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Believe it or not, you are living in a golden age. Never before, throughout the entire span of human history has there been a time when your potential for mating and dating with the fairer sex has been greater than it is now. Even if you looked at it as a mere numbers game, a matter of...

When a guy finds himself afflicted with an overwhelming infatuation with one particular woman, commonly referred to here as oneitis, it is often very hard to be able to shake off this powerful feeling. True, there are those of us who will simply act upon their emotions and strive towards some...

History has always had a tendency to move full circle. From the wars that each generation undertake in the name of peace, to the journey through one's own life and the lessons learnt along the way, history has a funny way of showing us things that have been there from the vey beginning...

The majority of the male species that exist upon the planet Earth today are a fallen race. The limitless potential that exists within each and every man of this age is hidden under the engulfing darkness of a warped, and often demeaning perspective. The value of a man, the extent of his...

Anyone that has at least some understanding of the principles of attraction can tell you that by transforming yourself into a "great guy", the supposed epitome of man, you will greatly increase your appeal to the opposite sex. That's all well and good, but imagine this: You are in a room with...

Infatuation is a real son of a b!tch. You don’t need me to tell you that though. I’m sure you all know just how annoying being infatuated with a particular woman can get. For whatever reasons, you are just mad for her – and there isn’t anything you can do about it, right? Wrong. I’m not...

Part 1 – The Motive One thing any DJ should be honest to himself about is his REAL motivation for engaging in the pursuit of women. Whatever the case, whether it be for a bit of fun or for something serious and long-term, any real man has to at least be honest to himself about what he’s...

This is a simple, yet effective method for helping guys that are new to the whole DJ thing (or aren't quite there yet) in changing their mindset and perspective of themselves. I want you to think about who you would consider your hero to be. Think hard about this one. Who is the one person in...

For the accomplished Don Juan, getting a woman's number and setting up dates is child's play. Let's face it, as soon as you take the first step and actually get out there and start playing the game, it's only a matter of time before you're going to find yourself some action. Yet, if that was...

"What is the meaning of life?" It's a question that every man and woman asks themself at least once throughout their lifetime, and unfortunately for many, it will remain unanswered. There are many on this planet that will tell you that "love" is the ultimate meaning to this seemingly...

You're finishing up a brilliant date with a knockout babe tonight. You, being the gentleman that you are, are giving her a lift to her home in your car (or walking her home etc..). You finally get to her place, and you realise that you could be in line for a first kiss with this babe... WHAT DO...

Look around this discussion forum, and what do you see? Confusion, uncertainty, disarray, doubt. The list goes on and on... And yet, most of the people that frequent this forum seeking help fail to realise the full impact of what they have at their disposal. YOU are witness to one of the...

Imagine this scene: You're in a bar for a quick drink on the way home. Suddenly, you notice that you're being watched. Two women stand within earshot of you. One of them is an easy 9, and her friend is a 7, probably there to make the 9 look even more appealing. One question pops into your mind...

Isn't it funny how people in general would much rather avoid failure than risk victory? It can be ascribed to anything really; jobs, hobbies, sports, chores, and on and on. One thing it clearly applies to is dating and mating. I'm sure everyone's had this feeling at one stage or another -...

Be a challenge! That's one of the most common phrases slung around the DJ Forums to potential Don Juans. Now, having read the Bible and various other tips, we all know that being a challenge is a damned good thing to have going for you (and if you didn't know that - YOU DO NOW!). It's pretty...

This post is long, and deals with WHY we were all meant to be Jerks, turned out as Nice Guys, and why we should forsake the ways of BOTH groups. Happy reading! You were born to be a Jerk. From the second of your creation, to the present day, you were meant to be a selfish single-minded...

What the hell is wrong with you? That is a serious question. What is wrong with you? Obviously there is something that isn't quite right if you are here scouring these pages for helpful tips. But the REAL question at hand here is this - why do you deny who you are? YOU ARE A MAN. Those words...

Confidence. You hear that word, and you instantly realise what it means. It's the central idea behind what this whole Don Juan thing is all about. It is the first thing you should learn, and is recited on this site as the single most important weapon at your disposal... and it is recited more...

Ever wonder what the heck you should do with a woman that has worn-out her welcome with you? Ever consider the possibilities, and the advantages that a break-up can have for you? This is all new ground. The bulk of the talk here in the forums is how to get a woman, and how to keep a woman. But...

Remember your AFC days? Do you remember the things that used to be in your head, and cloud your judgement, and pull you down, and ruin your chances with women? "Women are important to me!" "I want a woman to make me happy with who I am" "I'm hopeless with the decent chicks! Those were...