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This is one question where there'll be a unanimous consensus here. Stay real to the friends. They'll be there for you long after the girl is.

What sort of "closure" are you looking for? I've found that when people say the need closure from a past relationship, it's just another way of them wanting to feel like they didn't actually do the wrong they think they caused. In your case, ZeeOwl, I'm wondering how much of the hurt and...

If you're moving on for real, there's no reason to give a flying fluck whether she notices your improvements. If she finds out somehow, good for her, but she's old history isn't she?

You've got some good stuff here, Gordon. I must take exception to this one particular bit of advice, though. I'm still too young to be an expert in any discipline, but I've observed that the wisest people I know are those that have rised to the top of one field and used their understanding of...

There's some great advice here, guys, and I especially like this bit. Get him to see that things would be better off without her, and at the very least not to get too deep into the relationship. You can start by bringing up the issue about her not taking him to show off her reunion. Was she...

Then there's no real disagreement, since I totally agree with this. Sheesh indeed. :confused:

Jebus, there's waaaay to many different threads going on in here. But there's been enough good answers already. No need to add to the drama, just give her a pithy answer about how she's not getting any special treatment.

If she waits til AFTER you sit down to mention that, it's pretty damm rude on her part. I'd say, "Thanks for the heads up, I'll remember it for next class." Then start talking to someone else. Remember, you don't only have to meet potential dates in class; it's a great place to make friends...

I don't recall hearing any "tried and true" methods for e-mail. I know that David deAngelo likes to use it, but it's not as common here. My first guess too was that her mentioning e-mail might be some kind of test, to see if you'll "follow orders" so to speak, but upon second reading, I'm not...

I don't recall hearing any "tried and true" methods for e-mail. I know that David deAngelo likes to use it, but it's not as common here. My first guess too was that her mentioning e-mail might be some kind of test, to see if you'll "follow orders" so to speak, but upon second reading, I'm not...

Excellent post! It's so true that people have as much power over you as you'll let the have. You got the game in your favour once you see through her beauty.

Excellent posts here, guys! WildThang, I've just got a couple of questions about what you wrote. 1. What's the name of that book about male loyalty? It's not a topic I hear much discussion about, and I'd like to check it out. 2. What ideas do you have for testing our women to see if they're...

I've got a sudden urge to read some Plato when I get home. I agree with Nine Breaker, this is an excellent post, Juan Wannabe. And Part 2 is even better!

I don't think Deagleclaw's point was to be "jerkish" when he said that. What I assumes he means is that it's better for the guy to know BEFORE the wedding that his fiancee will cheat on him. Of course, I'm sure most guys wouldn't actually see it this way.

BUMP *Phew*, I'm done bumping the main ones I found helpful. I have no idea how many of these will be archived, but they'll be of interest to many of us, at least.

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