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    If I can get over this problem, I will be a DJ.

    I don't have a problem being funny. I'm attractive. I have a good job. I should have a couple girls I'm having sex with...or a GF. But I don't approach girls unless I'm in a warm setting (used to be school, work, parties, through friends, etc). I don't approach girls in clubs, bars...
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    Me ex most likely ****ed before I did.

    It's been over a month since I last had sex. Was getting it two or three times a day, but ex left 6 weeks ago, and we broke up 4 weeks ago. Since chicks have **** thrown at them constantly, she probably had someone up in her in the past 30 days. All I want to do is get some a**, without paying...
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    Is it the norm for a girl to have 25+ sex partners...

    by the time she's in her early 20's?
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    Girls asked more than once if I enjoyed my time with her.

    Good sign? Bad sign? We didn't have sex, it was a first date.
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    Have you ever cried over a girl?

    In your adult life with tears streaming down your face? It could have been because of a breakup, not getting the girl you wanted, or not getting any girls at all. How are you doing now? How did you overcome?
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    How to be more emotionless?

    I can't help liking a girl and getting somewhat emotional if things end after seeing her for a while. Most of the time spinning plates don't minimize the feeling of attachment. I want to be able not to feel anything if a girl I'm seeing disappears or things don't work out. Any tips?
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    To the guys that have multiple plates...

    and you're having sex with all of them... 1. How many dates before sex came into the picture? 2. How did you meet your plates? 3. How long on average does your plates last?
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    Club, lounge, bowling, or just dinner/walk - first date?

    A girl contacted me on a dating website. She sent a decent message and included her telephone # and told me to text her. She's a 7. Most important thing is she's not a fattie. We talked through text. So, she basically asked what I'm looking for...my answer 'something worthwhile'. She...
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    Based on MY photos...what kind of hotties should I be mackin' too?

    Okay, this is ME. The WHINY b*tch of a man, or some of you may think. I'm about 5'10'' and 150lbs (I feel skinny, but people say I'M just slim. I'm working out and trying to gain 15lbs!). We know looks matter to an extent, because if you look like Shrek, you can't be mackin' to a 8, 9...
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    The world is going to end.

    Or at least the way of life will be changed dramatically. It may be 2012, but definitely within the next 10 years. I believe this wholeheartedly. I never told anyone this, but this is the reason why I feel like I need to find a relationship now. I've reached many of my goals in life...
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    What's it like to be in a LTR? *** SURVEY

    1. How long did the sex stay interesting? 2. Was it true for you that when you were in a relationship, other women became interested in you? Or is that a myth? 3. What was a bigger shock...going from little sex to a lot of sex OR a lot of sex to little sex (after a breakup)? 4. Did you...
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    Do I have to "rush" first dates?

    Getting rejected by a girl I just met doesn't bother me as much. But I'm still having trouble dealing with girls that seem to have interest, but nothing ever happens. I text a girl earlier and she said she'll call later but no call. Why did she respond to my text so quickly, or even respond...
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    You guys were right! A 'thank you' thread.

    Just do a search on my name and you'll see all the pathetic threads I've created. But this thread is different. I want to say thanks to all the members that offered me good advice. I was very depressed. I thought that I wasn't attractive enough, tall enough, big enough, and everything else...
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    Do all girls expect a great kiss on the first date?

    Do girls expect a makeout session? A 5 second kiss on the lips? A kiss on the cheek? If a girl is into you, but you give her a kiss on the cheek...will this put you in the friendzone?
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    How would YOU not **** it up with this girl?

    I need some tips throughout my interaction with this girl. We met at a singles event. After the event, SHE invited me out dancing. We danced (lots of grinding and touching) and had fun. I gave her a kiss on the cheek at the end of the night. I text her the next morning saying "fun...
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    Has this ever happened to you?

    You next a girl, delete her number, and she calls/text you weeks later? By that time, you forgot about her and don't recognize the number? I just played it off smoothly a few minutes ago. This girl I was interested in was telling me about her birthday weeks ago, and I tried to go out with...
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    2 Potentials...what to do with them?

    The thread on handling these two plates...and my results if any. Alright, you guys know that I *had* trouble with attraction. But after last night, I proven to myself that I am a good looking guy and girls like talking to me. Due to my socializing at a singles event last night, I got two...
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    It's just not happening for me. I admit defeat.

    I've been trying to improve my social life by joining clubs and stuff but girls don't like me. I don't understand how guys hook up wuth girls. After all these years of reading material, I'm still at square one. I'm not ugly and I have a fit body. I'm trying to gain 15 pounds but I'm not...
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    It feels like everyone hates me!

    I just read a topic in the Don Juan Tips forum which kicked me in the ass.
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    Does anybody live in Philadelphia or the area...

    that's outgoing and can be a mentor? It doesn't matter if you're younger than me (I'm 25) or older. I'm looking for someone that can help me get used to being social. If you know about parties or events with a lot of people and great opportunities to make friends and can send me an...
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