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Thanks everyone for your insightful answers. I'm still going up and down with my mood. I think it's more than just 'women' indeed, but they're a great part of it I'm sure. I think I'm going to talk with a professional, because I've been struggling for too long now.

I've been visiting these forums since I was about 19 years old. The wisdom and knowledge I found here helped me a great deal and turned my life around. I'm 35 now. The difference between then and now is that I had so many possibilities. We were all young, youthful, looking for adventure...

How about writing a novel? Does that count?

You might want to read this: http://www.gettinbetter.com/ Especially this one: http://www.sharischreiber.com/anycost.html

So, you think it's impossible to f*ck her again?

We haven't talked or anything since the breakup. We totally ignore each other at work. It's damn hard to see her 3 times a week, hear her talk and everything!! Wonder how she feels... :( I will keep at it at least 30 days.

It looks to me that he is looking for a relationship with this girl and she is not interested in having one with him. The 'open relationship' idea could work out, but both might have different intentions: she may truly just want to 'use' him for fun and he keeps hoping to get to a point that she...

Thanks, I experienced weak moments already. These a re the moments I look in my phone to see if she contacted me. The worst is yet to come: I have a side job (to finance my studies) where she works fulltime. A different departement though, so I do not have to talk to her, but I will see her 3...

I fvcked her on the first date already and many times afterwards. Sometimes six times a day.

To be honest I deleted all stuff incl. messages. I couldn't keep myself surfing the forum searching about cluster B women. Very good threads about it. A lot of her characteristics fit under this 'cluster B' classification. The honeymoon beginning: she recognized that what she felt with me was...

Is that still relevant? See her reaction that she dumped me already tuesday. Someone so immature I dont even want in my life.

I dumped her today in a polite way. You know what she said? Oh, I dumped you tuesday already. Unbelievable. Says enough about her... Next.

She said she only wanted some clearification on a message I sent wednesday. At the same time she had called me disgusting and said we have nothing to talk about anymore. Doesn't sound like someone who is interested in saving the relationship.

I did man, by texting. Her first reaction was that she wanted to meet anyway to talk it through. I did not agree. Eventually she said that we have nothing to talk about anymore then. So I said: "ok". And the conversation ended. Now I will continue spinning plates and forget about this ****. Thanks.

To be honest, Die Hard, I am still very in love with her. Deep inside I wish everything will be alright. That is the only reason I did not f*ck that girl yesterday night.

I've been kissing some chick the whole night, so the plate spinning has begun. Brings the case to an whole other perspective somehow... just giving some f*cks less. Thanks for the great advices here. Not sure what to do tomorrow, but it's just less important than before I guess...

Ok, so from your perspective what I do? Not show up tomorrow and no contact?

Tomorrow I will still deliver the blow just to see what happens. I already am assuming it's over and trying to spin plates, so I understand what you are saying PlayHer! On the other hand... if I just appear tomorrow, act cold and listen to anything she has to say AND repeat the things I already...

This flipping the script and telling her *I* doubt the relationship because of her behavior, isn't that a little too clear for her that I'm mirroring her?

Yes, that is a great mindset. I will cancel it tomorrow like 5 hours before it takes place. I will just say I don't feel like meeting her right now or something like that.