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    Two things i'll do in 2024. I'll avoid victim mode and I'll be calm

    Things are never perfect, but they are pretty good. I get frustrated with friends and my wife at times, even so i know its much better to stay calm and do my own thing when others disappoint me. So to make this more actionable.. I will post mostly positive and constructive content even when i...
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    Breadcrumbing article

    I had often linked it to variable rewardinf https://www.cnn.com/2023/12/04/health/what-is-breadcrumbing-meaning-wellness/index.html
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    Longevity requires both strength and endurance

    Alot of people advocate what Peter Attia has talked about in his book and podcast. Essentially Peter Attia has a goal to be in the top percentiles for strength as well as endurance for his age group because both seem to be predictive of longevity. This essay will discuss it briefly. This is...
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    Beer goggles

    https://www.medscape.com/s/viewarticle/996750?ecd=wnl_sci_tech_230927_MSCPEDIT_etid5893571&uac=71874AY&impID=5893571 We humans have a mixed relationship with alcohol. On one hand, it helps us relax after a stressful day and feel more at ease in social situations. But excessive use can impact...
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    What i see as the biggest challenge in day game

    I think the biggest challenge in daygame is closing quickly. You don't want to lose the opportunity if thats the only time you will see them, but you also want to build enough attraction and interest in the conversation that following up will be natural and the odds of going out with her are higher.
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    For those that gave up alcohol, what was the turning point and what helped keep you away from it?

    I don't drink daily but i am thinking of quitting for good due to some binging that i've done when i do drink. The longest period of remember of not drinking at all was about 5 months when i had horrible heartburn and gave up alcohol and coffee. I was having great success at that time in the...
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    Negativity

    I am encountering negativity and pessimism everywhere lately
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    Skin care regimen

    Any good skin care tips? My skin looks like the skin of someone who has been outdoor doing sports and partied until the late hours too much... I was thinking of going to Sephora but would probably only end up flirting with the women there
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    Ricky’s game theory and field journal

    Thanks @Jesse Pinkman for getting everyone off the bench and back in the game with your approach journal. I am a little buzzed tonight but went out and will report on that tomorrow. About me… i am an OG since 2002. A disciple of David D, Ross jeffries, met mystery back in the day and talked to...
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    Will a weight loss drug like Ozempic change the game?

    If a safe weight loss drug hit the market it would lead to more attractive women hitting the market men who were overweight would also benefit what do you see the net impact on the game being? would the increased supply of suitable women be eclipsed by an increased supply of chads? i think...
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    Secondary social media accounts

    A guy at work has a second facebook account with a fake name because he is married. He uses it to connect with women. Do any of you do this?
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    Interesting increase in prevalance of long distance relationships

    My nephew just got out of a long distance relationship. I warned them that in my experience they never work out. At this moment, i know of at least 3 couples currently in long distance relationships. It seems like in the past few years, i am seeing more of these than ever before. I know how it...
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    Something i recommend you ask a woman fairly early on

    I am not saying to ask this on a first date but if you have any intention of becoming exclusive with her after several dates…. Ask about her relationship with her dad. If he was absent, or a weak dad… consider that it may be best not to get involved with her My wife’s father wasn’t very...
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    When a woman isn't busy, she will use her free time to create drama

    There are so many bad stories and personal experiences of "Ideal hands become the work of the devil" Women need drama. It's better for her to hate her co-workers than to hate you. If they aren't busy they will find ways to create all sorts of unnecessary drama. I've seen it with my sister in...
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    Spending hours on the phone with a woman

    I can’t see any case where spending hours on the phone would increase a womans attraction towards you. Are there any exceptions to this? Cultural exceptions etc? I am a good conversationalist but always left women wanting more....I purposely limited conversation time
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    Marriage advice

    I used to post here back in the days I was a pickup artist. Now I've been with the same woman for 14 years and married for 11. We hit our first big patch of trouble here recently.. not sure how deep a dive i wont to go into details of what caused it. In any event i'm at the need to give her...
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    Married and having women friends

    One of the women i work with is one of my best friends now and she is leaving our company to move back to her home town and i am fairly sad about it. She is also married and we have bonded over stress at work, our mutual love of her hometown since i used to live there and have talked about life...
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    I was average looking and now i must be ugly

    I feel like the stress that hit me the last 5 years etc has really put a toll on my looks. I was never a guy that got women solely based on his looks and still managed to be successful over the years. I married a great woman and now have a daughter i love dearly. I have been good and havent been...
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    What are some other forums you like to read?

    Some other forums i go to on occasion For fitness Bodybuilding.com Runnersworld.com For career Eng-tips.com For guitar stuff Thegearpage For sports Ncaabbs.com Just wondering what forums you guys like to read. For PUA sosuave has always been my favorite, although im on...
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    Has there been anything new since 2006?

    I used to be a regular on here from the early 2000's on past the release of the game and afterwards. I stopped following after the formation of the stylelife academy and the pickup artist hit the tv. So are there any new gurus or techniques of note? Im a married guy now but like to keep up...
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