Fruitbat
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Just something which may amuse.
I have been hitting the gym trying to shed some of the 40 pounds or so I need to get back to fighting weight. So yes, I’m a bit flabby. I’m a big guy anyway so 40lb might not be what it would be on you, but anyhow, I am not at my best. I’m also approaching 40.
So, I live in the inner city and my gym is almost universally university students and under 30s. Some great eye candy. Being married and sporting my wedding ring, of course, it’s looking only for me these days.
However, one of my favourite pastimes is “ignore the hot girls”! I used to do this even when younger. I will NOT be just another random c0ck drooling over some woman. I kind of feel a mix of resentment for them (for making me want to pine for them!) and also like the feeling of self control.
So there is this absolute bombshell at my gym. About 21, I can only say she is amongst the most attractive I’ve ever seen and always turns up in full makeup, hair done etc. I make it a point not to look anywhere near here and keep away. Often, it’s just us in the gym. We seem to go at the same times - very early or just after lunch. It’s a small and intimate gym and not that busy so you often get chatting to folks.
I’ve seen younger dudes try and talk to her and she generally has an air of arrogance. I’ve completely blanked her like a ghost.
Last time, I kind of bumped into her by the lockers as she was in the way (not physically but I couldn’t avoid and interaction with her)
She gives this huge “come on” smile and starts blabbering about how the locker facilities are crap. She’s super, super friendly.
I doubt I could hold on to a woman like that even if I were single, but I reckon I could have got a number right there.
I was gobsmacked. When I was single that never happened.
Moral of the story is, being indifferent and NGAF is like milk and honey to a hot woman.
Or, perhaps she appreciated me for being the only guy in the gym who wasn’t all over her ass. Perhaps she thought I had some standards of self respect and allowing her to exercise in peace (doubt it given her perfect make up and sexy gym outfits)
Or perhaps she just would have turned it down and just wanted to add me to her gym orbiters.
Anyway, it got me to talking to her. I’d not dream of cheating but it gave me an ego boost. Whatever the weather, this girl could be an intsa model, she was literally gorgeous. Not being like an excited puppy still piqued the interest, I got a better response than guys half my age and 10X my physique.
I have found mid- late 30s is an age a lot of younger women like. I’ve had more opportunity at this age being a bit sloppy than I did at 25 and fit as a flea.
Thought it was worth a share, perhaps anyone suffering from a bit of desperation fever might benefit from this tale
I have been hitting the gym trying to shed some of the 40 pounds or so I need to get back to fighting weight. So yes, I’m a bit flabby. I’m a big guy anyway so 40lb might not be what it would be on you, but anyhow, I am not at my best. I’m also approaching 40.
So, I live in the inner city and my gym is almost universally university students and under 30s. Some great eye candy. Being married and sporting my wedding ring, of course, it’s looking only for me these days.
However, one of my favourite pastimes is “ignore the hot girls”! I used to do this even when younger. I will NOT be just another random c0ck drooling over some woman. I kind of feel a mix of resentment for them (for making me want to pine for them!) and also like the feeling of self control.
So there is this absolute bombshell at my gym. About 21, I can only say she is amongst the most attractive I’ve ever seen and always turns up in full makeup, hair done etc. I make it a point not to look anywhere near here and keep away. Often, it’s just us in the gym. We seem to go at the same times - very early or just after lunch. It’s a small and intimate gym and not that busy so you often get chatting to folks.
I’ve seen younger dudes try and talk to her and she generally has an air of arrogance. I’ve completely blanked her like a ghost.
Last time, I kind of bumped into her by the lockers as she was in the way (not physically but I couldn’t avoid and interaction with her)
She gives this huge “come on” smile and starts blabbering about how the locker facilities are crap. She’s super, super friendly.
I doubt I could hold on to a woman like that even if I were single, but I reckon I could have got a number right there.
I was gobsmacked. When I was single that never happened.
Moral of the story is, being indifferent and NGAF is like milk and honey to a hot woman.
Or, perhaps she appreciated me for being the only guy in the gym who wasn’t all over her ass. Perhaps she thought I had some standards of self respect and allowing her to exercise in peace (doubt it given her perfect make up and sexy gym outfits)
Or perhaps she just would have turned it down and just wanted to add me to her gym orbiters.
Anyway, it got me to talking to her. I’d not dream of cheating but it gave me an ego boost. Whatever the weather, this girl could be an intsa model, she was literally gorgeous. Not being like an excited puppy still piqued the interest, I got a better response than guys half my age and 10X my physique.
I have found mid- late 30s is an age a lot of younger women like. I’ve had more opportunity at this age being a bit sloppy than I did at 25 and fit as a flea.
Thought it was worth a share, perhaps anyone suffering from a bit of desperation fever might benefit from this tale
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