nicksaiz65
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Ok, so I might be making more threads like this in the future, just a bit more general. But I need to know how to handle situations like this... So I was wondering what you guys thought. I have no experience with getting chicks with boyfriends whatsoever.
I met this 9/10 Latina Chick through school. We got to talking a bit, and eventually she came out to one of my shows. She's seen my social proof, and she jokingly calls me "Mr. Popular." I flirt with her, touch her, and all that, and she's touchy with me as well, flirts back a bit with me too. We get along well, there's a good bit of chemistry since we're pretty similar. Although I know that this is part of Latin Culture. Kino is more of a thing than with Americans.
I've made friends with her friends as well, so there's a new social group for me to go into. I need more friends since many of mine have graduated.
Now if she were single, this would be a done deal. I would've isolated and escalated in a heartbeat. But because I follow her on social media, I know she has a boyfriend. She posts pics of them bowling and stuff, and staring into his eyes, so idk if the relationship is rocky. The funny thing is, she's never brought him up directly to me. Although I've never asked. I'm pretty sure the boyfriend lives out of town too.
So my question is, do I even have a shot? Now that I've been social with her, do I run my standard take her out and escalate Game? This chick is really hot, and I want her. But I have no idea how to run Game when she has a boyfriend, and on top of that I don't want to get exiled from this social group through malicious gossip if it were to go south. So do I
A.) Go for it?
or
B.) Just add her to my social circle and use having a bigger circle as an opportunity to meet new, single girls?
I feel like this is a pretty common situation. So it'd be good to discuss it.
I met this 9/10 Latina Chick through school. We got to talking a bit, and eventually she came out to one of my shows. She's seen my social proof, and she jokingly calls me "Mr. Popular." I flirt with her, touch her, and all that, and she's touchy with me as well, flirts back a bit with me too. We get along well, there's a good bit of chemistry since we're pretty similar. Although I know that this is part of Latin Culture. Kino is more of a thing than with Americans.
I've made friends with her friends as well, so there's a new social group for me to go into. I need more friends since many of mine have graduated.
Now if she were single, this would be a done deal. I would've isolated and escalated in a heartbeat. But because I follow her on social media, I know she has a boyfriend. She posts pics of them bowling and stuff, and staring into his eyes, so idk if the relationship is rocky. The funny thing is, she's never brought him up directly to me. Although I've never asked. I'm pretty sure the boyfriend lives out of town too.
So my question is, do I even have a shot? Now that I've been social with her, do I run my standard take her out and escalate Game? This chick is really hot, and I want her. But I have no idea how to run Game when she has a boyfriend, and on top of that I don't want to get exiled from this social group through malicious gossip if it were to go south. So do I
A.) Go for it?
or
B.) Just add her to my social circle and use having a bigger circle as an opportunity to meet new, single girls?
I feel like this is a pretty common situation. So it'd be good to discuss it.
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