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Hi guys, Okay I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I've been seeing this girl for the last 6 months, and I'm starting to feel it's at the point where I either need to really commit, or just pull the eject cable. What's making the decision difficult for me is because the main red flag that is holding me...

Hi guys, Broke it off with a chick a week and a bit ago. It wasn't a huge ugly thing, just kinda one of those things that couldn't work out, and both of us getting frustrated. Anyway, as we all know Christmas just happened, and I indulged her a bit and got her some jewellery etc. Then...

Hey guys, Quick question: a lot of times on this site you read about how a chick will initiate a break-up, the guy will keep his head and go no-contact, and after a period of time the ex will contact the guy. Has anyone had it happen where instead your ex just completely disappeared after? Or...

Hey guys, So I've had a nagging feeling the last little while. Maybe it's compounded by the fact that one of my plates blew up recently and I'm second-guessing myself. But a recurring theme in my "game" seems to be that I frequently have been hit with "You're too ****y. It's...

Hey guys, Not feeling 100% switched-on this morning when it comes to game, so wanted to defer to the experts. One of my plates I’ve been seeing hit me with this crap last night. Back story is we have been seeing each other for the last 3 months, one issue is that she likes to try and talk...

Hi guys, So I'm in an argument with a plate regarding sexual frequency. Long story short, she insists that I'm broken as a man haha. Typically I like to bang once or twice a night, then sleep, then work hard for the next few days til I'm horny again, then bang, etc. I'm not nor have ever been a...

Hi guys, The plates I've had around me the last few months have really got me thinking about interest level and how your actions affect it. Specifically, how there are a few things that I do for various reasons (consciously or not) and with or without expectation may actually somehow "hurt" my...

Hey guys, Just wondering what peoples' thoughts are on this. Scenario is a guy is married, supposed to be a family man, 4 young kids at home etc. And he is seeing a 23 year old on the side for the last 3 years. They plan the trysts and such for when the wife isn't around obviously, but these...

Hey guys, Just wanted to get some opinions on the following scenario: I've been seeing this one chick for about a month now. I've got a few other plates on the side, and when I first met this chick the intention was to just have her be another f*ck buddy. I'm pretty busy in my life, and also...

Hey guys, Just wondering if I can get a critique of how I handled this, as I'm torn between two opinions. Backstory is that I have been seeing this chick for about a month now. Nothing exclusive, I'm focused on work more than anything these days so it's a casual thing. She's just been out of a...

Hey guys, Thought I would post this gem of an email I got the other day. Backstory is the girl is gorgeous and successful, we made plans, she flaked and expected me to be cool with it. I of course had other ideas, and got hit up with this gem of an email: (I should also preface it by mentioning...

Hi guys, Previously I posted about how I was chasing a girl who had a "boyfriend" (They are on a break). Anyway the gist of what I was told was just be fun to be around, ignore the boyfriend nonsense, and escalate. Well long story short, that's how I played things out, and now I'm needing...

Hi guys, just wondering how to play this: Over the summer, a girl and I had a class together, and long story short, we hit it off big time. Common interests, common upbringing, etc. She had a boyfriend though, and I don't try and mess around with anyone I work/have class with. So we flirted a...

Hey guys, This has popped up a couple times in the last little while. A couple girls I was chasing have mentioned the same "critique" of my game: taking unnecessary time escalating from conversation/rapport to the first kiss. This has always been a known sticking point for me, but I've always...

Hey guys, Just wanting to hear opinions on this. With all the talk I hear on this site about "running very quickly" away from a relationship with single mums, I'm curious what the collective thoughts are on being a step-dad. Yay or nay? Is it a legitimate gig, or is it always considered a...

Hi guys, I'm just curious what some of you have told girls after you've moved on to greener pastures. I'm not talking about nasty savage breakups or one-itis "no-contact" types, but the ones where you meet a chick, you guys hit it off but you aren't really that in to her. There's a girl I...

Hi guys, Just want a second opinion here before I pull the trigger on anything: Backstory is the other day, a friend from waaaay back (3 years) got in touch out of the blue. We were always pretty close, but I was a bad AFC in my earlier years, and while I wanted to hook up with her, it...

Hey guys, Strange request here, but bear with me. I was wondering if any of you guys could share any experiences or stories you've heard about the "Nice Guy" getting screwed over. I need a bit of re-affirmation haha. My game is pretty solid for the most part, and I outwardly project the...

Hey guys, Just looking for opinions on how to deal with another female in my life. She is pretty cool, but I'm looking for LTR material right now. I have FBs on the side, but as entertaining as it is, my ultimate goal for my life is a proper LTR. So with that in mind, like I said, this...

Hey guys, lurked here for a while, but figured I'd post a question that's been nagging at me. Alright, so there's a girl I met spontaneously at a pub, we got chatting, I got her number, eventually called to set something up. Found out she lived in another city, but I had nothing exciting to...