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DarwinTaurus

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Hi guys,

I was chatting to a girl on Tik Tok, who lives not far away from me. She said she was looking to get laid, and she gave me her home address, and she wants me to come around.

I'm a bit hesitant with this. I'd prefer to meet her in a neutral location first, as I feel uncomfortable turning up to an address, not knowing what I'm walking into.

What do you guys think? Advice?
 

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Someone please screenshot this for a potential evidence in a case. I've seen too many true crime videos not to be suspicious.
 

DarwinTaurus

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Someone please screenshot this for a potential evidence in a case. I've seen too many true crime videos not to be suspicious.
Yeah, hence my query! I think I'm going to suggest meeting at a neutral venue, such as a bar. If she seems cool, yeah, then I'll suggest heading back to her place to bang.
 

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Hi Darwin,
Some of the posters just don't realise the size and remoteness of Darwin,its got the population of say Toledo or Tampa,the two nearest reasonable size Towns are Alice Springs pop:40K,Mount Isa 20K...Adelaide at 1640 miles and Brisbane 1780 miles are the closest Cities...Difficult to market Darwin Taurus' kidneys over those distances.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah, hence my query! I think I'm going to suggest meeting at a neutral venue, such as a bar. If she seems cool, yeah, then I'll suggest heading back to her place to bang.
Meet up with her at a bar first and take her to a hotel/motel for the first time.
 

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Hi guys,

I was chatting to a girl on Tik Tok, who lives not far away from me. She said she was looking to get laid, and she gave me her home address, and she wants me to come around.

I'm a bit hesitant with this. I'd prefer to meet her in a neutral location first, as I feel uncomfortable turning up to an address, not knowing what I'm walking into.

What do you guys think? Advice?
Meet in a public place.
 

Scaramouche

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Is this your expertise talking?
Hi Amsterdam,
Humour aside,actually it is.....Twenty odd years ago my middle Son was diagnosed with Bone Marrow Leukemia (AML).The Medicos talked of a Bone Marrow Transplant,they had a perfect donor in Perth,2000+miles away....What a Palaver it would have been,synchronised operations with specially equipped Ambulances each end.
 

DarwinTaurus

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UPDATE: I was tempted to go around to her place last Friday, but I went with my gut feeling, decided no, and ended up blocking her on TikTok and Telegram.

I've come to the conclusion that anyone who contacts you on TikTok who isn't someone you personally know, is a scammer. I've had people ask me for money, which results in a simple block.

But for the others that don't ask for money, what is their agenda? What is the point? I've come across 10 women in the last week or so, who I've easily worked out isn't who they say they are. All it takes is a simple Google Image Search.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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BillyPilgrim

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WTF OP do a google maps street view search and then drive by to check it out. You live in a small town, this should be a no-brainer.
 

DarwinTaurus

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WTF OP do a google maps street view search and then drive by to check it out. You live in a small town, this should be a no-brainer.
Trust me, I did check out the property on street view. I work in I.T, so I use all the obvious tools at my disposal. That's why Google Image search is fantastic also. I didn't drive past, as I currently don't own a car.
 
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