You're welcome.Thanks for your insight man... I can relate to you.. right now I am getting lots of great sex.. from multiple woman..
But.. I miss the closeness and comfortable feeling and that connection I had with my ex.. Plus my ex was hot, and very successful.. So I feel like I will never find a chick better than her again..
Maybe it was just sheer luck and a fluke that I pulled her in the first place.. We all want what we can't have right..
All that being said, i miss her, but I am not in pain any longer.. In another 6 months time, I will more than likely be over her..
I need to accept and realise, that its better to be with a HB7 than a hotter woman who treats you bad.
Its just that she has reached out, that has stirred up my feelings.. Maybe she wants to try again?
But.. I feel its too damn risky.. better to keep moving on.
Put yourself in the right mindset and disregard the idea that it was a fluke or that you won't ever find someone else like her. She wasn't special nor was she made of extraterrestrial qualities. She was a human being like you and me with her ups and downs, her flaws, her good qualities. But human overall; she pees, she poops, her breath stinks if she doesn't brush her teeth, her farts are as nasty as yours.
We're humans, we're humane.
SS advises to have your life together. That's the way. Women are a byproduct of your lifestyle. I can attest that since I had my pretty fair share of women in my homeland but now I am starting from scratch and don't have a social circle besides some co-workers and I need to re-build my life from zero. I'll get there though, it only takes time and dedication.