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I posted this on another board, but felt it was appropriate to repost it here: In relationships, it is extremely tempting for men to be completely open and honest with women. This is a mistake. From the very beginning of a relationship, a man must compartmentalize a small part of himself so...

An old friend of mine once asked me what I was doing. I told him in a tone of voice that was mostly sarcastic, indicating that it should be pretty obvious. He asked the question again. I started getting annoyed, and was deciding whether to ignore him or tell him to bugger off and stop...

I thought some of you might appreciate this (although it may have been posted previously): Why men die first is a question that has gone unanswered for centuries, but now we know: If you put a woman on a pedestal and try to protect her from the rat race, > you're a male chauvinist; if you...

For the past two years I’ve been dating a high-quality (now 28 year old) woman who has many of the things I’ve looked for in a long-term relationship. Presently, however, I’ve been on the receiving end of mounting pressure to take our relationship to the next level. In other words, to either...

It’s human nature to want to blame someone else for your mistakes. What you need to admit to yourself is that the reason your relationship failed is most likely because you failed, rather than the other way around. You missed the little cues that her interest level in you was dropping faster...

BERLIN (Reuters) - The modern Western woman is now almost as likely to cheat on her partner as a man, according to a new survey carried out for a German women's magazine. In an online survey of 1,427 men and women aged between 25 and 35 by the Hamburg-based GEWIS institute for social...

Do you ever ask yourself why one man leads a group of men, while all other men follow? Why women fight amongst themselves for that one man, while they may have many other men in the group from which to choose? Do you want to be that man? Of course you do. The first rule of behavioral...

Another poster on the Tips board included in his post a link containing the following excerpt regarding sleep and testosterone levels: Sleeping less than 7-8 hours a night can screw up your body's circadian rhythm. That's why it's no wonder your testosterone levels are higher in the morning...

The vast majority of posters on this site encourage you to adopt the mindset that you are the prize, and that women should be grateful to spend time with you. Guess what -- they’re wrong – and you’re even more wrong if you do. Yes, you read correctly. Adopting the “I’m the prize” mindset...

I am a firm believer in that each and every human being is destined for greatness in some fashion. Each and every day I see someone, my age or younger, achieving a particular goal and think to myself “I could do that if I put my mind to it.” A psychologist might call my belief a “grandiose...

A great many posts on this site have advised that men should think they’re the prize to be won in order to be successful with women. For the most part, such advice is garbage, and is not worth the time either to read nor repeat every few months. The mindset of thinking you’re the prize will...

I’ve written previously about the fact that everyone has an agenda. There’s nothing wrong with having an agenda. The mistake you often make is helping someone else achieve his or her agenda, without focusing on how your charity affects the achievement of your agenda. If you ever want to...

Came across a posting in the Discussion forum on rebuilding a damaged reputation. While difficult, it's not impossible. I did a quick web search to see if someone had written on the issue (to save me the trouble), and came across the following, which although not exactly addressing the issue...

"Today is the first day of the rest of your life." -- origin unknown. I'm sure you've heard or read the foregoing phrase numerous times, but I bet you've never really understood it. Essentially, you need to forget about your past mistakes, or rather, forget about the disappointment and pain...

As a reader of this web site, I assume you want to have your pick of attractive women for sex, a relationship, or both. If that is truly one of the things you want, why haven’t achieved your goal? Why do you continuously fail, and each time question your abilities or even your self-worth as a...

After spending almost a year on this forum, I’ve noticed hundreds of posts that start out: “I like this girl but…” “I can’t talk to her…” “I don’t have…” “I don’ know…” “Why did she…” “My parents didn’t…” Frankly, I’m sick and tired of hearing people whine about their problems. The truth is...

Thought I would repost here what I originally posted in the Discussion Forum -- things seem to get lost on that board after a while: Many of you who read this board have come across the concept of dating "role reversal." For those of you who are in, or about to enter your early to mid 20s, read...

Recently, several postings have addressed the fickleness of female decision-making. That is, the unwillingness (conscious or otherwise) of a woman to make up her mind about anything, and about men in particular. I'm sure you've asked yourself the question "why won't she decide to [fill in the...