Master Don Juan
- Apr 28, 2018
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Are you actually escalating during the dates? As in creating physical contact, being flirtatious, and having fun (all requirements to get it moving towards sex)? You mentioned low energy so I am guessing not. If none of this is happening and you are just going through the motions of showing up and having boring chit chat you aren't going to get sex.Girl I met on OLD. 1st date was just drinks. 2nd date a small hike- at this point after failing to escalate I thought nah this is low interest. Waited a week- set up a date- bowling & drinks- instant yes keen. Date was decent- made out at the end(why did I wait till the end). Next date a movie and which I realise is a terrible date option an at this stage she we should be smashing back at mine. But no just ended in making out.
I am not used to things progressing this slow- mostly of my own doing(feel low energy at the moment with work stress a study commitments)
4 dates and F all to show for it. Feels like I'm wasting my time.
I seem to be initiating all the contact- setting up the dates(not chit chat)
Do I bother with a next one or just move on?
And if you are in a slump and low energy, do NOT be a afraid to take a step back from dating and getting your sh1t in order and resting up. Otherwise, you are simply wasting your time.