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    Screwed up badly

    Hey all, so I’m now officially on day 1 of NC with this chick I’ve been seeing for the past 2-3months who has given me nothing but headaches. You can refer back to my previous thread for more info but basically we had about 5 dates in total which all went really well, lots of chemistry...
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    Need your opinion

    Ok so just in case you don’t know about my situation from my last post, I’ll briefly sum it up....I’ve been seeing this chick for nearly a couple of months. Have been on 4 dates in that time. We get on really well, lots of chemistry, and we slept together the other night which was amazing and we...
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    Is she interested?

    Hey guys, have an interesting situation with a girl that I can’t read who I met off tinder. So we’ve already been on 2 dates which have gone really well, lots of laughing and vibing, lots in common, nothing sexual yet but both have communicated mutual attraction for one another. The problem? We...
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    Need some tough love!

    Hi All, So I've just recently ended a situationship that has really cut me up. I was talking to a girl who lived in another city, she was 30 and I'm 31.We met on a dating app when she was in my city but was leaving on the day we started talking so I didn't get the chance to meet her. I was...
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    Anyone else completely over it?!

    Turning 32 in a couple of months and it’s starting to kick in that my chances of ever finding “the one” are diminishing bit by bit. I have done so much work on myself these last couple of years after my big break up to get to a place where I’m ready to truly date. I’ve lost a heap of weight...
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    Nasty break up! please help im a mess

    Hey all, So i was dating a girl for the past 6 months, who i fell in love with and really thought she was the one. She is diagnosed with BPD so she did have her issues but for the most bit, everything was great between us, things were intense from the minute we started dating, we had so many...
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    relationship dilemma, what to do?

    30 year old guy here whose been dating this chick for 6 months now. We get on great, always have great fun together and in love with one another. However this chick has BPD and although we get on really well, we have our differences. Shes a great chick, but i am finding her high maintenance and...
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    No motivation from dating anymore?

    Im 29, have never really had much success in the dating world. Have had a couple of short term relationships which never went anywhere, despite me doing my best to make them work. I've had slept with a few girls which was great but eventually that comes to an end as well. I have done all the...
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    Cant read this girl...need some advice!!

    Hello all, So for the last 3 months ive been seeing this girl whose 12 years older than me, shes 41 and im 29. She's a single mom with 2 kids in early 20s who have moved out of home. She's very physically attractive for her age and we seem to have a lot in common and have an amazing connection...
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    Crush on lecturer

    Hey all, Its been a while since i have been on here and i have this interesting situation that i would like your opinion on and some advice. Im currently enrolled in a community college to study a short term course (will be finished in a few months) and i have recently developed a big crush on...
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    Not getting tinder matches

    I'm blown away....I'm not an ugly guy, every time I go out I always get told by women how handsome I am and even men make comments that I'm good looking guy. It's the same on social networks, always have girls liking and commenting on my photos and they are the same photos I'm using on tinder...
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    Is friends with ex's worth it?

    Hey guys, Its been a while, but i have a confusing situation i am in and would like your views & opinions. Last year i met a girl on facebook who lives in another country but we managed to fall in love with each other. We had a great connection and chemistry and had plans to fly to each...
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    Losing motivation for everything

    Hey guys, Gee where do i start. 26 year old guy here whose down and out and its not just about chicks its about life in general. I am currently unemployed and am finding it hard to find work and find my passion in life. I have done several courses in my life which at start was excited about...
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    Your thoughts on facebook/instagram

    Pretty much on the verge of deleting mine. Quite frankly i dont give a crap about peoples problems or what they are up to etc And with all the bad stories about meeting up with girls on social networking sites that i have read on here, i dont even think its worth keeping for girls.... Anyway...
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    dont know where im going wrong

    hey fellas, i dont know if its just me or if the dating game is just getting more sh1tter and sh1tter. I usually do online dating as i live in a small town and its hard to meet decent quality girls but it seems that no matter what i do i cant get a girlfriend. For example i just recently...
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    what to do with a girl who...

    is scared of hurting you? basically ive been seeing a girl for the last few months, we get along great, lots of chemistry, have the same needs and wants and everything is great. Were not rushing into a relationship yet, where just taking it slow and seeing how things go. She confessed to...
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    Why should we even bother?

    Im not going to bore you with my rant but fu*k i am so over girls. They can be all in to you and promise you all these things and then when it comes down to it all they do is disappoint... making dates and flaking at the last minute i cant even count the number of times this has happened to...
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    Need Urgent Help!

    Hey fellas, I am in a really bad situation at the moment. I am in a long distance relationship with a girl from another country. We have been dating for nearly 3 months now and are both totally in love with each other and are planning to visit each other before the years end. I am crazy about...
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    girl with boyfriend?

    Hey all, Ive got a bit of a situation. Im head over heels for a girl with a boyfriend. Problem is she likes me too and flirts with me but wont leave her bf for me and wont "break the rules" a little with me because she wants to be faithful... Shes coming over tomorrow night to hang out but...
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    trying too hard?

    Is it true when you constantly go searching for "love" or for "someone" it never comes to you? i feel like the more i try the less results im getting... I have a HB8 who i really like and she likes me, we've never met but we text alot but i am always initiating contact with her.....we talk...
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