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    Throw away your formulas for success

    I'll get straight to the point: there is no formula for success. You cannot bottle, package, and label success. Your happiness does not lie in a single quote. Be suspicious of anyone who tries to convince you that they have the ultimate way to succeed. Whether it be with women, sports, the...
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    Memorising patterns... worth it?

    Hey, boys. Just checkin' in on the "Unusual Techniques" forum for a couple of minutes... seems a little bit quiet, but nevertheless, there are some quality posts going around. Personally, I've been in and out of SS for about a month now, and I'm still not sure whether I need it. By "it" I mean...
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    To stop the threads about getting abs.

    Almost everyone has a six pack. But what most people want is a VISIBLE six pack. So think about it for a second... what's the difference between the fat guy who does 100 sit ups every second day but seems to have no six pack, and the model who rarely works out and has a six pack that could cut...
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    The Power of Conviction

    Whether you're a seductionist, or a regular guy who would like to be a seductionist, this post is for you. The power of conviction (being decisive and confident) cannot be underestimated. Have you ever watched a game of soccer, where the ball has been crossed in from a corner, then sits up...
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    Prepare Yourselves!

    How have I doubled my pick-ups in the last month without cosmetic surgery, a lottery win, or hypnosis? More to the point, how could you do this? It's easy: be prepared. Prepare yourself to approach a woman in any situation, at any time, in any way. I used to let at least 1 or 2 opportunities...
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    Stop the SLOGAN CHANTING!

    Stop the Slogan Chanting! a.k.a... "I DJed this chick good!!!" "Really?!?!? That is so un-AFC of you!" "Yeah I know, but would it be AFC of me to have ring tone number 21 on my mobile phone???" "Who cares what other people think???? Keep the focus on yourself!" "GREEEAAAAAAAT ADVICE...
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    21

    I'm turning 21 this year, so I thought it would be appropriate to to give you guys 21 good tips on life and women. 1. Being genuinely WARM will get you connections. By being nice to everyone (unless they disrespect you), interested in other people, and by having a happy disposition, you will...
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    CHOOSE LIFE

    Freedom. What is real freedom? Is it being free to choose your religion? Is it being free to choose your profession? Maybe it's being able to choose whether you want peas or carrots, or being able to choose your sexual partner. It's all of these things. The essence of being free is the ability...
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    Reading this WILL change your life.......

    Originally posted by REd-xL You'll be sorry if you hit that "Back" button. What I'm going to present here is the ultimate guide to gaining the confidence to approach girls anywhere, anytime. Once again, I must warn you, failing to read this will result in one of the biggest missed opportunities...
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    Fun is paramount.

    I woke up yesterday morning bleary eyed, with a headache like a jackhammer, and a taste in my mouth that can only be described as halfway between sour milk and cola. Nevertheless, I woke up with a smile on my face. It was at that moment when I looked in the mirror, seeing the ugliest...
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    How to stop getting nervous around women.

    Do you s-s-s-sometimes g-g-get a little b-b-b-bit nervous around w-w-women? Does the idea of having a conversation with a female make you weak at the knees? Are you funnier than Jerry Seinfeld with your male friends, but when you meet with a girl, the only thing she's laughing at is your...
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    The true chick magnets...

    Here's something I've noticed over the years, and I'm sure you'll notice it too: The guys who are successful and happy in their lives, and who realise that they don't need women to make them happy, attract chicks like there's no tomorrow. This is no coincidence. They are successful and happy...
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    Walking on eggshells...

    I say never be complete. I say stop being perfect. I say let's evolve. Let the chips fall where they may. - Tyler Durden Many of you, reading this now, are searching for completeness, or perfection. Looking for that foolproof plan to get you laid, to get you a girlfriend, or to become Mr...
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    The #1 Thing Stopping You Becoming a Don Juan

    You. For all of you whiners sitting in front of your laptops at home saying, "Damn! These guys have so much success with women. They make it sound so simple. Why can't I just be a confident, ambitious, charismatic man?" Well, you can. What's more, it is simple. I was once like you. About 9...
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    Just Be Nice!

    Welcome, Don Juans and Don Juans-in-training. Today, a simple lesson. There is a common mis-conception amongst the men on this site. These men have read the DJ Bible: TICK! But within the Bible, lies a simple noun which is a key, but can be a roadbock. This noun is "nice". When coupled with...
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    Raise Her Interest in You!

    How to Attract flocks of Women... 1. Love Life: Instead of thinking, "Don't stuff up. This could be the girl I marry. Remember to make eye contact. Use kino. WAIT! Was that a dilated pupil I saw? O damn I hope I didn't miss my chance. OK, be calm and confident, just make eye contact. WAIT! She...
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    Success with Women

    Success with women comes easy. As well as combining a few of the Don Juan aspects (kino, non-desperation, take no sh*t), all you have to do is apply the "Law of the Seed". Now, don't quote me on this but the basic Law of the Seed is to take your lead from nature: plant as many seeds as possible...
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    Tip #5: Dealing with Fear

    The first step to overcoming fear is always the same: recognise your fear as fear. Once you realise that you are afraid, you are free to deal with it. Once you know what you are dealing with, you can handle it. Dealing with fear isn't easy. There is no complete solution to overcoming fear -...
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    Tip #4: The Phone

    We've all got a phone and we all know how tempting it can be to either: a) Call a girl you're interested in and talk for hours, but never get any closer to a date. OR b) Not call a girl you're interested in at all until 2 months after you've known them and then ask for a date. Well, if (b)...
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    Tip #3: Kino

    "What is kino?" Kino is affectionate touching. "Why is kino important?" Kino is what makes the difference between being put in the "Friends Zone" or being in the "Sexual Zone". It drives girls wild! No kidding. If done correctly kino can be an extremely effective tool in attraction. Some...
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