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Girls with unsatisfying relationships or abusive boyfriends like to have emotional tampons to satisfy the emotional needs and attention they don't get from the boyfriend. The boyfriend gets the physical side of the relationship and the emotional tampon gets used for the emotional support. Girls...

You shouldn't have a "serious thing" for any girl you and not already having sex with, although if that's your way of saying you think she's really hot then that's different. She gave you her number. Told you to text her twice. Suggested meeting up near her place. Doesn't mention a...

She may or may not have a boyfriend, after all it's the stock rejection excuse. In any case, it doesn't really matter as she rejected you - in other words has low to no interest. She is a cashier and it's her job to be friendly to customers, in fact it almost certainly makes her day more...

You like her. That is all you need to approach. However, you say she looks at you and smiles. So, you have an invitation to approach. You are the man and have to initiate. Get her number, get coffee, study together or something. Now, if she thinks you are looking at her but don't subsequently...

She probably expected you to escalate on the day rather than stroll around the mall until she got "tired" (bored). So if her interest level has dropped you have to accept responsibility. Do you still have a chance to raise it? You can only find out by straight up asking her out and if she...

Why do you want to buy her dinner? Start off with something informal like getting coffee. Your frame was weak, you say you are glad she is "letting you" take her out. Your mindset should be that you are doing her a favor (aren't you a great guy? won't she have a good time? how many people...

You are too focused on this girl. Thinking about and asking so many questions about the situation. Noting her Facebook activity to see what she was doing. I don't know if it is at the stage of oneitis (are you pursuing any other girls?) but psychologically it is likely to affect your...

Oxytocin is a powerful hormone!

Keep in mind this general rule with chicks: Don't be reactive. Something particularly important with drama or sh1t tests. You can act normal when you see her. In any case, you said yourself that your original timing wasn't great and it might not have been for her either. It's not worth...

She could have taken your last 'teasing' message badly. Maybe the content or the fact you inserted it at that point. There's always a risk of misinterpretation with teasing/jokes/sarcasm in writing versus in person (there are no verbal/body language cues etc). Likewise, lack of those cues...

Use the phone instead of text or e-mail, which can be ignored and leave you hanging. You will wonder if it was received, if she saw it, if she accidentally deleted it or simply ignored it - it opens you up to being in an uncertain position. Text and e-mail are in any case weak forms of...

Asking her if something is wrong was a bad idea, always use actions not words. Stop trying to analyse signals as they are unreliable, as a man you pursue what you want and the chick either accepts it or doesn't. The friend zone is a dreaded place but if you want to finally resolve this in your...

The problem with texts and e-mails is that they can be ignored and you are left hanging with uncertainty. You don't know if she didn't receive it, didn't see it, accidentally deleted it, got distracted away by something or ignored it. As has been posted above a better option in future is to...

Chicks will often retain their boyfriend until they find the next one. From what you wrote he sounds like he could be on the way out and the distance aspect reinforces that possibility. She might still be attached to him emotionally but be looking to have physical needs satisfied that he can't...

You shouldn't be talking to chicks on the phone for 20 minutes - you are not one of her girlfriends. Call up, make a small amount of fluff talk to re-establish rapport, arrange the date, then end the call. Talk on the date. If she agreed to go on a date, that's a good sign. The even better...

She doesn't appear to have much interest and this appears a waste of your time (could be more productively spent on other chicks). What do you think she's doing at those clubs? Answer: getting hit on, making out with and fvcking guys. You say you got her digits in the college foyer -...

Yes, but don't sweat it. It wasn't so bad was it? Now you can approach other chicks and ask for their numbers knowing rejection won't be so bad. At some point, maybe when you've done more closes, read up on how to increase chances of getting the number - for example: rapport building, playful...

This thread is old. It shows lack of confidence not to have progressed with any of these chicks yet. Do some drills like try to get 10 rejections from cold approaches by asking for their number to get over your fear of rejection (not from these chicks you're posting about - go to a mall or do it...

You did well getting her isolated and away from school. However, you complaining about that you both should be studying at the end of an evening on a date is plain lame. Talk about going into reverse gear. You should have been making out instead of studying. This whole help me study angle is...

You're following Mystery Method so surely you've come across his "Is she always like this?" question to the group as a reaction to the obstacle. The obstacle is sh1t testing you (testing your confidence) but also demanding your attention (i.e. "I'm the hottest you should be talking to me" or...