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For the last eight years or so I've been "dating" with the full understanding that most women are a gigantic pain in the ass and not worth your effort - I just treated it as a matter of fact truth about the world and went about my business. But, I also thought I was clever enough to filter out...

So lately I've been using YouTube recommendations instead of Pandora for background entertainment - YMH, JRE, Gavin McInnes, Aaron Clarey, Entrepreneurs in Cars, Red Man Group - that kind of thing. This post is about the last two channels, specifically one idea they keep pushing, which I'm going...

Been in the US almost a year now. Practically zero culture shock coming from Australia - it's basically plug and play. Figured it was about time a foreigner told you everything that's wrong with your country, bahaha. Kidding, I hate the douchebags who do that. Anyway. If there's one quality...

I'm twice the man I was ten years ago, and it hasn't made sex and dating any easier. We're not promised anything in this world, but this, this really frustrates me at times. And it's largely self-inflicted because I've been chasing dollars and taking crappy locations knowing that my dating...

If you're a solid 7/10 and a generally likeable dude, I think you'll find this useful - not gonna pretend it will work for everyone. Background: Found myself in a particularly crappy location for OLD - virtually no attractive women who had their sh!t together in my area - if you've tried OLD...

Exactly what it says on the box.

"I thought the date went great and we really connected - but then I never heard from him again." Can't speak for everyone, but when I'm on a first date I play to win regardless. I'm kind of forming some opinions about you, but my main goal is to make sure both of us have a great time - I'll...

I know we're not supposed to take Game/TRP too literally, but then you have conversations like this one. That bi-polar flip in her last two messages... goddamn does Game work, but goddamn do I dislike what I see sometimes. Her: Great, then we can be friends lol sound fun? Her: No pressure, we...

A buddy and I were swapping notes on just how painful and tedious it can be trying to schedule a date with the average woman. You know how it goes, IL seems high, iron is hot, time to strike: You: Friday, Bar-X, 8 PM, you in? Her: I'd love to but I'm babysitting for my sister that night... but...

Nope, not another story about oneitis or lousy filtering. Nah, I just thought it would be fun to look back and laugh at some of the ideas that have fallen in and out of favour on SoSuave over the last ten years (how old is the forum anyway?). Three strikes: This was huge around 2006 - 2010...

God damn, do I love minimalism. Every time I apply it to my life, it gets better. I have never regretted downsizing and simplifying, not once. Housing - check Investing -check Transport - check Clothing - check Food - check Exercise - check So what's next, hmmm? If you were going to...

I'm an aussie heading over to Florida for a few years with work. It's going to be a fantastic project and I'll be getting paid some absurdly generous allowances to do it - won't even be paying for rent & utilities. Yep, everything's coming up Millhouse:) Weirdly, given those conditions, I DO...

Can't help noticing that Tinder has gone from marginally useful to completely unusable in the last couple of months. At a guess, I'd say the bots outnumber the real profiles 5:1 in my area. It actually wouldn't be a huge problem - if you could tell the bots from the real profiles. Amusingly...

Time for me to post a completely unhelpful rant about the current state of dating and women. Humour me for a minute, then we can all get on with our lives again. I've got a bug up my a$$ about two things. Firstly, the profiles, Jesus Christ. I mean I get it, it stands to reason that the vast...

How long has it been since we gave the Pareto Principle a good flogging? It's definitely time for a do-over. Although its application can be much broader, the Pareto Principle is generally taken to mean that 80% of our (positive) results come from 20% of our actions. At the risk of telling you...

The last gasp of desperation at the end of the year - I'm getting about three times the amount of attention online that I normally would. I know I shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth, but it does make it rather obvious how lazy they are the rest of the time. Delightful creatures really:)

So when I started out about eight years ago, I used to actively push back against women wasting my time or just generally being sh!tty people - never got to the point of name-calling or hurting them purely for the sake of it - but I had no qualms about letting them know exactly how they were...

This might turn out to be a vaguely interesting thread. These are the unsolicited openers I've received online over the last month - stop harassing meeeeeee! Bahahaa. Anyhoo. What's the point? Apart from morbid curiosity, I think it's useful to remind yourself that the average girl's "Game"...

So I've seen this pattern of behaviour often enough to recognise that it is indeed "a thing". Not a game changer, not particularly important in the scheme of things, but still kind of interesting. Every so often in the world of OLD, you'll see a newbie display an unusual degree of...

The insipid messages from uninspiring women continue to trickle into my inbox: "Hey there :-)", "Great Profile!", "Your profile made me laugh." etc etc. I usually let these go without replying. And I get this one the other day, "Great profile! You actually have some character which is...