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Ok players, I got my first couple of job offers in the pipe. I am looking to move. I am wondering what cities do you think are the best for the nightlife. My options are let's say Atlanta, Boston, Chicago, DC, LA, Houston, Miami, Montreal, New York, and Rome(pipe dream). Rank in order of...

Well, the "quality woman" I was dating for 2 years is flaking out. Its all good, she is still a quality woman, just under alot of stress and needs time to figure stuff out. I Tried to make it work, oh well. Time to walk away and not look back . . . . . .

If you are looking for a quick lay or are not serious about finding a woman for a serious relationship than this advice will be useless to you. If you are looking for the type of woman you could fall in love with than this advice will help you. I always notice guys on here complaining...

Those of us looking or in ltr will eventually, or maybe often, have to deal with other guys hitting on our women. I have dated women that have gotten hit on pretty often but never as much as the girl I am currently dating. Rather than getting pissed at the guy you can secretly thank him, for...

OK we all know what an attention ho is, but very few people actually know how to use attention ho's to their advantage. There are many advantages to doing this, mainly most attention ho's are hot and inspire jealousy among other women. If you could somehow find a way to become the focus of...

I read all these posts saying something like . . . This girl gave me her phone number but she has a bf, what does this mean. I was there once, and I realize the mentality but we have to move beyond that. Look, people enjoy interacting with other people. Not every interaction you...

Yes that's the tip, "be yourself", I'm not saying "just be yourself" because there should be no "just" about it. It is about being true to yourself, be the yourself that you would be when you already are satisfied. If you were getting laid by a hot girl everynight how would you act, act...

Hi guys, this is a great site. In the 3.5 years since I first discovered this site I have learned a great deal. The last year or so I have found myself visiting less and less. Many of the views hear are golden, there is a load of great advice on how to attract and keep the woman(or women) of...

Hi everyone, I have noticed a disturbing trend among the posts throughout this whole site. The focus is no longer on the dj and what he can do to make himself a better and happier person. Most posts seem to be of the following sorts: 1) Oh my god, I think she likes me what do I do...

Ok guys I have been in school about 10 years now and am finally going to be headed out to the working world. Finally I will have a steady job and be able to actually have a savings account with more than 10 dollars in it. I have been dating girls in college, waitresses or graduate students...

To all those bilingual dj's, how good are you at ****y and funny in your second language? Here is the thing, I do fine in english but I love latina's and the ones I meet where I am at are off the boat. I speak spanish well enough that our conversations will be in spanish, however whenever I...

Hey aspiring DJ's I just wanted to warn everyone about a particularly dreadful type of one-itis. The "not wanting to lose" one-itis. I am sure we have all been there, we don't fall in love with the girl or anything afc like that, yet we keep trying simply because we think that she should be all...

Ok so I have been seeing this chick for a few weeks, a few times when I make plans with her she says. " I am busy, I will call you if I can make it" A couple of times we have gotten together and a couple of times she couldn't. I personally don't like the idea of her taking the control...

Hey everyone, I have lately been seeing this girl that has been driving me up a wall with her hot and cold. I have tried to put her on an emotional roller coaster and in return she has been doing the same to me. I absolutely love it. I did not know I could get that nervous feeling in my stomach...

I am here to answer why the sexual double standard exists. It is very simple and I am surprised it has to be explained to some. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, sorry if it is unfair but that is simply how it is. It is a man's duty to try and get sex from a woman he is attracted to and it is a...

I guess this story begins a little over two years ago. I had just broken up with my first long-term girlfriend, we had been together for almost 3 years. If you were to look up AFC you would have seen my picture. I accepted responsibility for what had happened and looked to improve myself. This...

The biggest piece of advice I can give to up and coming dj's is to realize a few things about people. Even if people know the things that make you upset, and they still do those things, very rarely are they actually trying to upset you, most of the time they really are just unaware that...

Ok, my gf has been hit on by a bunch of her "friends" lately, nothing to worry about but they often times try and do this whole "oh it must be fate that we are here together tonight". I am too far removed from afc thought to understand this. She ends up coming to me kind of grossed out that...

Hey all this is more of a ltr thing I guess. After having been an afc and then changing and becoming a dj do you get less enjoyment out of your relationships? The reason I ask is this, I have been seeing this girl for about 8 months now and she is great, really. She is everything I could...

I haven’t posted in a while as I have been busy. I have been reading some of the posts and been tempted to write some advice. As a result I thought I would write a bit of what I have learned in the past few months that I think will benefit some people. If a woman feels you are attractive she...