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Welcome aboard. Cosmo huh? What are they saying about us over there. Exactly. That was the whole point of this thread, to differentiate between what CREATES attraction and what ESCALATES or SUSTAINS it. The problem is, there is little emphasis on demonstrating value here and so much on...

Very good post. Btw, how did you find this site? You make bring up a lot of great points and issues that are very important when playing the game, but the topic is what 'creates' attraction. Now, you mention uncertainty. But is that enough? What prevents the girl across the room from me...

Challenge can certainly "create" attraction, but within a very specific context. What value does a real diamond have that an synthetic diamond does not? Why choose one over the other? Then again, neither present any value if you cannot see them. So some sort of advertising or display of...

If you can get any girl you want why do you choose a name like toilet paper? [/B] That is one of the funniest things I've ever read on this site.

I think that perhaps what makes a seductionist a seductionist is that he KNOWS what he's doing. A lot of guys are just alpha just to "show off" or "fit in" or "raise their social status" and chicks somehow accidentally flock to them. A real seductionist is someone who is in CONTROL and doesn't...

Nick, what is "direct seduction"? Using your words to make a woman desire you? And everything else is indirect? Well, if it's that bit of play with semantics, then I'll agree with you. But seduction is seduction to me, whether is covert or simply relying on something else. Social proof...

I disagree Nick. What define's a pick-up? Your looks are displayed no matter what. On the dance floor, you can display your attitude, confidence, alphaness, command of the situation, body language, all of which are components of success in a pick-up. Why is that you feel these things are...

Chance, great post. Hopefully this is in the bible.

I understand your objection, and you're free to have your opinion on the matter. But, I thought were talking about anchoring here, and why does that necessarily involve transfering emotions she has for another person? In either case, i'm tired of debating, so blah.

Drew, can you at least post a better explanation of anchoring, or talk to me later about it because i'm horribly inexperienced and would like further clarification. Jester, you've come to that point where "ethics" and being "manipulative" are raising some questions. I've been through similar...

Just a Girl, since you are new here, I'll cut you slack. I am myself, and other confident men are too. If being myself were all I needed to get girls, life would be rather simple and relationship boards for both parties would not be necessary. If you can contribute to something more other...

Ok, at this point you're simply looking for nitpicks against SS and NLP. First of all, let me preface that i'm not a fanboy of either of these, I simply am going to speak from experience from usage of either and my knowledge of behavioral psych. An anchor is not a SS specific concept, is...

The number of times you associate one said thing with another is irrelevant to the actual point that associations are created with time. You have to start at one conversation much like you start at one ringing of the bell. It is not so black and white as "it's there" or "it's not there". The...

best. post. ever.

Ok, let me explain some stuff for the less endowed. Most NLP stuff can be explained through a basic class in behavior psychology people, geez. Read a book. Do you know what classical conditioning is? That's all an anchor is. Now go f.ucking look it up if you don't know.

Alright, I'll chime in. I like the tools in a toolshed analogy being used. But do we have all the tools we need? Is the strict adherence to the DJ rules obstructing us from attaining those tools? I have been doing some thinking lately about sosuave and the DJ system. What is the goal of the...

Don't troll.

I agree 100% with Sir_Chancelot on this one.

Good job hannibal. You deserved it. Wednesday may be a bit too soon, only 2 days. But it's upto you, if you think that she had high interest, then she might go for it. Call with a plan, do some small chit chat and set up for a fun date. I am on small hiatus from site but will check in for...

See the thread on "power" and my response.