15 plates

[darksprezzatura]

Sorry guys. I haven’t been active here at all, I don’t remember if any of the OGs still hit this place or if anybody even remembers me.

I just came here for a quick update, or maybe to keep this post as a journal for myself.

This might seem like humble bragging, and maybe partially even is.

I work remotely, and I am sleeping with over 15 girls at the same time.

I travel different cities to sleep with a new girl, and then they tend to chase a bit even travel over to sleep with me.

In the last one month, I’ve slept with over 20 new girls, some of which don’t want to see me again, which is fine. But most are open to regular sex.

Now I have issues remembering their names and locations and their stories and who they are or what they do etc.

We have chatter about abundance, but for me, managing so many women is draining a lot of time and energy. It’s not how it looks like.

The chaos makes me drink way more regularly, I am not as focused on my work as I used to. Now I’m often happy if a woman cancels on me as that means I have time for myself or other women.

I want to go back to my dialled in headspace, focused on work, workout, health and diet. Getting some sun, good sleep. Make a new resume, leverage better income, build a business, invest in financial instruments. But I feel like I’m procrastinating and pvssy is my escape along with alcohol.

What I feel like doing is get some therapy, this is not a good way to live as other parts of my life are getting affected. Having options is great but there’s diminishing returns as well as a downward trend to quality of life after one point in time.

 

[jhonny9546]

Very interesting story!
It would be very curious to know how you see marriages and LTR's from your POV

 

[darksprezzatura]

Very interesting story!
It would be very curious to know how you see marriages and LTR's from your POV

I think I like the idea of having kids. A marriage has no real benefit to a man, except possibly making his partner more reassured and devoted if that’s even possible. The downside is huge with financial liabilities and so on.

I am open to an LTR. It’s definitely game on hard mode as I’d need my abundance mindset from internal validation than external as I do think of cheating as a weak behaviour.

I want a woman who is empathetic, caring, emotionally stable/string, has a high libido, tall, has things to do as in a life, career and so on. A strong family background is beneficial. These are gems. Physical standards are the same as regular guys, this waist big boobs, nice ass, flawless skin. This is a ten in my opinion.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Select three lovers you enjoy spending time with the most. Ditch the rest, spend more time by yourself and on yourself.

Good advice

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No idea how you are doing this. I was physically drained trying to maintain 7-8 plates that I saw every 7-10 days after about a month.

My d!ck was literally sore from the constant usage...

I had to cut it down to like 3-4...luckily one dropped on their own and another one wasn't super interested so I just stopped seeing her.

 

[Velasco]

No idea how you are doing this

Most obvious fraud on here

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I could only handle 4. But I’m middle aged.

 

[BPH]

In the last one month, I’ve slept with over 20 new girls, some of which don’t want to see me again, which is fine. But most are open to regular sex.

I'm not sure whether I should take this post seriously based on this piece right here...

I'll bet sex addicts, celebrities, and even some pornstars aren't getting it this much. 20 new women in a month means you're sleeping with a new woman a little less than every other day. I'd be curious what you do for work that allows you maintain this and whether you actually have standards with these women or if you're just taking whatever comes your way.

 

[BPH]

It's premium BS, both OP and BackInTheGame.

BackInTheGame I can buy. I've basically got 3 plates right, 4 if I felt like involving my ex again. For him to have double that isn't unbelievable - especially assuming he lives in a better part of the country and has his own place.

20 NEW women in a month is a bit insane though. I have a hard time believing that's possible without addiction, financial ruin, and low standards.

 

[BPH]

If it wasn't true, that skeptic dude with the stupid name would be asking for receipts.

Doesn't really narrow it down.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I think it starts with a C (but not that incel with the small c) and some buttplug measuring number at the end.

CornBread50? Lol

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Can we stop using the term "plates" what the hell does that really mean? Do you mean to say you are in constant contact with 15 women and are able to sleep with them at any given time? How often do you communicate with them and how do you stay in touch, text, social media, phone calls, or what?

I can barely handle 3 FWBs at once, 5+ would be impossible due to the mental drain... I would get their personal details and our history completely mixed up and keeping in contact with them would feel overwhelming. Even with 3 FWB i'd often mix up details about things they've said and done, and keeping the context of our history in my mind would seem impossible unless you literally do nothing but fvck then go your seperate ways every single time.

 

[BeExcellent]

So you've already ID'd the real problem. You are using sex as an escape alongside alcohol. One of my ex boyfriends was an enormous player previously. He talked about the difficulty in juggling 7-8 women and found it exhausting in short order. Like you he had trouble keeping information straight, and he had no time for himself....and he was retired!

Several bits of advice for you.

1. Consider trimming down the rotation to the few you most enjoy as others have suggested. If you miss the thrill of the hunt, figure out how best to scratch that itch or keep replacing girls with new ones until you find what you are looking for.

