Pedrito0906
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Hello bois and the few gals,
I wanted to shared this post with all of you, cause like me I thought I was never gonna be capable of improving my life at 33. Below are some category of how my life has improved changing my mindset about being more masculine and putting the hard work.
1. Mental health: After reading self help books I've been able to change my mindset, about being a masculine man, being a rock, hard things have happened to me in the last year and I have dealt with them like a man should have done, lifting myself up. For example, a lighting hit my house, breaking a bunch of stuff, my two cars broke down, I got disrespected at my job and I quit, in the dating scene I have approached and been on dates (still learning).
2. Financial: After quitting my job something I never knew it was possible I found a better one with more money, more hands on the technical matter, exactly how I wanted it. Being blue pilled I would have never done it like so many of people I know, just taking disrespect in a job they hate. Also got a deal trading one on iy car and getting a used one like new, lower millage, newer and better.
3. Body: My test levels were low 370, I was having all the symptoms, ED, deep depression, no drive to do anything, feeling sorry for myself, after getting into TRT (and some gear, not promoting it btw) I've been able to be in my best physique, and have the missing drive to conquer the world.
4. Life: I have a good social life, great friends, great hobbies, dancing is my best skill which I have always loved, took classes to get better, I can approach any women to dance, not many guys know how to dance, that definitely has helped getting dates. And when a women sees other women having fun, they all want to dance with me. I also have other hobbies, playing sports with other people.
5. Dating: Have approached and got dates with a couple of lays, but still wanna get better. I have gotten IOIs by other women, something I've never gotten before. My main plate as some of you know is a single mom, she's great with me, I accidentally behaved as her bf, now she calls me her bf, I do call her my gf, however, however, however, I keep approaching other women, keep inviting them on dates, she knows I have the vasectomy, she knows I'm not getting married. Not the most honorable thing to do and I get it. I take this as practice, going on dates, getting to know new places, learning to pass $hit tests, its like sparring to me now that I'm red pill aware, and since I have the vasectomy I don't see any risk, cause relationships can end at any time and nobody owes anything to anybody.
Thanks to the hard work I've put and being in the forum with the harsh truth that you guys have said I've been able to be at my best. I'm also writing this post for me and not looking for any approval but to come back and see my improvements a year from now.
In the picture attached below I see myself more masculine, I was so puzz looking that is cringe, I definitely feel it in my mind, I do have more of an abundance mindset, but not enough since I'm still working on myself every day. Overall I think in a year I've done pretty fvcking good and I'm proud of it.
I wanted to shared this post with all of you, cause like me I thought I was never gonna be capable of improving my life at 33. Below are some category of how my life has improved changing my mindset about being more masculine and putting the hard work.
1. Mental health: After reading self help books I've been able to change my mindset, about being a masculine man, being a rock, hard things have happened to me in the last year and I have dealt with them like a man should have done, lifting myself up. For example, a lighting hit my house, breaking a bunch of stuff, my two cars broke down, I got disrespected at my job and I quit, in the dating scene I have approached and been on dates (still learning).
2. Financial: After quitting my job something I never knew it was possible I found a better one with more money, more hands on the technical matter, exactly how I wanted it. Being blue pilled I would have never done it like so many of people I know, just taking disrespect in a job they hate. Also got a deal trading one on iy car and getting a used one like new, lower millage, newer and better.
3. Body: My test levels were low 370, I was having all the symptoms, ED, deep depression, no drive to do anything, feeling sorry for myself, after getting into TRT (and some gear, not promoting it btw) I've been able to be in my best physique, and have the missing drive to conquer the world.
4. Life: I have a good social life, great friends, great hobbies, dancing is my best skill which I have always loved, took classes to get better, I can approach any women to dance, not many guys know how to dance, that definitely has helped getting dates. And when a women sees other women having fun, they all want to dance with me. I also have other hobbies, playing sports with other people.
5. Dating: Have approached and got dates with a couple of lays, but still wanna get better. I have gotten IOIs by other women, something I've never gotten before. My main plate as some of you know is a single mom, she's great with me, I accidentally behaved as her bf, now she calls me her bf, I do call her my gf, however, however, however, I keep approaching other women, keep inviting them on dates, she knows I have the vasectomy, she knows I'm not getting married. Not the most honorable thing to do and I get it. I take this as practice, going on dates, getting to know new places, learning to pass $hit tests, its like sparring to me now that I'm red pill aware, and since I have the vasectomy I don't see any risk, cause relationships can end at any time and nobody owes anything to anybody.
Thanks to the hard work I've put and being in the forum with the harsh truth that you guys have said I've been able to be at my best. I'm also writing this post for me and not looking for any approval but to come back and see my improvements a year from now.
In the picture attached below I see myself more masculine, I was so puzz looking that is cringe, I definitely feel it in my mind, I do have more of an abundance mindset, but not enough since I'm still working on myself every day. Overall I think in a year I've done pretty fvcking good and I'm proud of it.
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