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Hi BGC I used to do ok in clubs years ago. But now I really do very very bad in them. Find it very hard to approach and when I do I get ignored. Havent done well in clubs for years

I took a break from clubs about 6 months ago. Reason? They really didnt work for me. I am older. But I agree about many wmone being defensive at clubs. I have found that. The only trouble I have that I dont get to meet many women - and clubs offer at least an opportunity. I know people talk...

Boy I know what you are talking about there. They just NEVER seem to want me back - the ones I want I mean. Why is that??

Clutch you did the right thing. I had a similar experience where I asked for an email address....she said "no---you give me yours" and I did. It's a sign of low interest.

Pook I am moving out of the 1.2 version at the moment. Hence this post. I figure if I can learn to enjoy the process a bit more my success rate will go up. thanks

Good question. Why don't I like approaching? Complex. Obvioulsy I do not like rejection - though I have to date had many many of them!!*LOL* But I think there is more to it. I haven't so far particularly enjoyed the process of talking to new male friends either. I guess I am not comfortable so...

First I am glad this thread is getting some good replies cuz I feel this is VERY important. Don Joey - yes as a rule she assumes you are hitting on her. I like the just be friends to start approach becuase I think you should do this anyway. You have to find out what she's like. Still doesnt...

Who actually "enjoys" approaching some girl you've never met before and hitting on her? I ask this becuase so far I haven't. Far from it. So far I would have to say I really "dislike" doing it. I still do talk to them though. I wonder if my success rates would be better if I enjoyed it? How do...

Andy not sure why but kino hasn't given me the kind of results I would like. I used the technique on a girl I was really attracted to. She didn't respond at all to it. In fact made her move away kind of. Yes she had low interest. Kino didnt make up for it. interest in me. I have been conciuosly...

bclarke675 Hey dude tell me more. How did you get them all around you without having to work at it? I got to admit I have been at this site for a lot lot longer than you, doing the things it says but am not yet seeing the results I would like. Please tell more.

high interest = -they approach you -they chase you

This is a good rule.

I think this is quite a good idea. If she is "one-wording" you, and you don't want to leave -ask her direct! "Do you like me?",or "Do you want to talk to me?" or "Am I the kind of guy you would be interested in?" .That kind of stuff. Get a definitive answer. The thing is most people dont want...

This is kind of my approach as well. If they are "one-wording" you they really probably dont want to speak to you. A girl who is interested lights up and joins in the convo - smiles etc. Soem will want to talk to you - some won't. Find the ones who will!!

Just want to back up what bclarke said. He is correct. If the woman is giving very short answers and not engaging in the convo - she basically is not interested. Just politley move on.