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Time for me to butt in... Guys, many of you are missing a very crucial point. You become involved with a girl because a relationship with her is an ADDITIONAL thing in your life that you enjoy. You don't try to impress her, you don't try to make yourself into someone you are not, you don't...

You might try looking into her eyes, smiling, and saying "Do you know how happy you make me?" then kiss her passionately. Note that you have not said you are unhappy without her, you have not said she makes you happy, you have not said you love her. But, if I am correct, she will feel happy...

Where is this pic of WF I hear/read of? DJBe

This head vs. heart thing... *My Hall of Fame post about being objective at all times sums it up.* I went with my heart rather than my brain with my last girlfriend and it took me almost a year to get over her after she used me as her emotional dumpster and therapist, broke up with me and...

Given how many people make the same mistakes over and over, such as a woman who continually pursues men who abuse her, I'd have to say that it is not the case that you "learn valuable lessons" or your heart "sees you through whatever comes next." Lessons learned are learned with the brain...

Wyldfire, You are absolutely, positively, without any reservation whatsoever, wrong. Your brain always has the right answers; your heart only has answers it hopes for. DJBe

Over a week ago I made plans with a girl to go out this Friday. Today, Thursday, she sends me an e-mail saying she is sorry but has had second thoughts about it and is canceling. Now, part of me says hey, call her and talk with her playfully and in good spirits and nudge her toward going...

Aint it true? And my how the truth hurts! I guess it takes a woman to turn a boy into a man... DJBe

BGC, Regardless of his intent, her intent, or your intent, there is way too much drama and resentment in your relationship. Honestly, I don't think it will last much longer -- one of you is going to end it. If she eventually tells you she will no longer communicate with him will you believe...

After my ex dumped me I told her that while she and I were together she should not have been hanging out on occasion with the guy she dated before me, which she had been doing on occasion, because she was not over him. Her response was to tell me that she didn't like that I was telling her that...

Here is the deal: 1) Let's assume that these girls like you. 2) They like other activities and events in their lives more than they like you. It's a matter of priorities, and a woman who wants a certain man will make him the number one priority in her life. You may be in the top 20, or even...

Here is the deal: A woman will only date a confident man. So if she is on a first date with you she assumes you are confident. If she determines that you are not confident, this will be two dates in one -- first and last. You are a man. You go after what you want, because you want it. If...

One thing to remember is that high interest which is formed upon an initial meeting is generally superficial. It is still interest, but it isn't so much about who the man is, rather, the obvious things she sees. Perhaps one bad thing about this is that very high initial interest is fairly...

But Peak, it seems that when you ignore chicks they chase you; when you are aloof they are interested in you. Seems ya gotta play cold for them to be warm. DJBe

Chris, Chris, Chris... you are forgetting that the question isn't being posed for the man's sake, but for the woman's. She simply wants to hear that she does not look fat. Remember, truth is meaningless to women, what matters to them is how they feel and what they want to hear. It doesn't...

Probably the most important lesson I've learned from this board is that one should be sure to view a woman's behavior from an objective, 3rd person view. Often, if we like a woman, we will justify her behavior when she does something we don't like. Step back, ask yourself how would a 3rd...

A good one is to say "You've got something in your hair" while you brush her hair with your hand. You can then run your hand to her shoulder and down her arm as part of the brushing motion. You neg her and get kino (brushing her hair with your hand is something that you would do if you were...

Alot of girls when problems arive, they run away. This are the girls that don't really like you or just wanted to fuc* you.[/B] Wow. Gotta agree with this one big time. When they will work out problems it means they want a relationship; when they take off it means they were just using you...

Snoopy: Almost a year since you've seen her? Forget her. The fact that you are obesessing over her after this long indicates you are not being a DJ. You need to get back into the DJ zone and prep up that ATTITUDE. Treat all women as commodities and not focus on just one. In college men...