2. Your life is out of balance. Therapy, reduction of social schedule (women) and finding time for you could all be important to rebalance yourself. Find a therapist (if you go that route) who is non judgemental. You'd do best with a male.

3. Ask yourself WHY you seek so much external validation. Do you like you? Are you uncomfortable alone with your thoughts? Figure out why you are allowing yourself to careen out of balance.

4. A therapist is unlikely to have a grasp of the type of abundance you experience with women. May not understand "Thrill of the hunt" or the sexual conquest as your drug of choice, but such a person can help you wrestle the deeper issues driving those behaviors.

5. Come here to vent and discuss the chick issues. Many of the old guard are gone, but some still pop in from time to time. There will always be those who doubt your story as they cannot imagine having the experiences you are having.

Being a player becomes an empty existance after awhile. Many men who have never experienced that kind of abundance and seek after that as a pinnacle of dating have no idea the meaninglessness and emptiness that accompanies that lifestyle after awhile. It boils down to hedonism, and most people who devolve into hedonism are consumed by it. And that's not a good outcome.

Nice to see you & hope some of that resonates. You gotta find something intrinsically meaningful to put your energy into. And you've got to learn more about who you are and find internal validation. Figure those two things out & you'll purge the chaos from your life.

 

[Chow Mein]

It means someone is dehumanising women in order to 'juggle' them.
If you need to juggle, you're doing something wrong.

I think FwB would be a better term, you care about them and get benefits without the monogamy.

3-4 FwB’s would be the ideal for me, with a couple of ‘friends’ that don’t live in your city.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

It means someone is dehumanising women in order to 'juggle' them.
If you need to juggle, you're doing something wrong.

I know what it's supposed to mean as defined by Rollo and the whole "plate spinning" theory makes sense, ie having abundance/options, but to literally refer to a woman as a plate is absurdly cringe.

I think FwB would be a better term, you care about them and get benefits without the monogamy.

3-4 FwB’s would be the ideal for me, with a couple of ‘friends’ that don’t live in your city.

Even 3-4 seems like it's pushing it, why isn't 2 or 3 enough already, hell why isn't 1 FWB you see once a week enough? I would ask, why would any man feel the need to have that much sex? Having sex 4-8 days out of the month with just 2 woman is plenty...past that you are getting into sex addiction territory, where you're deleting your sexual energy and dopamine instead of repurposing/channeling it.

 

[Clockwerk50]

No, that guy's a toddler, but you're heading in the right direction. I have no doubt that you figure it out, being the sharpest crayon in the box.

You sound lowkey salty because you didn’t think of my username first SMH. I get it, it's tough being outwitted by the sharpest crayon in the box

 

[zekko]

What I feel like doing is get some therapy, this is not a good way to live as other parts of my life are getting affected. Having options is great but there’s diminishing returns as well as a downward trend to quality of life after one point in time.

The first thing I thought when I read your post is where the heck do you find the time? I'd dial it back a bit and see if that works out any better for you. But I'm sure there are some guys here who would like to trade places with you lol.

 

[darksprezzatura]

So you've already ID'd the real problem. You are using sex as an escape alongside alcohol. One of my ex boyfriends was an enormous player previously. He talked about the difficulty in juggling 7-8 women and found it exhausting in short order. Like you he had trouble keeping information straight, and he had no time for himself....and he was retired!

Several bits of advice for you.

1. Consider trimming down the rotation to the few you most enjoy as others have suggested. If you miss the thrill of the hunt, figure out how best to scratch that itch or keep replacing girls with new ones until you find what you are looking for.

2. Your life is out of balance. Therapy, reduction of social schedule (women) and finding time for you could all be important to rebalance yourself. Find a therapist (if you go that route) who is non judgemental. You'd do best with a male.

3. Ask yourself WHY you seek so much external validation. Do you like you? Are you uncomfortable alone with your thoughts? Figure out why you are allowing yourself to careen out of balance.

4. A therapist is unlikely to have a grasp of the type of abundance you experience with women. May not understand "Thrill of the hunt" or the sexual conquest as your drug of choice, but such a person can help you wrestle the deeper issues driving those behaviors.

5. Come here to vent and discuss the chick issues. Many of the old guard are gone, but some still pop in from time to time. There will always be those who doubt your story as they cannot imagine having the experiences you are having.

Being a player becomes an empty existance after awhile. Many men who have never experienced that kind of abundance and seek after that as a pinnacle of dating have no idea the meaninglessness and emptiness that accompanies that lifestyle after awhile. It boils down to hedonism, and most people who devolve into hedonism are consumed by it. And that's not a good outcome.

