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    bar staff

    Hi, was in my local bar last Friday and having a good time. I went to the bar and waited as the barmaid served various people. Then I guy who had just turned up at the bar got served before me as did two others. When the barmaid eventually served me I made a comment about having to wait and...
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    What do you think?

    Hi Guys, Been doing the internet dating recently and had a date on Friday. We arrived at 18:30 hrs (she suggested meeting for a drink) and I ordered two glasses of wine - one for her and one for me. The meeting went well (I thought) and we engaged in good conversations, I thought she was...
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    Inspiration

    Hi everyone, I work from home and have got into a rut. Anyone like me who stays in of an evening with a bottle of wine and DVD/tv can't be bothered to make the effort. Too tired with heavy work pressures and lack of money- lame excuse I know. I see so many people near me live alone, young and...
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    Best male actors

    I like: Jack Nickelson, Robert Deniro, Al Pacino, Brad Pitt (Seven), Jeremy Irons, Benicio del toro, Gabrielle byrne, Kevin Spacy. All the guys in the film DAS BOOT. Topol from Fiddler on the Roof What do you think?
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    Internet dating - no response

    Hi Guys, I signed up for an internet dating site - the one that is advertised alot and is for professionals. I decided to try it for one month, just to see how it would go. A friend of my sister has had a lot of good dates on it so I thought I would try it. There is one girl who I have...
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    people saying they are old

    Hello everyone, There is a women I know who comes into my local pub. She is very pleasant and good fun, but I don't fancy her. She is about 47 and I am 40. Anyway she keeps making comments in front of people that are getting annoying. Like last night I was out having a cigarrette and...
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    Compliments

    Hi Everyone, I keep getting compliments from this lady who is about 6 years older than me. Last night, whilst we were out drinking she said I was such a lovely man and that I am an icon. She keeps buying me drinks. It keeps happening week in week out and in front everyone and its getting...
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    Winks

    Does anyone else find it really attractive?. I've had girls wink at me in the past and I really like it. I wonder if this is something you can practice or does it come naturally?. It can be really sexy or can be sign of empathy. I think if I tried it it would come off wrong and I would...
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    Reading between the line

    Hello everyone!, Hopefully this won't upset Scaramouche.....:0) If you are talking to a girl (who you think might like you) then how would you react if she kept going on about not being able to find a nice boyfriend?. There is a girl who I know and she keeps going on about this. The thing...
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    women moaning about men

    Hi Everyone, There was an article on tv this morning about women moaning about men and their habbits. I'm sure some are true, but can you imagine the outrage if men went on tv and moaned about women. Details can be found out at http://www.gm.tv/index.cfm?articleid=33357 God the...
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    Valentines day

    Hello eveyone, hope you are all looking forward to valentines day?. What are you single men up to?. I haven't sent any cards! I got caught out one year, which was quite embarassing. I was out with my sister visiting a lovely country pub and we decided to have Sunday lunch there. Everything...
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    draught patch

    Hi Everyone, I'm going through a bit of poor patch at the moment. Very little going on. Not sure what it's like in the States at the moment, but in my town it seems to be getting hard to meet any decent women. Most girls I meet are imature, loud or reserved, naive or just damn boring. One...
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    most embarassing text messages?

    Hello everyone, Has anyone else like me made the horrible mistake of texting a girl you like after having a few drink in the evening andthen regretting it the following morning?. I have done this a few times, and have now decided to remove their numbers from my mobile phone and have them...
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    Should I proceed with this one?

    Hello everyone, Happy New Year!. It's the start of a New Year and I have a possible new opportunity and would welcome your views.. There is a girl (let’s call her Karin) that use to work here in our serviced offices. She was the Area Manager. I use to speak with her a few times each...
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    how to react if your are being rejected

    I was out at the weekend hitting a few bars and having little success. Now the autumn is over and we are hitting winter, I feel my look is fading :-) since I have brown/blond hair and green eyes and freckles. Anyway whilst out at the weekend, I noticed my friend was getting more eye contact than...
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    testing interest levels

    Hi Guys, How do you test interest levels with girls especially in bars. I know this girl who I get on with and we have exchanged phone numbers, but now I'm not sure whether to call her. Initially I thought she was interested, now I'm not sure. Is just getting a number enough. When I see...
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    feeling down/advise please

    Hello guys, Good morning. Well I'm feeling a bit down today and need some inspiration to bounce back. There is a girl who comes to my local bar that I have a good rapour with. She comes in on a Sunday when there is live music. She really is lovely. Anyway about three weeks ago I ask her...
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    bullies at bars

    Hello everyone, I know this is slightly off tangent, but it does count when you are out trying to pull the chicks. How does everyone handle other aggressive males. My local bar is pretty good but just recently a few builder types have started visiting and can be quite intimidating, some of...
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    advice please

    My friend has split up from his girlfriend of about 10 years. She wants to settle down, he doesn't. They are still on good terms. Last friday was my birthday. She said that she had joined a band and I mentioned a good venue in my town. Now she has said she wants to go to that bar with me. Do...
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    todays society

    Does anyone else share my disappointment with today’s society? Without sounding a bit miserable television and media in general does not seem to portray men in a good light. Many shows tend to depict men as being stupid, clumsy and have them belittled by women. I saw some program on...
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