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    Random thoughts on Success

    This post rambles on and has no real direction. They are just random babbles and tidbits that I thought of over time. I thought I knew a lot about life, until I started really living. I don’t want to go to the grave with my song still in me. You either have excuses or reasons. You...
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    Taking the right steps

    Temptation is a bastard. Wanting to act in ways that you know you shouldn’t, and that are harmful, and that you’re used to because it’s safe to is a bad thing. “I should do this because this has always been my routine.” But it’s gotten you no where. “I like things the way they...
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    No more buts

    No More Buts! From now on I don’t want to read any more excuses for someone’s lack of progress, results, whatever it is someone is searching for. It doesn’t matter if you’re in the crappiest situation ever, get over it. But everything is just too hard. Too bad. But someone else...
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    The Three People (that make you up)

    Did you ever wonder why you have those nagging voices in your head telling you how or why you shouldn’t go up and talk to this girl, or stopping you from saying something that might be mistaken as offensive in a conversation, or anything else stopping you from becoming the person you want to be...
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    Strut Your Stuff

    Your personality is your ultimate tool. It’s what people judge you by after they’ve met you, after they get past the initial impression they have of you based on your looks. And you know what? It’s is the one thing that can get you ahead in the world, as a man, more so than anything else...
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    Make Her Feel Like A Woman

    How a woman feels in your presence is key. What is it about a woman that makes us feel that animal lust for her (and her for you) at times? It’s her sexiness. Making a woman feel sexy is all about how you make her feel. It's what's underneath her skin, waiting, anticipating to be...
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    Nervousness Overcome

    "Everybody has butterflies, the key is to make them fly in formation." Those words were spoken to me after I gave a research presentation at The University of Duquesne, in Pittsburgh, a couple months ago. I had told the plenary speaker I was a little nervous about presenting in front of such...
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    What are everybody's current views -->

    What are everybody's current views on dating/seduction/picking up/whatever you want to call it? Have/would you date more than one woman at a time? Have you ever cheated on someone? What are your views on sex? Feel free to chime in. I'll put my thoughts on here later once I get...
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    Picking up girls is easy

    That’s right. It’s as simple as pie. Most people come from a place, in their brain, that thinks that getting an attractive, trustworthy, funny, smart, and overall great woman is a hard thing to do. WRONG. Get rid of it. It’s only in your head that it’s hard. Or that anything is hard...
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    Stop Thinking Ahead So Far

    A lot of mistakes are made before they even happen. When you think about what your next move will be you’re practically already getting yourself into an unfavorable position. This isn’t chess. You don’t need to think 12 moves ahead. Think about what’s happening right now and live in the...
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    A New Year, A New Beginning

    Maybe you’ve been saying to yourself “I’m going get my life straightened out this time,” or “I could do a lot more if I just take a chance more often” but just haven’t gotten around to it. You really want to, but feel like there’s nothing motivating you enough to do it and go through with it...
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    Repetition is Beautiful

    I was talking to a buddy of mine who is in construction and going to college to finish up his degree in chemistry. He was telling me of a time when he was putting shingles down on a roof. One of his co-workers complained because he thought putting down shingle after shingle was boring, but...
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    How we all view relationships differently

    What if I told you every relationship ever between a guy and a girl is exactly the same? You’d think I’m nuts, right? But this is exactly what a lot of guys think. They believe that because they see their friends, or whomever, form relationships in a certain way that they can emulate...
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    Have Hope

    What is it that makes us sacrifice things we normally wouldn’t for something very trivial in the eyes of others? It is hope! What is the one force that keeps us going? The one thing that pushes us to our limits and makes us slaves to our will? It is hope! When everything looks...
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    Guys that "get it"

    Some guys just "get it." You can usually tell which guys "get it" by the way they behave around women. Guys that get it are also the same guys who are usually successful in life. This isn't ironic either. It's actually a byproduct of being a successful person. That's why you see all these...
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    Conversation and Communication

    A lot of topics are dedicated to saying the right things at the right time. But I don't think that should be the focus at all. When you concentrate on saying all the right things and making the right moves at the right times, you inadvertently miss the concept to begin with (and when the focus...
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    Interesting Article

    Here's an interesting article for you guys to read. So take a gander. http://www.csbruce.com/~csbruce/shyness/get_laid.html thecraftylefty
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    Jealousy issues

    It's not often I ask for help, and I'm not really sure about how to go about asking for help so here it goes: how do you guys deal with jealousy??? I'm not talking about the girl you had a ONS with or a quick makeout session. No, I'm talking about the jealousy you feel when you hear about the...
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    The misuse/overuse of C&P

    Lately, what I've been seeing in the community is that guys don't know how, or more precisely how much, C&P to use on a girl. Most guys will overcompensate by using too much instead of too little C&P. Seems like a practical idea. But then the guy goes too far and can't back up his ****y with...
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    Scarcely used method

    Hey guys, I'm here to advocate the usefullness of the insta-date. I haven't heard it used much on this forum so I'll define and then explain why I like it so much. insta-date- the act of going out on a date when you first meet a girl. Basically, it can be anything ranging from a bite...
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