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    Can one be a DJ and live with his parents?

    Any guy living with his parents after college age is not a man, but a boy. THERE ARE NO EXCEPTIONS TO THIS. I don't care if your house burnt down, you got divorced, the aliens made you do it, whatever the reason. After 21 you should be on your own. Any older and you *cannot* expect women to...
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    I think Pook got it wrong: LTR=Dionysian Path, STR=Apollo Path

    Eistein had an... interesting sex life. So did a bunch of other top scientists. Top musicians? Hell, not known for their devotion to family life. Politicians? You have got to be shytting me. Study their lives. Powerful people do *not* do celibacy. Artists? Libido's bytches. Writers? The...
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    How you DRIVE determines........

    He left out this one: 6. If you can give her an orgasm while you're driving, she'll look at you breathlessly and say 'Wow! Now *that* takes talent!' Works for me.
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    Workplace ********

    I guess anyone who's read the bible should know that <any excuse at all> means 'No!' But I'm thinking this applies in other areas too. You buy an item, it craps out on you, you take it back to the store and the sales droid says something like 'I'm sorry sir, but it's company policy...
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    Need suggestions on becoming more people oriented

    Why not make 'Become more people oriented' a long-term task for yourself? And then do whatever you need to do to make it happen, in the usual task-oriented way.
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    Does a challenge create attraction? I don't think so

    Challenge isn't a big mystery. It means two things: 1. An attitude that says 'I do what I want to please myself, and I don't let men or women fvck with me.' 2. Actions that back up that attitude. If you can get that attitude across with body language, words, whatever it takes, that is *100%...
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    Alpha Males Have Their Heads Up Their Asses

    True story about alphaness: Brit actor Bob Hoskins was starring in some gangsta heist-type movie, and for grins the production people hired a real Don (Mafioso, not Juan) as a consultant. So there's one scene where BH is over-acting wildly yelling and screaming at people about what fvck ups...
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    Is the dance floor a REAL pick up field? I no longer think so

    Absolutely true. And yes - making the moves instead of the bump and grind works way better. Why? 1. It's emotional. It's not verbal. When you do a verbal PU you're using words to elicit feeling states. When you dance you're eliciting those states directly through extended kino. That's extremely...
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    reading between the lines (long)

    I think you played this okay, 86. You didn't supplicate and she was kind of baffled by that. I'd probably have been crueller and more direct: mentioned that the respect thing works both ways, but she has *no* interest in that, or even any understanding of how that might work. (See how it's all...
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    Decades of Experience All In One Post

    Very, very, very true. I was kinda half way through writing my own version of this, which said a lot of similar things. But I think this one is better. If it weren't from elsewhere it should be bibled. Hell, it should be bibled anyway.
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    Who pays on the date.....?

    So if a guy pays for your dates, does that mean you'll come round and clean his apartment for him? I mean fair is fair - you're checking out if he's a spender, so it's only fair he should check out what you're like with all that cooking and cleaning and stuff like that, huh? Anywayz - you're...
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    Who pays on the date.....?

    Good call. No matter what the situation - you can *always* tell a lot about a chick from her reaction. If you do the dinner thing and she takes it for granted that you're paying - that's a big red flag. Even if you have sex later, she's basically marked herself out as a prostitute who will...
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    An Important Part of a LTR: Friendship

    I'm with Chance on this one - to a point, anyway. The friends idea sounds great in theory, but the reality for a lot of people is that in fact, marriage drives them nuts. (And not in a good way. ) Now, a lot of that is people marrying for really dumb reasons and expecting endless sex, or...
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    Sharing 25 years of dating wisdom...

    Sometimes. Not always. Every once in a while one of my female friends tells me about some guy she wasn't really into, but then she finds out something about him - always something that adds to his status - and suddenly (and they almost all use the same words here) she says 'And then I started...
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    How much $$$ do you spend on dates?

    Okay so this is an old thread, but this is still the best advice here. Coffee dates are great if you want to check out a chick's interest level without spending a fortune. Coffee dates are great anyway. They're informal so you're more likely to get a real impression of a chick than when...
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    Status games

    Here's another newbie DJ tip - about how to play the status game in your favor. Let's backtrack to female psychology 101 - Rule 1 is that the high-status guy gets the most female interest. It doesn't mean he can pull any chick in the room, but it does mean that if a guy is an obvious alpha...
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    MEETING "Miss Right"

    Good basic list Gipper. But here are some other things to look for: 1. When she's around, does life get easier or harder? During MoTU's Mary saga this was one thing he missed. A low quality chick will (try to) suck your attention and energy towards her and give nothing back. (Except maybe a lot...
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    6 Day Wait Justification

    Yes! It's not for her, it's for you. It's so you get used to the idea of not organising your time around (what you think may be) one chick's needs and demands. [/b] More than this, make her realise that she is not the most important thing in your life. You are not so pathetically grateful you...
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    Very simple tip

    1. Keep a list of prospects 2. Never let the number of prospects drop below - say - five. Or ten if you're going for Master DJ status. 3. Rinse and repeat TOO MANY GUYS THINK TWO CHICKS IS ENOUGH. It's not. You need to have so many prospects that if one flakes out on you, you don't even...
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    Getting Lazy in Relationships

    First I'd hope any woman I was with would be having sex because she enjoyed it. And not so she could store it up on a balance sheet to be used against me in future. If she's keeping score or thinking it's an obligation she's generously bestowing, I'm out of there. Secondly as a woman you can't...
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