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    Escalating towards the first kiss

    Whats the best way to move in for the first kiss? This has always been one of my stumbling blocks and my inability to properly get the kiss has led me to the "friend zone" more than once. What do you self-proclaimed don juans do? Two or three nights ago I had a girl over watching movies...
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    Defeatist Attitude?

    How many of you have heard this phrase: "You only find someone when you aren't looking" I am so sick of this phrase. I need some good comebacks to it. The other day I was trying to talk a friend into coming out with me to pickup. He responded with: "you don't find someone when you are...
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    Moment of Weakness

    Hey guys, I am trying to overcome a ton of hurdles in regards to picking up. I really need some advice to turn these negatives into positives. I am enduring a huge moment of weakness. Like for the whole past month. Here are my stumbling blocks: 1.)There just aren't enough places...
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    Funny thing

    I've been trying a new experiment lately. I've been more sexual in my speech and more ****y; I have been mocking women left and right - making fun of their clothes and their speech and whatever I can think of, I mock it. I walk away when they talk to me and make fun of them in front of...
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    Tricked into buying drinks

    Here's something everyone can learn from: Went to a club about two weeks ago and started talking to these three girls. During our conversation, a girl asked me if I had ever tried a certain kind of shooter. Can't remember the name, but I think it might have been called a "liquid orgasm" or...
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    Bulking up, Christian Bale style

    Hey skinny dudes, my brothers, check this out. In the Machinist, Christian Bale got his weight down to 121 lbs from about 185 lbs, which is where he was around American Psycho. Then, ONE year later when he was filming Batman Begins, he was UP to 230 lbs. ONE YEAR LATER, 100 pounds heavier...
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    Plenty of B!tches

    Oh man, I am dying here. I'm on plenty of fish. Not everyday, but I have a profile and periodically I check it out, and I'll send messages to the girls that viewed me. What a bunch of b!tches!!!! I have read on this forum that pof is crap and now I finally get it. Wow. I have had...
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    Clubgame vs Daygame

    I've been hibernating most of the long cold winter here in Canada and have just recently started going to clubs again and boy, it's taking its toll on my patience. The music is waaaay too loud to talk comfortably. Half the dudes there are DOUBLE the size of me. Every girl I see, has like...
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    Bartender

    Ok...so theres a restaurant chain (in Canada, not sure about the States) called Moxies. In this restaurant there are dozens of waitresses. All of them are 9's and 10's easily. The bartender there is probably an 11 out of 10. I assume she gets hit on ten - twenty times a day. Problem is...
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    Hot n cold woman

    Hey y'all! Quick question. I have read lots about sh!t tests and still have a problem dealing with this one girl I work with. This isn't directly related to picking up, but it still affects my overall "social value" around work. There is this one girl who is a total b!tch to me. For NO...
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    Barrie PUA's

    Hey all, Any mature (over 27) men here looking to run game in Barrie? Let me know. I need someone to practise my skills with. NONE of my friends are into the clubscene. Im 33 I need a wing - Im not about to go to a club all alone.
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    First field report

    GOOD NEWS: I'm so proud, I feel as though I have lost my virginity!! BAD NEWS: I only went up to two girls (THIS time, but I did get a phone number) but heres the report: Her words are in caps... Approach one: Hi how are you, what are you looking for? FINE, JUST LOOKING FOR SHORTS...
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    Job stress

    I am getting paid WAY less than I am worth. I make about four - ten thousand for the company every 2-4 days and yet I personally am still usually broke. I KNOW I am worth more but they will NOT budge with regards to my pay level. I am wondering would you guys work at the top of your...
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    Wrinkles

    My face is STARTING to get some new lines and I am getting dark circles under my eyes, its not TOO bad but I can see it beginning. Does anyone know of any quick fixes, tricks or lifestyle/health tips that help slow or reverse the wrinkling process or that are generally good for the skin?
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    Not so sure anymore

    I dont know if I believe in this "dj" stuff anymore. I mean, I am UGLY. Not only that, but I am 5'4" and 124 lbs so I'm also TINY. I have a great new ATTITUDE from reading and practising the things on this site. For that I am so thankful. BUT....I don't believe just because I think...
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    Jobs

    Does it demonstrate low value to be a 33 year old waiter? My friend is a waiter and my other friend is a bartender (he's 35). I think they are lazy. But they got me beat - they both know tons more women than I do. I'm wondering how you dj's imagine a woman would view someone in these...
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    Handling rejection

    Ok, some of you may know I'm from a small town so my options for women are slim, especially during winter when I can't drive around as freely. I KNOW I shouldn't date "work chicks" and I won't in the future, but I have very few other options. Heres my dilemma.. I really like someone...
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    Great great song!

    Haha. Actually this song sucks. I heard it while taking a dump so I couldn't get up to change the station...but check out these lyrics: If I Were A Boy If I were a boy even just for a day I'd roll out of bed in the morning And throw on what I wanted And go drink beer with the guys...
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    What does it amount to?

    Some cities have hundreds of thousands of women, some have thirty or forty women. I am in the latter type of city and I am getting discouraged. I have been heeding the advice on here for a long time now, and I am doing very well - I now give proper eye contact, I've corrected my posture...
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    Yeah but is she INTERESTING??

    A thought came to my mind the other day while talking with some female co-workers... They were asking me who - at work - I would sleep with or date if I could have whoever I wanted. I told them to guess. Now, I guess this is where I differ from other dudes, because they ran through a list...
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