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    Falling in love with the woman I've been seeing

    Yeah we've been physical since the start. I really just don't want her seeing other dudes at this point. I don't know if she is, but since I'm feeling this kind of way for her I either want to take the relationship up a notch and be exclusive or walk. I'm not trying to see her for however...
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    Falling in love with the woman I've been seeing

    Been seeing her a few months now. Chemistry is off the charts in every way. Legit one of the only women I've ever dated who I legitimately enjoy hanging out with beyond sex. Problem is, I'm falling for her. Big time. Like it's difficult for me to talk to other women because I have such strong...
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    Performance anxiety when I legitimately "like" a woman

    Anyone else? Don't be scared to admit it--we're all anonymous here. And I'd appreciate thoughts/advice. Seems like if I don't give a sh!t about the girl and just want to use her as a literal fvck toy I have no issues. But once I start to date a girl and legitimately like her I get in my head...
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    Getting over a SO's past

    What's it matter how many people someone has banged? As long as they're clean of STDs and not a cheater it should be fine. It's actually better to be with someone who has a higher body count because they've gotten all that wildness out of their system.
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    Hungout with her Wednesday and again tonight. Slight feelings for her if I'm being honest. Kinda hard to read her, but I'm overthinking it. She's into being called a "good little slvt" and kinky stuff like that, so I was thinking of hitting her up in a few days and saying "you've been such a...
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    Can't enjoy the moment

    Have a great life overall, but I think I've got some kind of issues. Big time overthinker/overanalyzer, whenever I get bored (which is often) I get depressed, and I'm a pretty high-strung and hyper-vigilant (maybe even paranoid sometimes) person overall. I also feel like I'm completely unable to...
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    When a woman pulls back, don't fight it...odds are things are not what they seem

    Let's be honest though... Any human being who does this to someone deliberately is a piece of sh!t.
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    After she said Wednesday I actually put an ok hand sign emoji before I said "good luck" to signify that Wednesday sounded good. It didn't show up on this forum for some reason. Since the date is several days away I prefer to text the day of with the time I want her to come over
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    So update.. She texted me Thursday to tell me that she was looking forward to choking on my d!ck, etc, etc, etc, we sexted for a short bit, etc, etc, etc. Then today I woke up to a text from her today.. Her: Heyy I'm sorry I need to reschedule. My move in date was moved up to tuesday and I am...
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    Write this off as a loss/rejection?

    Randomly saw this girl from the gym on facebook who I remember giving me "eyes" a time or two and decided to shoot my shot (since it's quarantine and all). Added her, she added me back, then I messaged her.. Me: Hey. I know this is random, but you look really familiar.. Have I seen you at *gym...
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    Update: Posted a pic on snap yesterday and she hit me up... Her: You're cute :) Me: That makes two of us ;) Her: :devil: Me: I want you this weekend. Let's hangout fri or sat Her: Me too. I'm busy those days. How about sunday? Me: Sunday sounds good. It's a date Her: See you then ;) Me: Can't...
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    So update, and surprisingly a good one. Yesterday evening she hit me up letting me know she was back. Asked her how it was, she said she got some "much needed girl time", yada yada, then I said we should hangout later if she was up for it. She agreed and we ended up hanging out. Think I've...
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    I guess that's a good point. Her exact message was: "Heyy I decided last minute to visit my friend in Boston so I'm going to have to rain check." I said "gotcha. have fun" and she responded with "Thanks :)"
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    How to proceed after this flake?

    Had a first date "date night" last saturday at my place that went really well. Lotta laughs, had great sex, etc. Few days later we scheduled to hangout saturday. Today she sends me a text saying she decided to visit a friend in another state, so she'd have to raincheck. I just said "gotcha. have...
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    Did I play this right?

    But if I did that, the guy above would've said it was desperate and thirsty.
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    Did I play this right?

    Had a wine date last saturday. Went well and ended up fvcking the sh!t outta each other. Hit her up this week and said it was fun. She agreed and I said we should hangout again this weekend, but she said she has her daughter. Legit excuse, but no reciprocation, so I said: "oh gotcha. Well if you...
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    Ha. Girl goes from super interested to (essentially) ghosting

    I went with that and deleted her number. She literally said "I hope you're down to fvck all the time I'm suchhh a horn ball" at 8pm on saturday. If that's not high interest I don't know what is. That was also right before I gave myself a black eye, which is why I thought her flaking sunday...
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    Ha. Girl goes from super interested to (essentially) ghosting

    She ended up texting me today and said: "Sorry it's been crazy at work and I've been exhausted. I didn't mean any harm .. but I do think I lost the spark I was feeling. Sorry." She lost the "spark," since wednesday (when we started talking), and before we even met. Lmao what in the f*ck?
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    Ha. Girl goes from super interested to (essentially) ghosting

    Got this girl's number off Tinder. Started texting her last Wednesday. Little bit of small talk, then it gets sexual. We end up sexting and exchanging some risque pics. She SUPER into it--talking about how attracted to me she is, how she's a hornball and will want to f*ck me all the time, etc...
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