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    Girl at library

    All you have to do is try. Say hello and see what happens. If it doesn't work out, there are other women.
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    I have a serious personality.

    Being serious and telling it like it is has some benefits. The most obvious is that you don't screw around, i.e. you go after the girl. But, I can see your concern. The key is to learn how to be straightforward in the right circumstances, and reserved in others. In other words, take a...
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    Worst story ever. Is it possible to go from introvert to extrovert. I got nothing

    Jack, all I can say is that you're thinking too much. Beating yourself up; what does that accomplish? Give yourself some credit for hitting the gym, trying to improve yourself both mentally and physically. Who the hell cares what one or two girls think? If you think they're right, then...
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    embarrassment?

    And that's all she wrote, it's a learning process.
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    Help her through it?

    You know the answer, becker. Just do things with her. If she needs your help she'll ask for it, then you'll have to make a decision. Caution is urged if you do decide to help her through, you don't want to become her crutch.
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    advanced questions

    In my opinion, this is the perfect time to merely agree with her agreement in whatever fashion works for you. That alone should put her off balance. If necessary, you can give her another neg-hit and see what happens. Otherwise, just let it go and move on to the next.
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    WTF is going on?

    as simplistic as this is, it sounds like you're trying too hard. you'd like something serious and are pushing the issue. you merely seem unhappy, etc. to these women because of, what they see as, your eagerness.
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    The "Grown Folks" Forum is Back!

    This seems like it has potential. Can't promise I'll be a regular again, but I can always learn something while sandbagging.
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    Hairy Legs

    There's no need to shave your legs unless you're a competitive swimmer, bodybuilder, or you're growing trees. A light trim may be necessary at times, but there's rarely a need to bic it.
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    All members read, especially Newbies.

    Ironic that I'm perusing around the same time as Hidden-Danjer. As another 'dinosaur' it's been some time since I've been here, but the same issues do indeed remain.
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    what if you're ugly?

    perhaps i'm nuts...maybe i'm losing it... but, i was sure i responded to this post...(that is, try being a visual don juan with the personality of a tree, see where you get) and now it's gone...what the hell is going on? this is the second time my post was deleted for no apparent reason. my...
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    PAIN, The great teacher

    i couldn't agree with you more hef. the exact same thing happened to me and i learned lots from the pain she put me through. these days i don't let beauty get in the way of my better judgement. trust, as well as respect, are vital in a serious relationship and a b!tch like that deserves...
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    My Pet Peeve

    anyone complaining about not getting girls while at the same time admitting not trying. devil [This message has been edited by Blue-eyed Devil (edited 11-01-2000).]
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    Don't Leave Home Without It

    i'm with ad, terminator and everyone else who carries the supplies... i've been carrying a pen for years just for that purpose...never leaked and never poked me...some people are just paranoid i guess... devil "It's not the will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the...
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    About The Book, "The 48 Laws of Power"...

    yes and i agree to the similarities, at least from what armand has said. i'll have to check this book out. devil
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    You can dump on AD all you want....

    you make a good point smitty. but, most every time a thread gets lots of responses, that is the result. talk about being immature, these people stop the advice and opinions about the subject at hand and go after one another, STUPID!! if i vanish it'll only be for a while anyway, just until...
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    You can dump on AD all you want....

    time for my .02. what forum is this? dj? or kiss ad's a$$ and bash devlar or anyone else that disagrees?? c'mon, this is damn stupid. i don't agree with much of ad's advice but that simply translates into me not utilizing it, i don't take devlar's advice much of the time either (if advice...
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    Heartbreak Survivor, Episode I, Part 1: The Return of the User

    you're on the right track survivor. i've been in the exact spot, a couple times actually. i would do the same thing, follow my heart initially and then kick myself for it afterwards. the only way to handle it is to learn from you mistakes and maintain your focus. nobody said getting over a...
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    Arguably one of the most important tips Allen Thompson has ever given.

    personally, i think you're realizing a basic truth. it was an article on this site that mentioned the importance of the smile...it was something like "the magic wand," although i'm not sure. the point is...women notice the smile cuz it conveys that you are happy and having a good time and feel...
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