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Hi. I should start by saying I'm sort of a veteran to these boards. In the beginning it really helped me some. I've always had social anxiety, but in my early to mid-twenties, after reading many of the articles, I'd gotten pretty decent at approaching girls. Back when I was a student at a...

I haven' t posted here for a very long time, and I feel a little weird about doing it. But I had a discussion with my friend last night, and this topic seems worthy of a post, so I thought I'd go for it. He met a girl who works in the cafeteria at his dorm, and she always goes out of her way...

I've noticed when I look in the mirror, that it looks like I am developing a six-pack. When I flex my abdominal muscles, it's even more noticeable. However, only when the light hits it just right. It seems to disappear when I step out of it. My current ab routine is two sets of 30 crunches...

This is sort of a field report, or as close as I’m going to get to one at this point. I recently started up my second summer session class. Last session, it was pretty unfortunate, because there were only three females out of about twelve students, only one of them was above a 7. This session...

There's a girl I want to ask to go to a party with me next week. Tickets are on sale now, so I'd like to get them soon, in case they run out. I called the girl today and her sister answered. She explained that she had the cell phone for the night, but would let her know that I called. My...

This summer, I’ve been taking an English course at night. My teacher usually sees me waiting in the lobby after class as he is leaving. From chatting with him after class, he knows I usually get a ride home from my mom. Today in class we were reading a short story having to do with class (as in...

OK, here’s the latest update on the saga with that girl. For those of you haven’t been following my series of threads, (or those who have, and aren’t already bored out of your freakin’ mind with them), here is the background info. Reading it is optional, but if you still want to know…...

Lately, as it is summer and the semester has ended, there have been little opportunities for me to meet women. One of the reasons for this, I believe is my routine. I go to the gym, I go to class, sometimes I’ll go out with a friend, but very little else. I’m taking a night class, which runs...

I've been working out at the gym nearly every day for about three months now. My ultimate goal is to gain more muscle mass. Right now I weigh about 120 pounds (I've actually gained about 10 since I started going). Today, one of the guys at the gym suggested to me that I purchase some weight...

I've been taking a course this summer for college. So far it's been going pretty well. Today I had a conversation with one of the girls in my class. I asked for her number, saying that I may need to call someone in case I missed an assignment. (I know that's kind of tricky, but I witnessed my...

Here is the link to my previous thread with the background information: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28820 So here’s what went down. She did end up calling back—she and her friend picked me up at my house and we went over to her friends’ house to watch a...

Those of you who are reading this, here is one of the few times I will say it is actually important that you go back and read my other thread in order to appreciate the full impact of this post. http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28613 That being said, something...

My other thread was getting kind of long, so I decided to continue the topic on a new one. For those who need the background information, here's the original thread. http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28305 Well, after a couple of days of stressing out, the time...

Okay, so I finally got a girls phone number after about a year of not doing it. I was so excited when it happened, but I soon went right back to being stressed out. Now I actually have to call her on the phone and try and make some plans, but I don’t know how I’m going to pull it off. In the...

I felt like writing this post, because I am fresh off the heels of a bad night last night and I am very discouraged. I went to a social gathering and was planning on asking a girl out, but I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. I couldn’t really have as good a time as I wanted, because the...

Once again, it's the end of the semester and still no girl. I just can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. I'm 23 years old, I've been trying for five or six years, I've been coming to this site for nearly three years and reading the information, but I've still yet to see any results. I've gotten...

Now I'm really confused. I found out that a girl I know might like me. So what's the problem here? The problem is (believe it or not), I don't like her. I get along with her better than most people, and I think of her as a friend, but nothing more. A guy I spoke to in the lobby, whom I guess...

I think I'm finally starting to get the hang of what you guys call the "number close". This is the second day in a row that I've been able to get a girls' phone number and I don't think that's ever happened to me before. However there are a few things that I am still a bit curious about. When...