Master Don Juan
- Aug 27, 2015
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- DFW, TX
"anchor" as in anchor leg on the 4x400M relay, a consisitent ACE partner that's going to get it DONE. Not "anchor" as in a boat anchor, to restrict and eliminate motion.Tiger Woods cheated on his wife repeatedly. Is he a low value man? He's just one example of many...
The reality is men want the best of both worlds - A stable female anchor at home + new, strange, adventure sex on the side.
We need high quality relationship partners that amplify our effect on the worlds, not ones that shrink and diminish us.
With the EX situation will and many of us have been in this position. It's best if it's HER idea to get you back. Chasing her will lower your position from where you currently stand.My story is the archetypal story of Man.
Chasing your ex is not low value if you've made mistakes and want to make amends and reconcile. It's low value if you made no mistakes in the relationship and she simply lost attraction and money-branched (that's beside the point anyway because I've made enough effort and I've given up the ghost now).
How it's done is you get your life good, and have a great dating and romance life. It has to be HER idea to see the good in you and become re-attracted.