquainted, you find evidence of drug abuse, rape, or child abuse...........move on immediately. I assure you it will not get better with time.
19. Avoid pursuing married women. There are far too many available females in the world to bother messing with another mans wife.
20. Avoid women that own strange pets like rats or snakes. They're fukked up..........move on.
21. Avoid Born Again Christian zealots.............you're asking for a life of misery.
22. Go to a few nusing homes some day.........look at the old men sitting, just waiting to die. This will be you, someday. So get off your @ss and live.
2. If she is age 18-23, a mans looks, ability to entertain/party will be her main focus. These are the ones you see in the Girls gone Wild videos.
3. If she is age 24 to around 30, she will be looking for commitment. Money, security, prestige, will be her primary focus. A woman in this age group is much more likely to compromise a mans looks if he can offer a good financial future.
4. Any female, unmarried, above age 30 should be viewed suspiciously.
5. Most men at this site are looking for a great secret, or magic combination of words/actions to get women. It doesn't exist.
6. Confidence is never second-guessing yourself. Period.
7. The biggest obstacle to success with women is self-imposed lack of opportunity. You sit at home.........well, you get the message.
8. At the risk of villification here, don't be too quick to rule out having a nice call/escort girl on occasion. They relieve your most basic instincts and are cheaper than marriage in the long run. If you decide to try one, I advise avoiding sexual intercourse and use them for oral sex only. Its safer (and every bit as satisfying)
9. The biggest confidence builder (as far as it relates to women) is having multi-opportunities, and/or banging several different girls in any time period. The effect of this on a man cannot be under estimated.
10. Always be direct and simple when dealing with females. It will save time and frustration.
11. If you want something, you must ask for it. Fukking around playing hard to get, etc., will get you nowhere. Tell a woman you find her attractive and wish to spend some quality time with her. If she balks, move on. Life is too short to waste time analyzing every little signal.
12. Learn to trust your instincts, If you suspect she's playing you, move on. Again, life is too short.
13. Always be a gentleman, take the high road. If she's insulting, or rude, forget it...........move on.
14. The best line is " Hello. its never easy to talk to a stranger, especially when they are as attractive as you. But shall we try"?
15. Contrary to alot of the rubbish posted here, a well timed, sincere compliment can work wonders. Aways personalize them, never generalize............." I think you look very beautiful today" or" I really like your fashion sense"...........you will make her day
16. Alot of men tend to be salesmen.........They believe that if they use the perfect combo of words/actions they can bag a woman. I assure you, if you haven't gotten good vibes almost from the start, you never will. move on
17. Stop living a fantasy life. If there is a woman you see regularly and want to spend time with her, tell her so. The worst that can happen is a rejection. All guys experience it. But its better than fantasizing about her.
18. If, after getting aquainted, you find evidence of drug abuse, rape, or child abuse...........move on immediately. I assure you it will not get better with time.
19. Avoid pursuing married women. There are far too many available females in the world to bother messing with another mans wife.
20. Avoid women that own strange pets like rats or snakes. They're fukked up..........move on.
21. Avoid Born Again Christian zealots.............you're asking for a life of misery.
22. Go to a few nusing homes some day.........look at the old men sitting, just waiting to die. This will be you, someday. So get off your @ss and live.