Contrary to many of the other posts, but this woman is interested, maybe not sizzling hot, but medium-high interest.Girl I met on OLD. 1st date was just drinks. 2nd date a small hike- at this point after failing to escalate I thought nah this is low interest. Waited a week- set up a date- bowling & drinks- instant yes keen. Date was decent- made out at the end(why did I wait till the end). Next date a movie and which I realise is a terrible date option an at this stage she we should be smashing back at mine. But no just ended in making out.
I am not used to things progressing this slow- mostly of my own doing(feel low energy at the moment with work stress a study commitments)
4 dates and F all to show for it. Feels like I'm wasting my time.
Do I bother with a next one or just move on?
If she wasn't interested she wouldn't have gone on four dates, if there was no chemistry or prospect she would have flaked or ghosted already.
Now you've made fundamental mistakes, i.e. not being aggressive enough to close, but she hasn't held it against you. Hence why she keeps showing up for dates.
Your next date, you need to accelerate things, ask her to come around for dinner and to watch Netflix, if she agrees this is your opportunity to push the boundaries sexually.
Your post reminds me of this video..
Don't worry, as long as she is making easy and turns up.I seem to be initiating all the contact- setting up the dates(not chit chat)
Then you're leaving vagina on the table.If I ain't smashing on First date, or latest the second date... Then I move the F on... I escalate to sex always on first date
sometimes it's not possible to smash on the first date, due to logistics or other factors outside your control. I've had many lays on the 2nd and 3rd date. If I gave up I would have missed out!