Im not usually an emotional person at all, it was always her just seem to be struggling with this, having alot of personal family problems at the minute too so it all building up i feel. But yes your right i have to try to move on, 5 days NC now.Bokanovsky said:You are wrong. Based on your post, you strike me as a very emotional person, which is a feminine trait. Time to grow a pair and go NC...forever.
I thought that too but she has continuosly denied it and just said she wants to be single because she hasnt been since she was 17. Her best friend who is a good friend of mine is saying the same and reassuring me but suppose cant listen to her. One my best friends is in their group circle as well and all she says is how she wants to be with noone and how she misses me. but your right i need to ignore her unless she comes out and says she wants to get back, which wont be hard as its practically her initiating NC. very sorry to hear that man, did she go off with this other guy very quick?In my honest opinion, i think its all bull**** and somewhere there is another guy in the picture but its just not in the light yet. Dont contact her and dont answer her calls or texts atleast for now to get your head straight. Shes playin around and its just going to mess with your head. Something similar happened to me and it turned out another guy was involved. Was with her for 5 years andl leaning towards marriage.
Yes i know i have to control my emotions better, i havent showed them to her since the breakup. Yup im not going to respond at all, i dont think it will be a problem she will only make contact when drunk probably. Yes time is a great healer, just keep getting filled with hope then for her to snatch it away, relationships arent worth it sometimes i suppose.Having emotions= human
Being emotional = womanly / AFC trait. Drop it.
It's best to just follow that above advice. Don't contact her, don't call, don't respond to her texts/calls, do NOT TALK TO HER AT ALL. No contact is no contact, you DON'T fvcking respond. She is trying to play with your emotions man, don't let her. Just focus on yourself and move on. Easier said than done but time heals everything.