Amante Silvestre
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I've talked on several occasions here about how I like to be forthcoming with my plates; to bring them in as willing participants, knowing I am actively seeing other women.
An interesting thing happened to me today, and so I thought I would take a few screenshots and share here on the benefits of such an approach.
Recently set up a date for this Friday with a woman I met off of Bumble. In my ad, I have several pics, one of which includes a plate I have been seeing for some time now.
Here's what ultimately happened:


The plate and I are texting each other right now, after this dates friend has already talked to her, but no mention of this has even come up. Apparently we are still on for our weekend getaway in 3 weeks (her gift for me).
At any rate, there is a less dramatic way. It is possible to spin plates without all of the headaches that come with it. So long as you come from a genuine place and you're looking for something good just like many of these women are, many will understand. It's all in how you present it to them.
An interesting thing happened to me today, and so I thought I would take a few screenshots and share here on the benefits of such an approach.
Recently set up a date for this Friday with a woman I met off of Bumble. In my ad, I have several pics, one of which includes a plate I have been seeing for some time now.
Here's what ultimately happened:


The plate and I are texting each other right now, after this dates friend has already talked to her, but no mention of this has even come up. Apparently we are still on for our weekend getaway in 3 weeks (her gift for me).
At any rate, there is a less dramatic way. It is possible to spin plates without all of the headaches that come with it. So long as you come from a genuine place and you're looking for something good just like many of these women are, many will understand. It's all in how you present it to them.