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    how to leave her feeling she lost you after she rejects your 2nd date request bluntly

    Why do you care? At that point the broad is completely useless to you. There is nothing you can say in a text that will make her feel like she "lost you". Rejection sucks, but you are playing a petty game. If you want to piss her off say something like "HAHAHA I was KIDDING. You're...
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    I'm eating lunch with a girl this Friday, the problem is she has a boyfriend

    I'm afraid I'm going to have to agree with Wrokerouter. You need to step out of your comfort zone and build up a social network of guys who do know how to hook up with girls. Is there a spiritual reason for not drinking? I would have to say that success with women generally increases...
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    Why don't we call women out on their sh!t?

    You hold her accountable by showing her the door.
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    The smoothest thing you ever said to a woman!

    Girl at party who I never met before: "Hey I really like your shirt!" Me: "I like yours....we should trade" Girl: "Okay" Me: "Alright follow me" She followed me to my room and we both took our shirts off and started making out.
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    Learning to bite your tongue

    That is awesome. I think that speaking your mind is actually DJ-like behavior that can work in your favor. However, I do see how there are circumstances that can get you in trouble i.e. wing-manning it for a bro. I don't see how anyone can give you advice on how to keep your mouth shut in...
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    I'd like some opinions on something I did during an approach.

    I laughed pretty hard at that.....Pretty brutal. To OP: I agree with the curtain- you didn't really have anything to lose from going back and confirming that you had her number. I think if her IL was still high from your initial interaction, it shouldn't matter that you may have looked a...
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    Slick101 Easy To Move On?

    That is awful advice.....I really hope that is a joke.
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    I have a problem calling

    If you can set up dates without calling i.e. in person than I don't see the problem. If phone game is something you want to improve on in general: I used to be the same way....Just like everything else in life it just takes doing it a lot to get comfortable with it. I go to a university as...
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    DJ Way to handle confrontation

    I'm a white-ass so I can't fully relate. If it was me I find that making fun of yourself usually diffuses the situation as well as makes you look confident. I've been made fun of for being a "cracker" or people calling me a nazi because of my German ancestry- so in every situation I just play...
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    The ex is back and I'm getting sucked in

    Honestly this girl has exhibited more red flags than the Soviet Union. And not to mention she is just f*cking weird. No wonder she is with the ugly/ loser boyfriend- what do you think that says about her? I wonder if she wears gas masks and voodoo sh*t while she is getting pounded by her new...
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    girl im interested but her friend really likes me :S any advice?

    ^Agreed. I find it is usually more trouble than is worth it to get involved in a triangle such as this when both girls know each other. Even if you do get with the hot one, I'm sure the other one will make her feel guilty and then you have lost the girl as well as your clubbing social circle...
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    Red Flags that the girl isn't a keeper

    If she has a general lack of trust for men due to past relationships.....or if shes a rape victim, had bad relationship with father, etc.
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    So many failures that it's starting to become funny!

    I know exactly what you mean. It took me a while to realize that happiness has to come before success, instead of relying on success to bring happiness. After one particular failure with a one-itis I sort of snapped and came to this realization. All of the sudden "getting girls" meant nothing...
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    FR at a party & need advice

    I would go for something like this: "So I'm thinking of hosting a BP tournament at my place....We should be partners since we tore it up the other night" I would call her when I propose this (not text) and see if she could come over to "practice". You don't actually have to go through with it...
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    Forgot the girls name..

    "So I am a horrible speller, how do you spell your name so I have it in my phone correctly?" The drawback is she'll think your a dumb@ss if her name is Jane or something.
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    Lil' problem

    I had the same problem mostly during my freshman year of college. I thought that I looked ridiculous when I danced, and I probably did (hell most white people are bad at dancing). However, eventually I got fed up and started practicing in front of the mirror- sounds lame, but it helped me...
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    How about a success story for once

    To add to the positivity: Last night I was gonna study and do homework till a buddy of mine called me up to go out to a club event last minute. I threw on a scandalous Tarzan costume he had left over from another party (because it went with the theme) and then started taking shots at a...
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    Playing Games or Time to Move On

    To put it simply: The one who cares the least dictates what happens in the relationship. It has taken me many failures to fully grasp this. If you are asking how to get a that "one" girl you are already 90% towards failure.
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    Girl with too much power over me

    She sounds like a head case. I'd say move forward with caution and don't push any more ultimatums on her. Maybe put her in the friend-zone and start hitting up other girls just to get your mind off of her. This sounds like its heading for disaster IMO, but if you really want it you have to...
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    error in what i was trying to convey, how should i have said it?

    This. The fact that you brought it up inadvertently showed her that it bothers you, or at least that you were thinking about it. You gotta let the little fish go so that you can catch the big one later. Or at least let the little fish roam until she becomes the big fish. Point is: you...
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