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    Foreign Girls

    I've been dating a foreign girl for a while... Unlike many american girls, she does anything I want in bed, not a gold-digger, extremely polite, helpful, respectful, not to mention fun as hell. But I've noticed she's clingy too. She calls me twice a day every day. Is that a bad thing? It was a...
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    Asking for phone numbers from internet dates

    > But how long should i continue chatting online > and talking on the phone before a first real date?? > a week, a month? What's worked for me is about 2 or 3 emails (over the course of a few days or a week) and then ask for the number. When you call, keep it short, and ask her out on the...
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    How do you find a Wife or LTR?

    I feel your pain, I'm from an uber-christian family too and they are going to be sorely disappointed when I marry a heathen. But it's your life, you're the one who's marrying some girl, not them, so find a woman who makes your life better, not theirs. As for where to find a religious woman...
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    How long would you wait to propose to a girl?

    To answer the question "how long would I wait" there are a couple reasons longer is better. You should at least wait until well after the infatuation has worn off (as someone already mentioned). In my experience, it really takes 6 months or more for that to happen. Additionally, some girls are...
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    Teenage girls?

    I turned 30 this year too! What, it's like cool now, everybody's doing it? :D All I have to say is, holy f#cking sh!t, I just checked and the age of consent in PA is 16, all this time I thought it was 18! Let this be a lesson to you, know the age of consent where you live!
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    I challenge the core of sosuave

    First off, (Lifeforce) I appreciate the critical thought that went into your post. Having the core challenged is always a good thing, if we can think critically about it and be better for it. I just had to respond to some things: "I just say, what's up with all the work? Why on earth would...
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    gay jokes

    Ok, back to gay jokes... What about joking about yourself? I make jokes implying my ambiguous orientation but I'm 100% straight and everybody who's met me even once knows I'm 100% straight, that's what makes it so funny.
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    Went To Dance, Now What?

    Please for the love of god don't talk yourself out of kissing her!Her "I'm not ready to date anybody yet" excuse goes out the window when she meets somebody she likes. Listen to stains' advice, you won't be disappointed - just kiss her. If she's into you she'll amazingly find herself ready to...
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    South Asian (ie 'East Indian') Girls

    I dated an indian (dot, not feather) for 2 years. She was hot! Would I do it again? Heck yeah! That look just does it for me for some reason
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    body language and 'signals'

    Ok, we all know by now the basics of body language, the 'kiss test' etc. My question for you is: how much weight do you give to reading someone's body language and interpreting their signals when it comes time to make your move? I had a girl over one evening recently (haven't done anything...
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    Arrogance/being ****y..when it gets out of hand

    > I jokingly told her I wouldn't want to eat her out anyways > because it would probably taste like pork Ok, yes it was a funny joke. But the F in C/F should be funny to the audience (here, the girl) not just to you. I don't know this girl, but my first guess would be that this was most...
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    27 and nothing

    You're right, the advice here is not going to help. It's good advice, but not for what you have. When your mental state is such that you are paralyzed, you are incapacitated to the point of not being to go to the mall, not being able to so much as look at people, etc, that says to me that...
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    Boot Camp Thread (Opening May 2nd)

    Ok, my finals are over and I started this thing friday, so I'm a little behind but I'll catch up this week. 5/8/2004 Exercise 1: went to the mall and walked around for 1/5 hour, looking at peoples’ eyes and making eye contact with as many people as I could. I found that most people will...
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    "your such a nice guy"

    I know what you mean, I've gotten this a number of times too. Usually for me it was "you're such a wholesome guy" I took that to mean "asexual momma's boy." When I realized what this all meant, the next time a girl told me that I said "well you still have a few things to learn about me" and...
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    Boot Camp Thread (Opening May 2nd)

    Hey Fuzz, I'm not really local to you, but let's partner up. It's good to have a real person to answer to who will e-kick my ass if I start to drop out!
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    Boot Camp Thread (Opening May 2nd)

    boot camp I have finals this week but I really want to do the DJBC, so count me in! I can't start until thursday but will catch up. Does anybody still need a partner? (I didn't know they did partners with this!)
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    Confessions of an Imposter

    --------------------------------------------------------------------- [snip] --------------------------------------------------------------------- I hadn't gotten laid before because my brain was flooded with all these false and mysogynistic ideas of women. I had rigged myself to "Not Be...
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    Meeting in an elevator, what's a good approach?

    I've talked to girls at the coffee mess (similar time crunch as in the elevator) and said "Hi I think I've seen you around before but don't know your name..." You kindof gauge how interested she is in chatting from the way she responds, if everything's good and she wants to make smalltalk for an...
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    Don Juans Everywhere!

    USA / Pennsylvania / philadelphia
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    "Speed" Dating Revisited

    I've done speed dating a few times, both 8-mintue and 3-minute varieties. I've hooked up with one girl (HB8) from it, and made some friends (from the UGs), overall I'd say it was a good experience. I approach the speed dating events like a party, there's a bunch of people, you talk to everyone...
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