improvingdonjuan
Senior Don Juan
fear of aproaching a girl is one of the worst and pointless fears a guy can ever have. me as a guy i still feel kinda nervous when i think about aproaching someone, but let me tell you something my friends girls are social creatures and they are emotional and caring by nature.
here are two things that have worked for me and im talking from experience.
1- when you think about aproaching a girl that is standing or seating there, you are afraid of looking stupid, am i right? you might think what if i say somthing stupid? or why if she is not in the mood? what if she has a bf? what if she blows me off or thinks im a psycho? NO, NO NO NO NO NO thats not the mindset to have when you want to aproach a girl. do not think you are picking her up or do not think you are aproaching to get a date, no you should not think about it. yes thats right when you are going to do something dont think or the negative or positive things just do it
yeah you might be thinking yes thats all good and dandy improvingdonjuan but if i cant help thinking about it and that still doesnt help making it easier. well let me tell you something to be great at picking girls up you need experience the more you do it the easiere it gets, the best way to get experience is by talking to 5,6,7,8, and once you are confortable with that move to the 9,and 10s.
next thing you can do is look around and find something you can introduce your self with that makes it alot easier, lets say she is walking fast you might ask her where she is going in such a hurry, or if she is caring something ask her if its heavy. or anything that stands out you can ask about it. also if she is reading ask her about the book ( you know what i mean?)
one more thing, like i said before girls are friendly emotional and caring creatures. so if you go talk to her she will go with the flow and cary on a conversation (trust me she will) if she is not interested she will try to let you down easy. there are some b*tches out there but they are not that many, trust me. if you go aproach her confidently and friendly she will react positively so thats why you should keep your fears on check.
2- dont think about all the bad things that can happen cause thats not usually the outcome when you aproach a girl. the worst thing that can happen is a girl not giving you her number, or leting you down easy. you will not look stupid or anything you are not going to die or be laught at by your friends. have you ever stoped and notice how stupid and hilarious a guy looks just standing there thinking about aproaching and never having the balls to do it? now that is something to laugh at.
dont sweat it, just think you are being friendly and act confidently and you will succeed. thats why you should practice over and over again. make this a long tearm goal because it takes time but if you are determined to do it you will succeed, this is not overnight and you will not find a majic pill that will make you a casanva, you need to practice and be consistent.
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Confidence is the key to women
here are two things that have worked for me and im talking from experience.
1- when you think about aproaching a girl that is standing or seating there, you are afraid of looking stupid, am i right? you might think what if i say somthing stupid? or why if she is not in the mood? what if she has a bf? what if she blows me off or thinks im a psycho? NO, NO NO NO NO NO thats not the mindset to have when you want to aproach a girl. do not think you are picking her up or do not think you are aproaching to get a date, no you should not think about it. yes thats right when you are going to do something dont think or the negative or positive things just do it
yeah you might be thinking yes thats all good and dandy improvingdonjuan but if i cant help thinking about it and that still doesnt help making it easier. well let me tell you something to be great at picking girls up you need experience the more you do it the easiere it gets, the best way to get experience is by talking to 5,6,7,8, and once you are confortable with that move to the 9,and 10s.
next thing you can do is look around and find something you can introduce your self with that makes it alot easier, lets say she is walking fast you might ask her where she is going in such a hurry, or if she is caring something ask her if its heavy. or anything that stands out you can ask about it. also if she is reading ask her about the book ( you know what i mean?)
one more thing, like i said before girls are friendly emotional and caring creatures. so if you go talk to her she will go with the flow and cary on a conversation (trust me she will) if she is not interested she will try to let you down easy. there are some b*tches out there but they are not that many, trust me. if you go aproach her confidently and friendly she will react positively so thats why you should keep your fears on check.
2- dont think about all the bad things that can happen cause thats not usually the outcome when you aproach a girl. the worst thing that can happen is a girl not giving you her number, or leting you down easy. you will not look stupid or anything you are not going to die or be laught at by your friends. have you ever stoped and notice how stupid and hilarious a guy looks just standing there thinking about aproaching and never having the balls to do it? now that is something to laugh at.
dont sweat it, just think you are being friendly and act confidently and you will succeed. thats why you should practice over and over again. make this a long tearm goal because it takes time but if you are determined to do it you will succeed, this is not overnight and you will not find a majic pill that will make you a casanva, you need to practice and be consistent.
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Confidence is the key to women