Nice to see you & hope some of that resonates. You gotta find something intrinsically meaningful to put your energy into. And you've got to learn more about who you are and find internal validation. Figure those two things out & you'll purge the chaos from your life.

Thanks ma’am. I appreciate your inputs, as I have since years now, you indeed are an OG.
Your thought to see if I’m okay with myself is a beautiful piece of advice. It might be beneficial for me to write things out in a journal somewhere private apart from this place. Mostly when I write something here, I’m talking to myself, maybe more coherently than I would if it was a private journal. And it helps. 100%.

There obviously are new folks here, I see some long time posters here too, which is reassuring that the culture isn’t dead here.

I am not going to prove anything to anyone here about validity of my claims. If folks think being with 20 women a day is absurd, let me give you more details.

This month, I went out of the city to meet a girl I found lovely. She brought a friend, I slept with both of them, and they were okay with it. She came over the next day to suck me off while I was building my rotation for the next week.

On the way coming back to my own city, I made a stop to sleep with two more girls together who were best friends.

Before I was leaving for this trip, I was sleeping with my stalker and another girl with a startup on the same day I had to be flight out the city.

For Friday, Saturday, Sunday, I have my plans in an entirely new city set with 7-10 different women, some of whom might possibly cancel. If they don’t I’d need to figure out how to ask a woman to leave if another is coming. I’ll definitely be sleeping with 4 new women this weekend. All this while, I’m approaching volume.

I’ve realised that I’m extremely good looking from a very young age. I’m 6’2, jacked, tattoos, musician, apparently extremely intelligent too. I work a profession people dream of, it lets me travel around the world at the drop of a hat. I’ve been told I’m handsome, the best sex they’ve ever had multiple times. I am extremely thick in all areas imaginable.

I am slightly older, and some women have shared that they don’t like that I’m too blunt and forward, which they are entitled to.

I also have pets which girls seem to love. I love my pets more than any woman I’ve slept with. I also love my life goal more too, though I’ve been procrastinating a lot. I need to work on that.

My finances are a mess, so is my sleep cycle, I abuse uncommon substances though I’m healthy as of now.

I’ve been on this forum when I was fat unemployed recovering from breakups, and my life has completely changed.

Contrary to a lot of men here, I love women and I’m hoping to find a partner and settle down with her. I’m sleeping with many women because I want to, and I’m hoping to find someone I can have kids with and build an empire with.

I am actually interested in what women have to offer, because they have helped me in my life. I seem to understand women, because I feel they are all rooting for me and I always try to add value to a woman’s life, or even folks who I come across. Just cuz I can.

I have my own set of struggles and insecurities, which currently I’m not working on and it’s making me dislike myself. But I’ll bounce back. You know why?

Cuz I got you guys. I love this place.

 

[darksprezzatura]

BackInTheGame I can buy. I've basically got 3 plates right, 4 if I felt like involving my ex again. For him to have double that isn't unbelievable - especially assuming he lives in a better part of the country and has his own place.

20 NEW women in a month is a bit insane though. I have a hard time believing that's possible without addiction, financial ruin, and low standards.

I am indeed going through financial issues, substance addiction, but standards are reasonably high, some of these women are supermodels or close. Off the top of my head two doctors, one professor, two with their own businesses, one lawyer, one software engineer and so on, I mean smart people. I do believe financially I supersede all of them. All of them over 5’5, amazing breasts, do exactly what I ask of them in bed and outside of bed.

Instances where I slept with 4 woman a day are also there just saying. I have an intermittently busy schedule so some days I don’t even get out the house, so I split the off days with all of them.

Instances where 3 girls have come over to clean my place, suck me off and cook me food on the same day. It does seem all very mad even writing this down, but it is what it is.

 

[BPH]

I am indeed going through financial issues, substance addiction, but standards are reasonably high, some of these women are supermodels or close. Off the top of my head two doctors, one professor, two with their own businesses, one lawyer, one software engineer and so on, I mean smart people. I do believe financially I supersede all of them. All of them over 5’5, amazing breasts, do exactly what I ask of them in bed and outside of bed.

Instances where I slept with 4 woman a day are also there just saying. I have an intermittently busy schedule so some days I don’t even get out the house, so I split the off days with all of them.

Instances where 3 girls have come over to clean my place, suck me off and cook me food on the same day. It does seem all very mad even writing this down, but it is what it is.

I'm not going to write you off as a BS artist because I don't know you well enough. Plenty of people think I am, so I'm sure it's possible you're achieving what you say you are.

I'm curious though, what allows for this? Do you make really good money? Are you really attractive? Does your work naturally surround you with these women (photographer, p***star, etc)? I don't care how much "game" you have, sleeping with some people's entire life's worth of women in the span of a single month is pretty insane...especially if they're all "new".

What exactly do you do/are doing that you're able to achieve and maintain this?