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No contact is usually GOOD, but it becomes bad when the man goes OUT OF HIS WAY to avoid her, an example would be deliberately avoiding mutual friends that HE WANTS TO SEE because she might be there. So by all means, go no contact, but don't let it stop you from doing other things you want to do.

Pretend you're in an exclusive relationship with a girl (or if you are, no need to pretend ;)). If she cheated on you, what would you do? Are there any circumstances where you would NOT break up with her? Personally I do not give second chances to cheaters. No mind if it's sex or just a kiss...

There's too much talk about BPD women here. You want to know how to treat them? Or what to do if they're causing you grief? TREAT THEM LIKE ANY OTHER WOMAN. They get NO special treatment. You wouldn't let a woman with a healthy mind fvck around with you, so don't let a BPD women. Mental...

Over the years I've heard a lot of men complain "I don't have time to go to the gym" or do something similar. In the meantime, they find the time to spend 2 hours per day watching TV. If you can't find the time to work out, obviously you don't the time to watch TV. Or play video games. Or sit...

Do looks matter? Here's the only answer you need: You don't NEED good looks to get women. But they HELP, they make it EASIER. They get your foot in the door. They can give girls that initial spark of lust. Same goes for money, status, fame, and expensive cars. You don't NEED any of that to...

Get laid or die trying: what if you took this attitude to getting women? And not just with women, but to everything in your life? Can't get a date? Yes you can. You're just sitting on your lazy ass and not trying. If you are complaining to strangers on the internet about not being able to...

Think about it: by going "no contact", you're letting your EX interfere with your life. No contact is for chumps who do not have the self control to be level headed around a woman they used to be with. No contact: basically where you drop all contact with a woman who just broke up with...

Are you being "tested" by a girl? Do you think that she might be "testing" you? Here's what to do: Do not think about whether or not you are being "tested". Why? Because it doesn't matter. DO NOT LET HER BEHAVIOUR AFFECT YOU. Act like you always do. If her actions do not affect you, you...

Again I see a fair few guys here talking about a girl or ex with BPD. For example, right now there is one guy asking "was my ex BPD?" I have 2 better questions: 1. Why do you care? 2. Why does it matter? Let me elaborate: 1. Does it really matter why she is jerking you around and...

It seems that every time I visit here there's a couple of guys asking about text messages. They want to know the ideal response to something a woman sent them, why their girl hasn't replied to them, or to rate their text game, before posting a dozen or so text messages that they've exchanged...

Since there's been a couple of threads about STIs and HIV lately, I thought it would be prudent to point out the risk groups, the women that you do not ever want to have unprotected sex with (specifically in regard to HIV.) 1. Hard drug users, drugs like heroin and coke. If she has done these...

You've probably heard the phrase "dating is a numbers game". It's true. The more women you approach, the more you'll find who are interested, and the more you'll sleep with. No matter how good or bad you are with women, this holds true. The more women approach, the better you'll get, and the...

It seems that every time I visit here, there's a new thread on online dating. Sites like plenty of fish, craigslist, and anything else. I'll just lay it out: internet dating is the worst way to meet women. Yes, you can meet women and get laid through online dating. But it's the worst way to...

Testing. A lot of men say that women "test" them, for congruence, or to see their reaction to see if they're actually an AFC under their suave exterior. Women don't actually know they're testing men. They aren't doing it on purpose. They aren't even doing is subconsciously. What they're doing...