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Been seeing her a few months now. Chemistry is off the charts in every way. Legit one of the only women I've ever dated who I legitimately enjoy hanging out with beyond sex. Problem is, I'm falling for her. Big time. Like it's difficult for me to talk to other women because I have such strong...

Anyone else? Don't be scared to admit it--we're all anonymous here. And I'd appreciate thoughts/advice. Seems like if I don't give a sh!t about the girl and just want to use her as a literal fvck toy I have no issues. But once I start to date a girl and legitimately like her I get in my head...

Have a great life overall, but I think I've got some kind of issues. Big time overthinker/overanalyzer, whenever I get bored (which is often) I get depressed, and I'm a pretty high-strung and hyper-vigilant (maybe even paranoid sometimes) person overall. I also feel like I'm completely unable to...

Randomly saw this girl from the gym on facebook who I remember giving me "eyes" a time or two and decided to shoot my shot (since it's quarantine and all). Added her, she added me back, then I messaged her.. Me: Hey. I know this is random, but you look really familiar.. Have I seen you at *gym...

Had a first date "date night" last saturday at my place that went really well. Lotta laughs, had great sex, etc. Few days later we scheduled to hangout saturday. Today she sends me a text saying she decided to visit a friend in another state, so she'd have to raincheck. I just said "gotcha. have...

Had a wine date last saturday. Went well and ended up fvcking the sh!t outta each other. Hit her up this week and said it was fun. She agreed and I said we should hangout again this weekend, but she said she has her daughter. Legit excuse, but no reciprocation, so I said: "oh gotcha. Well if you...

Got this girl's number off Tinder. Started texting her last Wednesday. Little bit of small talk, then it gets sexual. We end up sexting and exchanging some risque pics. She SUPER into it--talking about how attracted to me she is, how she's a hornball and will want to f*ck me all the time, etc...

Which wouldn't usually be any kind of a problem, but ironically, I actually started to really like the girl--like, was planning on saying we should be exclusive. I'm digging this point in, because I'm extremely picky and almost never date seriously because of it. I legit haven't even thought of...

I'm a software tester. One of two in my office. Well, WAS one of two, but the lead, who had been with the team for 9 years, just left, and I'm stuck taking on all his responsibilities and duties in addition to mine--with just over 1.5 years of experience... I was sat down yesterday and talked to...

Maybe I should consider myself "lucky," but I'm just ridiculously salty about it... I matched with this girl on Bumble, 25 years old, and she started right out the gate being pretty damn aggressive. Not like sexually aggressive, but just acting really interested. She told me she wasn't looking...

Had a great date tonight. I went for a kiss and she went for a hug. Ended up putting my hand on her face/jaw area (like you'd do for a kiss), then immediately transitioning into a hug when I realized she was going for a hug. Honestly, in retrospect, I feel like I should've just gone for a hug in...

I hear both of these here, so which is it. Saying "I'm always the catch" is egotistical and not realistic. If you can embed this in your mind/game, GREAT, it will certainly help, but the point remains. "Lose the ego". I take this to mean, "you're not the center of the universe and you...

Don't understand what's wrong with me... I've already done the hard part--talk to her and build some rapport, but I'm being a complete pvssy on the asking-her-out part. Timeline is this: -See her in the gym all the time. Pretty sure I've seen her checking me out too, and I KNOW her girlfriend...

Been seeing a girl. Seen her four times now. Been to her place and she's been to mine. Had sex a bunch of times. Had a date setup for tonight (scheduled it last sunday). Texted her making sure we were still on Thursday. She confirms. Text her today saying I could do earlier if she wants, but...

Talked to this girl from bumble for a while and she finally stopped being a pvssy and came over friday night. Neither of us want anything serious so it's just friends with benefits. I can tell she's really into me because she's texting the hell outta me and was even about to ditch her friends to...

-Girl lives 40-50 minutes from me -Meet halfway--Saturday night -Great time, great conversation, lots of things in common -Kiss mid date, then heavy makeout, lip biting and neck kissing at end -10 minutes after date she texts me thanking me for drinks and that "she had a great time with me"...

And from how it looks I never will. Two girls I've tried to date within the last month have ended up ignoring me. The first I "dated" for 1-2 weeks. We saw each other very frequently--like every other day. She texted me a lot and was obviously very interested. I even took her out to dinner...

Holy sh!t a personality and good attitude are impossible to find these days.

I've got a pretty good life, but I just hate everything. I'm barely ever happy. I work a "good" job with great co-workers and a fair salary for only being in the workforce for 1.5 years, but I just feel like it's pointless. I'm a software tester, and it's low stress, but it's just...

Not that I haven't gone through this same crap a thousand times, but here's another apparent failure... Went out with a 26 y/o chick from OkCupid last Sunday night. Seemed to go pretty well. There were a few spots where we seemed to have nothing to say in the two hours we were together, but I...