80% of our problems with women would disappear if we would just...

[ChristopherColumbus]

Oh... I thought this was a complete the thought thread...

here's mine -

…. get a grip.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

The bulk of this unnecessary suffering is due to the fact that most of you go after Low Interest women. Time after time, year after year I see men chasing women who have shown either zero, or low interest in them. You are trying to create something out of nothing, and it is very rare that a woman will turn around and be attracted to you after relenting and going out with you on either a pity date or a date where she has no investment in you.
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How about this. Sort one's self out first and then you go after the woman that you rightly have high interest in.

We need a Copernican revolution here.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Women will fake a high IL by habit to get orbiters wittingly or unwittingly and there are social experiments to prove it. The men who talked to them had no idea and thought the girls were enjoying themselves and into them. They fake orgasms. They wear fake up. Even their biology has evolved to fake out males so they look like they're always ovulating. I think the best IOI is her behavior, not her flirting. She keeps the conversation going, she asks you to meet and is prepared to go as long as or longer than you to see each other, she is upfront about herself. And then you've got all the cases beyond that when the woman's flirting is simply part of her job or career climbing.

Exactly. Most of these women are looking for attention. Better to only pursue a woman you find interesting on your terms. If that be few and far between, so be it.

 

[Magotrox]

For a beginner it's a very nice advice to gain experience and to become more confident in your game. At first, you must be used to have some success in the lower leagues (as the bigger part of the positive signals of interest will come from lower SMV girls). But when you start to become used to the dynamics, you feel comfortable to try hit higher leagues girls, higher SMV girls. (It is important to say, also, that some girls, especially with high SMV, will emit no signal of interest). At this stage, you realize that girls are, each one, very singular, besides you can find some patterns. You can hit a 8, 9 HB, and, the same you, can be rejected by a 7, 6 HB (or even lower...). So, you understand that girls are subjective beings, and that analyzing, in the end, is not enough (or, even, futile): you have to approach every girl you like, play your best game, and see what happens. Sometimes you'll hit, sometimes not. Become a man insensible to rejection: it is part of the game. Even Brad Pitt can be rejected. Invest your time building yourself the best man you can. And approach every girl you like. Have no fear of rejection. Be used to it. Because "REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET (Pook.)"