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    Too serious / non-sexual

    One problem that I have is that on first (and even on second) dates I am way too serious and non-sexual. The conversations flow really well (jobs, family, friends, hobbies, you name it). The girls open up and we can talk for hours. I also throw in some jokes. HOWEVER: at the end of the date...
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    Saturday night FR

    Just tooting my horn. ;) Went to a club, looking good, feeling confident. Some poor guy is trying to dance with this girl. She positions herself in front of me, but not facing towards me. I get the signals. I put my hands on her waist, pull her closer and start dancing. Within a minute, I turn...
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    Which path to take?

    I'm 33, doing well financially (good career), probably a 7 on the looks scale and have a sad history with women... I'm at a point in life where I have to choose between a) and b): a) either stay with the woman that I'm currently with, which may (or may not) lead to marriage & a family b)...
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    Let's talk STDs

    Alright, let's assume you get some STD from a girl. Not the annoying type, like gonorrhea, where you fight it off and then continue normally, but something more serious and transmissible. To name a few: hepatitis, herpes, HIV. What would you do next? Would you still date? Casually or look for...
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    Sell my motorcycle or not?

    Alright guys, I need some advice on selling my motorcycle or not. Actually, this is more than what to do with a motorcycle, but rather what to do with my time and money. Some background: I bought it one year ago, has kinda been a source of frustration (except when I rode it), because I couldn't...
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    All women are sluts

    Like the title says, all women are sluts. This girl - acquaintance, I was not involved with her in any way - was exhibiting all traits of a good girl: shy, not caring about guys' attention - avoiding them, actually ! - always in touch with her bf and so on. She claimed to leave home, but when...
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    Did you create a vision for yourself ?

    If you've been on the MANLY dating / motivational / self-help sites for some time now, then you already know enough to make it in life. But do you apply it ? If you do, then what's your direction ? Do you apply the advice randomly, or do you have a vision where you want to be ? For example...
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    The #1 Attraction Killer

    I have been perceived in multiple way throughout time. I've been seen as indifferent, mysterious, nerdy, nice, ****y, good looking, ugly, you name it. I have been a leech to the group, a lone wolf, one of the guys who's the life of the group, or one of the regular guys. Most of the times I did...
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    Things we did this year

    Let's see what each of us did this year. This thread might provide inspiration and motivation to keep up the good work in 2014. :up: I'll start: 1. Visited Greece. Twice. 2. Went to the gym and got in the best shape of my life. Guys and girls paid me compliments and it's the first time when I...
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    Clothing style

    Gents, I'm looking to change my wardrobe from the boyish jeans and t-shirt to something more stylish and attractive. (Non)requirements: - no suit - not overly metrosexual - a bad-boy edge to the style Yeah, I have no idea what I really what... Actually, what makes you feel attractive and...
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    Attention *****s are confusing!

    If I didn't know better, I'd get oneitis. I am probably on the verge right now... This girl is hot, hot, hot and has a personality to match. However, she's such a great attention *****! She wants every guy to pine over her, therefore has run game on almost everyone (minus the losers)...
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    Should I do it?

    I saved up some money (3 months worth of work) and I'm thinking of spending 2/3 of it to buy a new bicycle. Is it wise to do it in the current context? On one side I've always wished for such a machinery and it's one of my biggest passions (or at least it used to be; my interest has somewhat...
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    Gold = real estate = bubbles -> wet eyes :)

    Remember when everyone said that "they stopped producing land", that there will always be a demand for real estate and so on? Those were mostly true statements, but people misunderstood the real worth of those things. Was a sh!tty shed really worth hundreds of thousands of $$? Of course not...
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    I was going to buy myself a room in the campus today

    Like the title says, I was going to buy myself a room in the campus today, where to stay for a year. I met with the guy who was selling it and checked it out. It was a reasonably clean place, and reasonably crowded. Plenty of pretty girls in that part of the campus; living there would...
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    I should admit defeat

    I lack the courage and the motivation to try this stuff any further. Nature has played a fine joke on me: it gave me the brains, the looks, even the wits (when I'm around close friends/familiy), but made be socially inept (especially around girls). I'm not boasting; I've been called...
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    The Unforgivable Sin: Failure to Physically Escalate

    This is a quote from my favorite movie, Zorba the Greek: "God has a very big heart; but there is one sin He will not forgive: if a woman calls a man to her bed and he will not go!" And the more practical version for us men: Women could like you even if you make stupid mistakes; but there is...
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    study, poo, pleasure

    I remember reading about a study which showed that most people consider that taking a dump @ home, after work, is one of the most pleasurable things in life. I agree. :D hahaha :D
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    People not listening / talking over you

    I've been having a shiitty state of mind lately, and this started to affect my interaction with others. I have noticed that some people almost stopped caring about what I say and even start to talk over me. How would you approach this?
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    Mature men, I need your help!

    I really need some good insight. I want to make up for the totally wasted college experience by starting another university, preferably this autumn. I want to live in the dorms, socialize like crazy, be around people my age 24/7, party, and so on. I didn't live any of these in the last 5...
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    High energy, (low cost) foods for the lunch break

    I don't like spending triple for sh!t food while at work, so I'm searching for quick recipes that I could prepare at home and eat at the lunch break. What should I prepare?
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